2006-12-21 15:40:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ok, for some reason that didn't post right, it was $2000 she asked for. On top of that, the lady's nuts! I've been out of her house since 17, but she's still my mother and still pathetic, what do u do with parents like that. Oh, by the way, my father is in rehab!
2006-12-21 15:45:52 · update #1
Well you got to consider her problems. Is she using the money for drinking, drugs or for food to feed other children and herself? Whichever one it is, if you really loved your mother you would never want to see her cry or in need when you can help? SHE IS THE ONE WHO BROUGHT YOU INTO THIS WORLD. Don't ever forget it. If she needs further help than you can give then you look for it to give her. If it's just money then give it to her. There is a God above and He watches over us, He is our heavenly FATHER. He gave you that mother, not to throw away or forget. After all, look at the things that we have done that are unforgivable. Yet he forgives us when we ask, never abandons us, loves us immensely and never remembers the sins we confess. Isn't that a wonderful Father? Why should we treat our mother any less than He treats us.
2006-12-21 16:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mirts 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would hope that she did say Happy Birthday before she started begging....he he DO NOT GIVE HER ANY, TELL HER THAT THE GIFT YOU ARE GIVING YOURSELF THIS YEAR IS THAT YOU WILL LEARN TO SAY NO MOTHER BUT I DO LOVE AND CARE FOR YOU AND WISH YOU WILL.
but really if you have gave her money before what would you expect from her.....she must not have much of a job or she likes to spend lots of money....
2006-12-21 23:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by thats me 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hunni, my family can relate, my mom lives in the same town as my sister, thank god i am 3000 miles away..but she has pulled the same **** on her...the day after her wedding which my mother was too drunk to attend she hit my sister up for a loan...(btw she is a raging alcholic and prescription drug addict) i know how hard it is to say no, but sometimes you just have to put your foot down and say hell no......hope things get better for you sweetie
2006-12-21 23:48:43 · answer #3 · answered by ROCKER CHICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did she need $200.00 for? If she didn't say Happy Birthday before she started to beg for money. I wouldn't have given it to her unless it was a life/death situations. Mothers aren't suppose to do that to their kids. Merry Christmas. Let me wish you a belated Happy Birthday.....
2006-12-21 23:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by Junkyard DOG 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. Understand this mother has a problem. And that its not the daughter's fault. Try to talk to her about it. You have to see that while she loves you, she may not view her actions as hurtful. If that doesn't work than put that wall there that says, I love you but I wont let you hurt me anymore. Then try to have your relationship.
2006-12-21 23:45:05 · answer #5 · answered by tking 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your mother needs $200, give her the $200 and more if she
needed it. If I had another chance to help my Mother, I would
jump at it, no questions asked.
2006-12-21 23:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by Auburn 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Change your phone number. In the alternative, get caller ID and don't answer her calls anymore. She can't take advantage of someone she can't get in touch with.
2006-12-22 00:25:05 · answer #7 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm surprised that your still in contact with family like that. I would have cut them out years ago. Blood or not, you have to think of your own well being.
2006-12-21 23:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by Poppet 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go over to her house and slamn a birthday cake in her fuxing face, then give her the 200 bucks.
2006-12-21 23:43:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You tell her to go get a job if she needs more money.It's not your problem she is a grown woman.As for your birthday CELEBRATE even if your mom doesnt.
2006-12-21 23:45:00 · answer #10 · answered by lisaurban_2000 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋