I had a close male friend for about 10 years,platonic,i have not seen him in a year and half. Over a year and half ago i heard from a friend he was getting married- he never told me, i was not invited to the wedding, i learned from his online journal he married. before that he stopped hanging out with me or talking to me. I was schocked cause i thought we were good friends.
Now a year and half later i start getting friendly messages from him, he says nothing about his wife, so i finally said , "hows marriage"? He says "oh I guess i didnt tell you i got married. well i got a divorce, only lasted some months".. which to me is strange because on his myspace says hes married.
He messages me alot now and wants to get together, i told him im busy.. Whats the deal with him? I get a creep factor vibe. Guess hes not the person i thought he was
2007-06-12 07:31:44 · 3 answers · asked by tbo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
when i say messages i mean online messages, have not spoken to him on the phone in almost 2 years
2007-06-12 07:33:06 · update #1
What a jerk!!! I wouldnt even bother with him, to be honest with you.
If his MYSPACE says he's married, Im sure he is!
Steer clear!!!
2007-06-12 07:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by sheliteful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is being unfaithful to his wife. You don't want to get mixed up in that. Ignore him, and under no means contact him.
2007-06-12 07:38:02 · answer #2 · answered by Joan H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels guilty and wants to renew your friendship.
2007-06-12 07:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋