On May 16 2007, my friend V. call me borrow my money. She move to Louisiana with her husband and come back to Houston once every 2 weeks to visit her family. She ask me to used my credit card to cash out $1000 and deposit straight to her bank account to let her borrow to pay all her bills. She said that she have the cash with her but she can't deposit in the bank because there is no BankofAmerica in Louisiana and she forgot to deposit the cash in the bank when she come back to Houston two weeks ago. She said that she promise to paid me on that weekend when she come back to Houston. So i let her borrow the money, I call her right after i deposit the money to her account to let her know that the money already in her account. She said that she might not be able to go back to Houston on that weekend because she have to go to Alabama with her husband for his work meeting. She'll be back next weekend. on May 27 of 2007, she call me to let me know that she already back to Houston and she said that she only have half of the amount, she going to pay me half first and then send me the check ( other half) later when she come back to Louisiana. I said that's ok, and ask her is she come over on that afternoon to pay me the half like she said she does. She said "no, I have to go to the church early today, i said i pay half first doesn't mean i pay you today!). I said ok and I ask her (on the day you borrow my money, you said you have the cash with you, and now you said you don't have the cash with you, and your husband can't cash out his pay check because he get out of work to lake on Saturday, what's going on here?" She said "oh, I just buy $1,700 Flat TV for my dad as a early happy father gift because his TV start falling apart and I didn't come back to Houston that often so I decide to buy him a TV.) The next day, I call her through her mom house to ask when did she come over to pay me, she said that she have to take her niece and nephew to go watch movie and then she have to head back to Louisiana on that night, and that she don't have the money to pay me, she will pay (send the check) me all at one when she come back to Louisiana. I’m not working; I stay home to take care of my two children. My husband is the only person who is working in my family. I’m so scared that if she really doesn’t have money to pay me back, what am I going to do, I don’t have money to pay the bank, my husband make enough money to pay the house bill and to support the family, we don’t have any extra money to pay for any deft as it is we already have to much deft that we try to pay off. So I call her husband (He know about this too) and tell him to remind her to send me the check when they come back to Louisiana , so she won’t forgot ( my friend she always forget things that she need to do) and that I really need to money to pay the back to the bank. I try to call my friend on her cell phone but she never pick up her cell phone on that day so I have no choice but to leave her the messages about send the money to me through Western Union because it guarantee , it won’t get lost ,and it faster and she need to send it to me right away like that I can receive it on that Wednesday, the latest is Thursday, because I really need the money. On Monday night ( June 4, 2007), her and her husband come to pay me the money they said that they borrow the money from her mother in law to pay me back. Next Morning, she call me and ask if my bill come back yet? I said the mail usually come in the afternoon, that I may be received the bill on that afternoon. She said when the bill come back go pay of that bill and cash out another $1000 to let her borrow again. I said that I can’t let her borrow money again because I run in depth myself at that time ( I own my kids doctor $600 that I have to pay off ). She said that she really need the money, because after she pay me she don’t have anymore money to go to Georgia for Vacation. I said that I’m really sorry about that, but I can’t let her borrow any money at that time. Two hours later she call me in anger voice and said “first thank you for let me borrow the money, but you know what from now on you don’t have to worry about I’m going to borrow your money again because you been harassment me by leave me those message, you act like I ‘m take your money and gone way, that I’m not going to pay you. I don’t like the idea that you calling me so often about this situation.” I tell her that I didn’t mean to harassment her, that I’m never thinking that she going to steal my money. I ‘m just afraid that if she send the check in regular way, the check might be lost then I ‘m in trouble with the bank. She doesn’t believe me and accused me harassment her, and then she hung up the phone. Two hours after that I try to call her to said I’m sorry that I make her feel that way, and to solve the misunderstanding between me and her to save the friend relationship but she never pick up the phone. My husband tell me not to call them again, he said in this situation she was wrong and I was right, I have to right to ask for my money back, that she try to play walk around game with me, she intend not to pay me back the money, and if I didn’t call her husband on that day, she will not pay back my money. I want to know if I was really right and she was wrong in this situation. she still haven’t call me back yet! I don’t want to call her to said sorry to her because everybody said she was wrong, she liar to me. I , myself also feel that I was right in this situation. If she call me to said sorry then I’ll forgive her and be friend me again. If any of you in this situation, what are you going to do?
2007-06-11
07:22:28
·
21 answers
·
asked by
bachtuyetlai
2