So, my best friend writes a question on here about what she should do with an impossible friend like me. She says 90% of the time I'm depressed and 10% of the time I'm happy and she actually likes talking to me. *puts on an insanely weird smile* And whenever she says that she doesn't think my life is stressful it makes me mad because she doesn't know whats going on. And I'm scared to tell her anything because she tells EVERYONE. Atleast tell me all this this to my face, ya know?! I don't go behind her back and say something like that. *clears throat* And I think I'm the one who listens to EVERYTHING she has to say. Half the time shes the one whos talking. Not the other way around. So, whatever. I sound impossible, dont I? *sarcasm*
2007-07-28
03:26:17
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yeah you didnt read the question...
2007-07-28
03:35:25 ·
update #1
the question was about me people! she was just trying to make the situation look better. and no im not answering my phone because this freaking hurts.
2007-07-28
03:45:29 ·
update #2
SaySay STFU!
2007-07-28
03:55:55 ·
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Wow, don't you just hate drama? I know how you feel when you're talking about how someone can't just tell you to your face what's wrong and instead goes behind your back. And it's even worse to have a friend who tells your secrets to everyone (even though you told them not to?) It is also frustrating to go online to see someone write something about you when they could just as easily talk to you.
I don't think you're impossible at all. You have every right to hesitate telling your friend what's wrong because she's had history of spilling the beans. Maybe there's somethings you could tell her that if it does get out it wouldn't be that big of a deal. Maybe your friend is frustrated that you won't tell her what's wrong. Maybe she tells others because she doesn't know what to tell you and is bouncing off ideas from other people.
This all really sounds like a lack of communication between the two of you. She doesn't know how you feel because you don't tell her what's going on. But you don't tell her anything because you don't want it getting out... does she know how you feel about that? Talk to her, that's the only way you'll find out what's going on. Good luck!
2007-07-28 03:39:51
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answered by silentstar53 2
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Maybe your friend is afraid to talk to you because she knows that most the time you don't want to talk to her and if she asks you what wrong she says "No, I don't want to talk about it, I hate my life" stuff like that. Well, now I get the whole "I can't tell her because she tell's everyone" thing but maybe she will try a little harder not to say anything, unless she thinks your going to die then she might want to say something. I'm sure your friend is very, VERY, very sorry that she posted that question, but I'm sure if you would pick up your damn phone she would explain why she did it. Because I think in her mind she does truly care about you and loves you {as a Friend lol} and when your upset it probably makes her VERY worried about you!!!
Not all the time your impossible just sometimes,
2007-07-28 10:35:29
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answered by Anonymous
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You need a new friend - not someone who talks about you behind your back. You need a reality check about your life and if something bad is happening to you, you need to talk to real people who can help you out - parents, counselors, shrinks?!? What is really on your mind - your real problem. Ask here - you might get better feedback than from a self absorbed friend. You should be happy more than 10% of the time - if that is true. Real problems need work - find the right people to help you.
2007-07-28 10:37:52
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answered by mckie 1
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In order to:
Have A Friend....you have to know how to:
Be A Friend.
And it doesn't sound like either one of you knows how to be a friend, atleast to each other.
Alot of this comes from our past experiences and what we have learned from them.
I'm not saying this to put you down, I'm just saying it as I see it.
And No you do not sound impossible!
Usually we treat people the way they treat us.
So maybe you're just not such a good friend to her, because she's not to you.
I would probably go look for a "new" best friend.
Good luck
And remember just because you're not the friend that your friend thinks you should be, doesn't mean you're not a "good" friend ;)
2007-07-28 10:36:19
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answered by MommaBear 5
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well to start with maybe she does want to be your friend but she don't know how to help you and that's why she is seeking help so don't be so hard on her try talking about something else when you talk to her and make her understand your feeling's better
2007-07-28 10:34:41
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answered by momalleyray 3
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yeah i read the question she posted but she re-posted another question saying how to tell u she wasnt talking about you. check her profile, you'll figure it out
2007-07-28 10:39:40
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answered by My Name Is Trip 4
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You sound 90% depressed to me babe.
2007-07-28 10:30:52
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answered by Anonymous
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tell ur friends that you dont like what she do to you
2007-07-28 10:32:22
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answered by idah 4
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TRY TALKING TO HER FOR CRYIN" OUT LOUD!!! DID YOU EVER THINK SHE MIGHT HAVE AN EXPLANATION??????!!!!!!
2007-07-28 10:51:44
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answered by SaySay 2
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Don't bother
2007-07-28 10:29:19
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answered by Rana 7
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