Friends - June 2007

2007-06-12 12:19:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently at school, there seems to be a trend of pansting going around. Like in the locker rooms at school when I'm changing out for P.E., other girls sometimes like to pants me just after I've unbuttoned my pants or just after I've put on my shorts. Now personally, I'm not too bothered by it, because it doesn't happen to me very often. But I've seen other girls in the locker room have their pants and even underwear pulled down and start crying. Occaisonally, I catch some mean girls pulling someone's bra off too, so like the girl's pretty much naked.

2007-06-12 10:21:18 · 7 answers · asked by northern californian 2

I always had problems when it comes to 'so called' friends. Im 20 and i dont have any friends. I try hard to be pleasant to people, to go out of my way and speak, to out on a friendly face and really try.

At school i was bullied, and i became really shy and lacking in self esteem and confidence. At college i was no different. I used to keep myself to myself and was very quiet. I find it hard to socialise somtimes, in fact i hate it.

I hate my life because its not normal to have no friends at all. People that i used to know in the past were backstabbers and users, and it did no good for my confidence.

What am i doing wrong and why cant i seem to make any friends?

2007-06-12 09:21:20 · 10 answers · asked by sarah 6

i dont need you to tell me that im doing things wrong or that im a shity kid i just need some help not sarcasm so if ur gonna be an *** dont bother i dont know what to do..i am trying to move out b/c my family want me out. i have 2 weeks to get my cheerleading squad (which im captain of) of 32 girls ready for competition (we just learned our coriography) I just got an MIPT which i cant pay for because my parents for some reason havent alowed me to get a job till now & i dont wana tell them cause they'll flip ****! i have 8 hours of community service to get done before thursday, but i have practice for 4 hours today n for 6 hours tommorow. My best friend overdosed on cocaine yesterday, & the friend i am currently living with is pregnant, & the boyfriend left so im like the one that goes to the doctor with her n crap. I am way stressed out n have olsers (if thats how its spelt) to the point that im coughing up blood... i want everything to just go away!!!!! what should i do? please help

2007-06-12 07:38:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a close male friend for about 10 years,platonic,i have not seen him in a year and half. Over a year and half ago i heard from a friend he was getting married- he never told me, i was not invited to the wedding, i learned from his online journal he married. before that he stopped hanging out with me or talking to me. I was schocked cause i thought we were good friends.

Now a year and half later i start getting friendly messages from him, he says nothing about his wife, so i finally said , "hows marriage"? He says "oh I guess i didnt tell you i got married. well i got a divorce, only lasted some months".. which to me is strange because on his myspace says hes married.
He messages me alot now and wants to get together, i told him im busy.. Whats the deal with him? I get a creep factor vibe. Guess hes not the person i thought he was

2007-06-12 07:31:44 · 3 answers · asked by tbo 1

tell me what you think about ginger hair?

2007-06-12 06:30:41 · 34 answers · asked by Shannonpeckphotographer 1

Here's and example:

A few nights ago she was in trouble and another friend and I went to help her. Later that night we were sitting on the patio talking. We started talking about something a bit off subject, when I joined in the conversation she starts mocking me and making fun of me in front of everyone.
While I am normally pretty witty, I was totally off-guard and didn't no how to respond so I just laughed.
She is the only person who does this repeatedly and it bothers me.
Is there a universal come-back that I can say to shut her up and make her feel stupid??
It is getting to the point where I pretty much avoid her ---but that really isn't my style, I like confrontations, I would really like to punch her in the face at times but violence isn't the answer.

Help please!!

2007-06-12 06:19:27 · 18 answers · asked by Beauty&Brains 4

hey,some times,well most times i really do say the stupidest of things jst kinda randomly and the things that i say really dont make any sense!!well a bit like this question,no sense.......does that make me stupid?????

2007-06-12 06:04:59 · 11 answers · asked by ♥samiclaire_82♥ 2

2007-06-12 05:11:44 · 5 answers · asked by SANAT 2

My little brother is currently in the hospital with a knee injury. I am sending him a gift box and I would like to include a list of people wishing him well. Please include the state in which you are writing from if you feel comfortable.

2007-06-12 04:32:38 · 6 answers · asked by funnyhaha 2

2007-06-12 03:50:49 · 15 answers · asked by Naren s 1

2007-06-12 03:44:33 · 22 answers · asked by blossom 1

2007-06-12 03:40:52 · 19 answers · asked by girly GuRl 2

2007-06-12 03:39:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-12 03:30:47 · 34 answers · asked by ♥saLsa Lady♥ 2

like having few friends to really "talk" to, without a quality boyfriend, and little family to also "talk" to. what can i gain from being in a situation like this?

2007-06-12 01:51:10 · 8 answers · asked by pookie 1

plz give me tips to brought up kids....

2007-06-12 01:42:02 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

The probs is my bestfriend going out with our friends without telling me the truth and dont wanna me to joint.we are in the same workplace and she's my roomate. I talked to her calmly why she's acting like this.the way she stared and answered me makes me going mad. She's like phsyco. She said that she found the real friends out there.Almost 4 years we've been bestfriend. All the good and bad of her i know. Suddenly she said like that. I'm not a thing or rubbish to throw away when not needed.I have feelings.When i talk to one of my friends about this, they just said 'maybe it's time for you to let her go, she needs a friend like us’.They are not helping me.They make things worst.they'r the friends that my bestfriend going out with.Before I met my bestfriend, i'm a lone ranger person.i faced everything myself.after she came into mylife, i felt spared.she helped me a lot n of course me too.i had apologies to her many times.she's still ignore me.what i must do.feel so stress!!!

2007-06-12 01:24:19 · 12 answers · asked by puteri 1

2007-06-11 22:37:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi There.... first of all i want you to know that im turning 18 this year, and here is my case.. when we were all 15 yrs old, that was a critical stage ryt ? ..finding the a place of who we really are. trying things out. so during my adjusting stage i kept searching for i am.. anxiety, confusion, peer pressure, low self confidence, issues trouble me...all of those happenings has reasons, so i researched ,researched, researched and i found out that the cuase was of my parents they didnt give me attention in my childhood years, and until now we dont communicate all they do is business business, what can ido they focus too much on thier business, i can get their attentin i cant help it! it tried all i can do, feel insecure, i have social phobias, low self-esteem issues..and the thing is dont have friends aims the goal that i have, i travel lonesomely... so ryt now i look back unto the things i done decided to do.. and i saw a major critical problem..so what am i gonna do?

2007-06-11 22:26:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mate asked if he can borrow my car tomorrow, that was yesterday. And I said yes to him. We both knew the car needed engine oil and he asked me if it needed oil, I said yes and I will have a look.
After a while he changed his mind and came back to me and asked me if he can have the car today. Because I didnt have to use the car I said yes, BUT forgot about the oil. And my mate did not bother checking the oil. He just drove it off. Guess what happened, the engine blew up.
He came back, told me the story, I didnt blame him as we both knew it needed oil. But this morning, he had the cheek to tell me it was my fault giving him a car without oil.. I was absolutely gutted as its THE DRIVERS responsibility to check the engine oil. Do you think he was fair to put the blame on me? The car was given to him at no charge ,just as a friend.

2007-06-11 22:09:24 · 25 answers · asked by Olderwiser 4

sometimes get in these moods where everything that comes out of my mouth is negative. I don't make much friends because i'm different in some kind of way. I always try to enjoy life but nothing makes me happy. I'm always serious and quiet so i don't try to bother anyone or get myself embarassed. I ask God for help but i don't get much answers. I feel like i can't trust anybody. Not even my parents. I'm so lonely and don't know who can help me in life. I'm always asking myself why i exist in life if it's only to suffer and hide from people who don't understand me. If only i can get some type of answer from God.

2007-06-11 21:59:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

We got in a fight this morning. He refuse to let me go out of town with friends tonight. I said I wished he was dead and he was in shock.Then he left. Im not sure but I think he was crying. All I could think of was I wanted to knock him on the ground and beat him in the pavement.
If u want to know why? Watch the character of "Jack" on Will and Grace (TV show) That's what my dad looks and acts like exactly except my dad is a little shorter and wears glasses.
He also teaches philosophy. He is drama coach at our local theatre of arts. My mom tries to make me feel bad by saying things like just once I should hug my father n say I love him. She said she is worried about my dad because he is becoming DEPRESSED. My sister makes me sick every freakin day she goes hugging and kissing my dad and goes through the "love u daddee have a nice day!!" CRAP!
Its a conspiracy to make me look like the bad guy!

2007-06-11 21:46:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

what to do

2007-06-11 21:42:39 · 13 answers · asked by Jammy 1

A 'friend' of mine who I have financial dealings with sometimes 'forgets' to bring cash with him when he buys things from me. He never seems to remember to pay me unless I remind him. Then he remembers.

"Oh yeah sorry"

I think I've seen a pattern emerging! This guys is not short of cash. I am!

What should I do about this guy?

2007-06-11 21:21:59 · 20 answers · asked by tuthutop 2

whenever someone asks me to help them with something, i give them all my energy and time. i love to help because it makes me feel like i'm not useless, and also i feel that if i help everyone, they will have a positive view toward me. however, when it comes to me needing something, some of these people do not reciprocate. they would be "busy" or have some excuse of not being able to help me. yet, the next time they ask me to do something for them, i still agree to help them. my roommate uses and abuses my car like it's her own, and i still let her use it without saying anything. i think i spend too much time trying to make everyone happy. but then i end up being the one getting frustrated with myself because of how i'm being treated. how do i stop this? thank you for your answers.

2007-06-11 21:04:29 · 15 answers · asked by lil3 2

2007-06-11 20:31:05 · 35 answers · asked by . 6

A man on my street hung himself. He wasn't a very nice man. He was extremley aggressive, always in trouble with the police, fighting and shouting abusive language to my fellow neighbours.

I just feel he's done a very selfish thing, and hasn't thought about his family. I feel for the them!

The police had been called out several times to his house over the last couple of weeks. He was arrested last week - though not sure what for. He hung himself in his garage Saturday night(rumour has it he was on a suspened sentence, and was looking at a long stretch), and his wife and son's girlfriend found him.

I'm not sure if to send a condolense card, plus where to send it to as the family aren't their. No one actually likes this family, as they've all caused trouble in the past, but not with myself.

What would you do?

2007-06-11 20:26:08 · 19 answers · asked by trackie1 4

My friends keep on showing off to me cause they are soo rich and they have no many electronics and games and it really makes me mad!! i do not like it and i keep on saying i do not like it but it just makes it worse cause they but it right in front of my face!!! please help!!!

2007-06-11 20:21:01 · 12 answers · asked by Denis 1

can two platonic male and female roommates shower together in interest of conservation?

2007-06-11 19:38:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous