The probs is my bestfriend going out with our friends without telling me the truth and dont wanna me to joint.we are in the same workplace and she's my roomate. I talked to her calmly why she's acting like this.the way she stared and answered me makes me going mad. She's like phsyco. She said that she found the real friends out there.Almost 4 years we've been bestfriend. All the good and bad of her i know. Suddenly she said like that. I'm not a thing or rubbish to throw away when not needed.I have feelings.When i talk to one of my friends about this, they just said 'maybe it's time for you to let her go, she needs a friend like us’.They are not helping me.They make things worst.they'r the friends that my bestfriend going out with.Before I met my bestfriend, i'm a lone ranger person.i faced everything myself.after she came into mylife, i felt spared.she helped me a lot n of course me too.i had apologies to her many times.she's still ignore me.what i must do.feel so stress!!!
2007-06-12 01:24:19 · 12 answers · asked by puteri 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
frinedship is like water if you try to hold it in your hands, it will slip through but if you will open ur hand and let it be free it will always remain with you.
2007-06-12 01:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all stop thinking that you can be owned and thrown away at others will. No one can own you , hence no one can throw you away. Its not possible.
Now coming to real problem.
1. Take some time out, request your friend for one last talk (she will surely come) and find a quite place for conversation with no one else around.
2. Tell her that this is your last talk with her, as she is constantly ignoring you and you need to get over it.
3. Tell her we will never meet again.
4. Finally ask her: Now that we are strangers can you tell what the hell was wrong with your stupid best friend ?
5. 90% chances are that she will say something or even break crying, if she doesn't then she is not ignoring you because of you but there is some other reason ( which has nothing to do with you).
2007-06-12 01:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by haunted100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has an old saying in China is “pledges the friend to die” four years' friend, said pays no attention to you to ignoreyou, this explained you are not the real friends It is in the together person when each other was void lonely time , you said he gave you a lot help, to cause you not like before ,was such lonely. But you have also given her the same thing, perhaps your genuine friend has not appeared. A life friend sufficiently. perhaps after several years when you remember this matter again, you can think it's unusual weak and a laughable matter.
2007-06-12 02:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all,ARE YOU IN LOVE WITH HER?? You really need to chill and just take one step back!!! I don`t know if you`re noticing it , but your friend is clearly a tinsy bit annoyed with you.Here`s what u gotta do..... reverse pshyco therapy. In other words, although it`s clearely not the truth,you just have to make her believe that you don`t give a **** about her ignoring you.You better start living it out and don`t talk to everyone else bout how u really feel coz sum1 will backstab you and tell your friend that you`re actually hurt.My guess is that your friend had a bit of an ego boost and is floating a bit high, you crawling after her isn`t exactly helping her come back to earth.CATCH MY DRIFT?
2007-06-12 01:38:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't do anything, then don't blame yourself, really friends don't get mad for no reason. Give her sometime, but you can't relie on one person, it's not fair to you, and it's not fair to the other person.
You need space, because too much of someone will create unpleasant enviroments and situations.
You need to find people that turely care about you, because you deserve better.
2007-06-12 02:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by ;) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each and every on occasion issues like this ensue whilst a 0.33 social gathering comes on board. i've got faith undesirable for you. it somewhat is somewhat useful to take a seat with the the two certainly one of them and ask what it somewhat is they experience you're doing that they do unlike. a minimum of you will understand how they experience then. each and every on occasion in actual actuality complicated to take, yet could additionally open new insights into how different grow to communicate approximately you. you may ought to bypass directly to different friends and not in straightforward terms have them to agonize approximately. you will in all probability be surprised at how lots exciting you have been lacking by annoying approximately those different 2 gals. good success
2016-10-17 00:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by ja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can see where one would want some time apart you do everything together, give her all the space she needs and go look for some more friends
2007-06-12 01:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by EmmaNicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.try to ask her if she doesn't like you or if you have done anything to make her mad, just try to talk to her and see if you've done something and make it or you may just have to find a new best friend
2007-06-12 02:49:11 · answer #8 · answered by Steve Mc. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you guys are calling each other bestfriend for what again?
2007-06-12 01:27:37 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I can recommend is that you don't call her your bestfriend anymore.
2007-06-12 01:33:09 · answer #10 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋