Family - December 2006

I am 15 and my parents call me lazy because i play alot of video games and stuff, they call me lazy and they say "when i was your age when we had a farm we used to ride everywhere and we used to always be out in the backyard playing sports" and stuff like, that my defence to them is " when you were young you didnt have computers with all good games, and we dont live on a farm and have cars and motorbikes that we can drive around." and i only hav one sibling; a younger sister, when my parents were young they had 4 or 5 siblings that they could muck around with, i also play sports on the weekends and go to training nioghts twice a week. so whos right in this arguement? Am I lazy or are they over reacting?

2006-12-21 18:36:43 · 10 answers · asked by liltwang69 1

My friend from Nepal had a relative with 12 children!

2006-12-21 18:34:08 · 13 answers · asked by Shal 1

I just went to court for child custody and the non custodial parent gave his mothers address and told the judge this is where he lives. Our daughter says they live some where else not with grandmother. The judge gave him child custody rights with the condition that he can not take our daughter to sleep away from the grandmothers home the judge also ordered for me to call our daughter every nigh,t to make sure she is there.

2006-12-21 18:11:38 · 13 answers · asked by Alex 1

My husband and I are staying with his mother to save some money. It is ok I guess we don't get along and I am pregnant due any day. Well anyways how the hell do I keep her from just walking in our room? We have no privacy. Its ridiculous I am really starting to get pissed off. She is the type of person that freaks out over everything. So if I go mention to her I would appreciate if you stop walking in our room and start knocking she would probably start yell and freakin out. We will have enough money to move out by the end of January. We have plenty of money we just want to put a big down payment on a house so we decided to stay here for a little while. How do I go about in fixing my problem. Need advise thanks....

2006-12-21 18:10:31 · 17 answers · asked by I_Can_Help 2

We share the expenses on everything and the 10 weeks that she'll out would mean so much because rent and other house bills take so much from everyone's finances. She will be spending a lot of money there and I'd like to be fair on her without making a hole in my wallet. Let's say it's gonna be at least $500/month outright if I'll say she don't have to give her share. Before I did this and allowed her to not pay her share but it really costed me a lot. Then, when I went home for a 6 week vacation, it was not offered to me.
Both of us earn good money and while on this planned long vacation, she'll be paid for time off 75-80% of it. No sickness or anything stressful reasons why she is going home/vacation.
How should I deal with this though I know that she will surely pay her obligation or her share? I know she won't ask me directly but it would be nice to do something especially for her coz we are both benefiting from this set up for years now. Please advice...Thanks

2006-12-21 17:40:33 · 24 answers · asked by Denise 1

If Susana has 6 siblings; Sara, Jessica, Kristin, Johnny, Barry, Marisa. And Susana is married to Nicholas and they have 7 kids; Bethany, Anna, Alexis, Elijah, Adam, Elizabeth, and Peter. Johnny is married to Kimberly and they have 1 daughter; Anastascia. Then Susana and Nicholas older daughter Bethany is married to Freddie and they have 1 son; Kevin. So Kevin would be the grandson to Susana and Nichoas. And Anastascia is the daughter of Johnny and Kimberly. Susana and Johnny are brother and Sister. What would Kevin be to Anastascia?

2006-12-21 17:18:24 · 7 answers · asked by LaLa 4

Hey everyone, I go into mediation with my daughter's father (ex-bf) tomarrow and I'm nervous like a cat. He's going for joint custody, visitation and paternity. He plays a lot of games. He checked the paternity box but says he didn't do it. This happens all the time, and his mother hates me. She always wanted a paternity test but he KNOWS our daughter is his. Anyway, I have a protective order on him, police reports on domestic violence and burglery from breaking into my home. do you think it's possible that he can get joint custody of our daughter with all these reports that I have on him or it doesn't matter??? HELP!!!! I'm nervous/scared on the outcome of what will happen. i never been in a situation like this before. can someone give me a heads up on what will happen or give their input on what they think will happen? thanks.

2006-12-21 17:02:51 · 11 answers · asked by Beautiful 2

The only reason I ask is because he told me today his parents got something for me... help!

2006-12-21 16:58:24 · 15 answers · asked by JMurph 2

I used to work with this guy for half a year. We did not know each other that well, but I always think he has a good personality. At least he is very good-looking. He liked me and I turned him down again and again. Then he disappeared in my life. After half a year, I dropped him a few lines (nothing important) in an email. He said he could not remember me......How embarrasing!!!!!
:D

2006-12-21 16:56:00 · 7 answers · asked by Chris b 1

Is it normal...

My friends parents are sooo nice it seems like.. sometimes i just make up stories so it seems like my parents are more involved in my life.. my friends parents always take to the movies..ect. bc my parents always complain when they have to take me somewhere.. and tonight i went to my friends house.. i forgot to tell my mom.. i just told my sisters.. and now my mom is going to ground me for a long time.. my mom yells at me for not keeping my room neat.. its getting so old.. she always is like " why do i always do all the cleaning around here!!" i dont even feel comfortable telling her when i am doing stuff with my boyfriend..so i make up stories saying im going to the movies with my friends instead.. she knows i have a boyfriend but still.. idk maybe im just in a bad mood.. are your families like this?.. what can i do to make it seem better?

2006-12-21 16:39:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-21 16:39:12 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2

Im 14, this ís because they were too harsh when I made some mistakes. The thing is over, today they are even proud ofme, but my resentment will
never go. What can the consequences be, now and in my adulthood? can they take a revenge, though they have no reason?

2006-12-21 16:31:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Laura's real dad is around the place, she has seen him with her little step sister, she says that her real dad hits her and is totally mean to her, this kid isn't even 15.........we are thinking that if we see him again we are going to take the kid away from him and violence from anyone, and as this is Laura's step sister its of added importance to us, so what should we do, get an intervention order or something simmilar to take the child (like custody) or just take her in the middle of the night and do it quitely, then he can wake up and find the kid not there, then he'll know how it feels to have something taken away from you......

ideas please
Mitch

2006-12-21 16:26:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-21 16:08:29 · 33 answers · asked by skygirly62 2

It's so commercial. Anyone else feel like they have to buy gifts for someone they don't really want to? My sibling isn't very nice to me at all until it's gift giving time! He's not a very nice person sometimes and treats our parents pretty badly. What can I do to deal with this next year. Any suggestions? I don't want to make him mad...

2006-12-21 15:51:01 · 11 answers · asked by butterflylover 4

2006-12-21 15:49:36 · 8 answers · asked by ROCKER CHICK 4

My dad has gottin me an item for christmas! My mom has given me a few clues any guess on what it could be?

If i ate it it would be crunchy
different colors
tells time
can find in a specialty store
edcucational
can play music
has two silibles such as MUS-IC

2006-12-21 15:47:07 · 11 answers · asked by AK 2

I was wondering if maybe anyone knew how to do a background check without paying a lot of money. Maybe see if has a violent background. Cps has already said that they cant so anything at this point.

2006-12-21 15:44:00 · 27 answers · asked by tarrgirl_4eva 1

2006-12-21 15:40:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my 2nd cousin just got killed in iraq by an improvised explosive device on dec 16th... i spent lots of time with him as a kid but havent in the last few years, i also havet been in contact with his close family recently... would it be okay for me to show up at his funeral and pay my respects even though i havent been in his life the past 5 or 6 years.... also what be a good way to express my condolances to his close family?

2006-12-21 15:23:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Aunt Mary is in the hospital and they don't thik she will make it. It could have been a stroke or a heart attack. She is 85.
I love her so much . Can you all please pray for her tonight.? She gave nothing but love and light thoughtout her life . Please can everyone send her a prayer?

2006-12-21 15:08:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

About 3 weeks ago my sister in law was telling me how she cooks her ham. I made a joke as I always do, and she called me a stupid *****, and that she hates talking to me. She also makes jokes, anyway we are having Christmas dinner at my house this year and I do not want her here, but my husband tells me to get over it for one day. I called her and ask why she was telling everyone that she called me a ***** and she stated that it was none of my bussiness and hung up on me. I don't understand why she would even think to show her face up here, and I don't understand my husband, not standing up for me. She is 60 years old and lives at her mothers home with her husband. She is the one bringing her mom. Do I need to be nice, as far as talking to her, letting her in my house, etc??????

2006-12-21 14:53:16 · 12 answers · asked by revia1467 2

2006-12-21 14:49:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My children are 15, 17 and 20. We've already agreed to spend Christmas watching a DVD and eating pizza. But I still get the idea it won't be too much fun. Help!

2006-12-21 14:45:51 · 16 answers · asked by Same Song Different Verse 2

When i say "love" I mean romantically. So is it weird to want to kiss and have romantic feelings with my cousin?

2006-12-21 14:39:57 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating the same boy for 5 years. My parents don't like him. His family is pretty broken (which also means he has a hard time understanding my relationship with my family), he doesn't have a job and lives with his grandmother. But he's really good to me, we have fun together, support each other, talk to each other, and we love each other very much. We have a great relationship. We're talking about getting married eventually. My boyfriend doesn't like my dad because he says he is judgemental and anal about a lot of things, not to mention a bit pompous. But he's also my dad, and he is a good guy. My mom doesn't think my boyfriend is good enough for me and doesn't think I'm really happy with him. My sister loves him, and says he's like the little brother she never had.

I love my boyfriend, and I love my parents, but they don't like each other. What can I do to fix this? I should also mention that my boyfriend doesn't has given up on trying to impress them-- it never worked.

2006-12-21 14:18:41 · 20 answers · asked by ~*Bubbles*~ 3

2006-12-21 14:16:59 · 1 answers · asked by zchecka 1

I just want to know... why is it that raising kids doesnt seem to be enough for the world today?

2006-12-21 14:05:16 · 45 answers · asked by mrs.mom 4

How did you react to the cold water?

2006-12-21 14:04:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-21 13:58:36 · 7 answers · asked by Nikki w 1