A couple of months ago, I hooked-up with a guy at work. Although we're both attracted to each other, he decided he didn't want to pursue anything since we work together and i'm just coming out of a serious relationship. We kept it to friends successfully until recently. I'm finding it awkward to talk with him face-to-face because I still like him; it seems he's a little awkward also. I'm wondering if I should tell him this since it appears that i'm avoiding him sometimes, but I do want to maintain the friendship because he's a fun, nice guy. Should I talk to him about this?
2007-07-29 15:13:31 · 7 answers · asked by Rachel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You can make a friend a lover but never a lover a friend. Well, not never but it is a hard thing.
Go for it and talk to him, there is no reason not to. You already lost the friendship so now you only have something to gain.
It's gonna be tuff hunnie. If it doesn't work out oh well just be civil. you should never mix work and pleasure. Your lucky if you come out of this life with one good friend blessed if you have two. dont stress it.
xoxo
2007-08-05 09:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by Kris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hooked up with a co-worker/friend. There is no way the friendship will ever be the same. You can not go back to the way it was before you hooked up. I would just move on. I wouldn't say anything about how you feel unless he wants to know why you are avoiding him.
2007-08-06 10:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by midgetme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing about dating friends you work with is right. it is really not good if i were you would just forget this one and try someone else awayf from job it can be very hard if you all break up and its not fun with someone you are working with
2007-08-06 14:12:14 · answer #3 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should at least give him the 411 on why you are avoiding him, maybe he is feeling the same as you are
2007-08-05 10:15:14 · answer #4 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes talking is a good thing cant hurt anything,
2007-07-29 15:23:22 · answer #5 · answered by freeflow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup
2007-08-06 10:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something
2007-08-05 20:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by PK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋