Ok first off, im going to use the peoples actual names because then its not as confusing for me.
Stacie is a girl i used to be friends with and is like an emo/goth person. She hangs out with all the drug addict kids and stuff at school. She always talks about going out drinking and smoking and she is only thirteeen. I dont want to be around stuff like that, so i decided to not hang out with her.Two of my other friends,Jamie and Kayla, feel the same way, but one other friend, stephanie, is still friends with her. Im fine with her decison, but Jamie doesnt like that and she always fights with her and trys to get me to go along with her, but i know thats immature. Also Kayla is going to have a bday party and invite everyone to it, and even stacie, for some reason, and jamie is going to start some big fight and ruin the party. I know i sound like i am babbling, so the question is:
2007-07-28 14:55:56 · 3 answers · asked by Michelle 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What should i do to not lose all of my friendships with kayla, jamie, and stephanie? Just some advice plz.
2007-07-28 14:56:56 · update #1
I think Stacie is just trying act "cool", just about everyone in their junior years and are 13 or 14 want alot of attention then normal so they do things that might seem crazy to you, such as she started doing all that crap and talks about it like shes the sh*t.Stacie is full of herself and needs to grow up.You shouldnt want to be around that.Jamie needs to just let her go she doesnt need to worry about her its not her problem Jamie needs to grow up too big time..start a fight at a party?..Tell her to back off and grow up if she doesnt like what she has become then you drop all contact not make drama she just wants attention too.Its very immature.You should tell them what you think about all this and tell them that you want nothing to do with it, they might agree with how you feel.But then again they wont so if you get caught in a situation where they want you to take sides or ruin someones party say you want nothing to do with it or them if they are gonna be like that.You should find new friends.
2007-07-28 15:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by Chrissy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get along with stacie but just talk to her by the way friends with a drug is realy bad.
2007-07-28 22:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by Christasya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live your life and let them live theirs the way they see fit.
that way, there is no drama, conflicts or argument...
someone needs to tell this Stacie's mother about her drug use and drinking...
2007-07-28 22:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋