Our daughter is about to turn 24and is everything we dreamt of except for 1 thing: She hates us. When 3, she took to doing bad stuff and we had to be harsh to save her. One day she got home drunk, hubby got really angry and gave her a good spanking. She was also grounded for 2 months. From that day on, she's always hated her dad. And since I supported hubby, she stared dislking me. She changed, became a wise and wonderful girl. We though she'd eventually get over and would understand wqhat we did was for her best, but this didnt happend. While at our home, she avoided us, was polite, didnt get in trouble, an honor student, but it was clear she didn't like us. We did what we could to get her back, tried to talk, explain we had to be harsh, but nothing worked. She went to college, graduated, eft home. And practically wrote us off her life. Hubby's health isnt OK, we want to see her, hug her, tell her how we've always loved. But seems impossible, she doesnt talk to us. How this hurts!
2006-07-31
11:41:44
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Edson
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