I am kind of stressed, help?

Question

I am having friend troubles. I've had the same best friend for 6 years and am finding out she's not who I thought she was. I was by her side when she had her first kiss and a couple weeks later she lost her virginity! Ugh. She's completely changing, mostly due to her new found "friends". The rest of my friends aren't the best either.. It's really hard to just start over and make new friends though.
If anybody has advice I would really appreciate it.

I'm 15, and I just feel kind of alone, ya know?

Answer 1

iv had best freind change befor. it really sucks. im sorry.
i would go to every 'group or clique and talk to them casulally. there should be a connection with the ppl then you know that they should be your new freinds. hang out with as many ppl as you can. be a social butterfly!
goodluck!

Answer 2

Sometimes, people changes and it changes a friendship too. I know how that feels like, it sucks alot.

First of all, you should ensure that she wouldn't influence you. I don't think that's hard as long as you knows your own value and that you can tell what's right and what's not for you. Then I guess there's nothing wrong for you to keep this friendship, as long as she still wants it.

If she doesn't, then don't force it or try to change yourself, you might end up just like her new found friends too.

Answer 3

i hear u, its like no one is there to talk, when u need a hug really bad no ones there. I no its hard to start over its not like when u were younger when we walked up to someone and said hey wanna be my best frds and there ur best frd. Its werid now like if u talk to someone in school and u sit by them at lunch u get that weird look like just cause we talked once doesn't mean were frds. I would just stay cool for a little bit and wait than go up to ppl and talk.