Ok. My friend is really confused and I don't know how to help her so I need help. Here's the story. We went to a party and she hung out with this guy we are all friends with. His girlfriend was talking to me in the hot tub about the girl he was hanging out with. She was asking questions like"do you think he likes her and stuff like tht i was emailing her and she was saying how she knew his girlfriend was mad and she does like the guy soooooooo much but he has a girlfriend. And his girlfriend was saying I am going to dump him because he was hanging out with her and then said she wouldn't and she kept going reasons to dump him and reasons not to. And my friend wants them to break up because she really likes him but his girlfriend would kill her if they broke up and she went out with him. So what should my friend do?
2007-07-30 04:01:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Plenty of guys out there. She shouldn't have to steal someone elses bf.
2007-07-30 04:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to do anything. But if I was you I would NOT encourage your friend to pursue this boy any further(at least while he is still with his girlfriend)If he will dump his girlfriend for her he will be just as willing later on to dump her for another girl. plus make her think about how she would feel if she was in the guy's girlfriend's place. I would hurt so bad to be dumped for another girl. Once again if she doesnt think about that now she most likely will be feeling it later. hope I helped
2007-07-30 11:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by kw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, ok I've been in a situation like this ha except i was the one wanting the guy. well i talked to him alot and flirted with him and got him to leave his gf for me. but that's because he wasn't happy in that relationship, well just to let you know i broke up with him a week later lol bad i know. but I think have your friend talk to the guy and see how he feels and make a move from there.
2007-07-30 11:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by -falling-4-you- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stay away!! If the guy is flirting with her and has a girl imagine if he did the same thing to her. She is just asking for trouble. And she knows that if this girl can screw her over then shiiit i wouldnt date the guy, He already sounds like bad news!!
2007-07-30 11:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl.... lifes too short to be messing with someone elses left overs. and plus, if this lil boi does that to her, and goes with ur friend, in a few months you will be asking the same question for your friend. its consistant. just find another guy. but dont steal bf's, it will come back to her, and it will hurt more than before...
2007-07-30 11:39:00 · answer #5 · answered by LoLo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with all these answers...i think your friend should find another guy that is single and try not to go for her friend's bf...also his girlfriend shouldn't want to breakup with him just because he was talking to another girl....if she really likes him and likes being his girlfriend then she wouldn't let something like that bother her....
2007-07-30 15:15:45 · answer #6 · answered by deleted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man come and go but friends are your friends . it sounds like he want his cake and pie at the same time if he has a girlfriend and your friend too i wouldn't let it go to far she will get hurt.
2007-07-30 11:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by annia c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
back off , in youth, most entertain others only for short periods. life is fleeting and so is love, he is young and will prolly date many before he decides to settle down.one should not break up a relationship that iswhat seems already in doubt, time will take care of it.....
2007-07-30 11:05:53 · answer #8 · answered by hjkrol59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend should leave the guy alone... it's horrible to break up a relationship... give him some space... if he likes her in the end the he will break up wiht his girlfriend anyway... but tell your friend NOT to try and get them to break up... then he'll see her as munipulating....
2007-07-30 11:07:32 · answer #9 · answered by Katey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to move on to somthing else. She is heading for a bunch of drama! Try setting her up with some one else....Its called diversion...lol. Good luck!
2007-07-30 11:05:44 · answer #10 · answered by autumn w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋