My friend's boyfriend rapes her and she's been tryna break up with him but everytime she tries he starts yelling at her and says he's gone marry her and if he buys her a ring and she breaks up with him he's gone kill her and idk what to tell her. Only adult she's told is her counselor at school and her counselor says she cant tell her what to do so she doesnt know what to do.
2007-06-11 04:58:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she has told her counselor my school's administrative system sucks and they go by their own rules rather than what the board tells them to do...so the staff gets in trouble a lot with the people higher up and to the guy hatin on my spelling im not in school its summer break and i dont have to type in complete sentences all the time so if your not going to answer the question keep your opinions to yourself
2007-06-11 05:06:58 · update #1
Well first off I admire you as a friend for trying to help her out. Clearly her boyfriend has issues and it’s a very unhealthy relationship. You need to be there for your friend to lift up her broken spirit. Its tough to watch people we care about get stuck in terrible situations and lose all hope and faith. This is out of her hands. Its not like she can talk to this guy to calm him down, he’s mentally ill and needs to get out of her life forever. If your friend is too ashamed to talk to anyone about this, maybe you should seek out another guidance counselor at school who would be willing to help her. Either way, whether it’s you and your friend that go to the police or the school, this case is going to end up in the hands of the police before anything even worse happens. You’ve got to get your friend to get a restraining order against this hard headed pathetic excuse for a guy. Your friend deserves so much more than her boyfriend is treating her. She’s at an all time low, be there to pick her up and stay by her side until this is resolved. Good luck to you and your friend.
2007-06-11 05:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by LilMiss143 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to talk to her parents. She has not talked to her school counselor. They are required by law to report a rape, since this hasn't been done, she has not talked to her counselor. If rape had been reported, then your friend's parents would have been notified by the police and she would have been taken to the doctor for tests.
2007-06-11 05:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tryna? Public school education just stinks.
Have you ever heard of the concept of a complete sentence? Ever?
2007-06-11 05:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her to report him to the police. She also needs to tell her parents about this. This is very serious and dangerous. She needs to get help, and soon!
2007-06-11 05:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
rape is a crime so first thing to do is make a police report then go talk to her parents and just dump him after that !
if he tries anything, let the law handle him !
2007-06-11 05:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by aunt_webby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she needs to go to the police! and the next time that he does rape her not to shower or anything for proof of him doing it! No one deserves to be treated like that no matter who they are!
2007-06-11 05:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by Dawn Lorraine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, she needs to break up with him. She knows that.
2007-06-11 06:42:38 · answer #7 · answered by Sandy Sandals 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
police.
2007-06-11 05:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by liquidsanek 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
http://www.thehelpline.net/abused.html
http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/ovc/help/rape.htm
2007-06-11 05:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by Sara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋