Family & Relationships - 28 March 2007

I'm trying to understand a little how women think, so... can you please take a look and corret these theories, please? I'd appreciate it. Just in case, I don't mean to lump all women together in a stereotype. Just some general thoughts:

1. Women genitalia is body inwards: Does this mean women worlds are from inwards>outwards too? That is, women care first about themselves and then about other things.

2. Women recognize/acknowledge two things: that they are physically weaker than men and that the world is maybe too violent for them. This makes them strive for security as a requirement to develop the rest of their femininity.

3. Women test men trying to control them and hoping they won't allow to be controlled.

4. Women will value a man who is manly before others but also tender with them.

Thanks. =)

2007-03-28 05:14:42 · 11 answers · asked by Tedel 4 in Singles & Dating

Is a relationship getting too personal between a man and a woman when they start wanting to know when each others birthdays are? My husband's birthday was the other day, and this woman he works with told him, I know you don't really celebrate your birthday but I just want you to know that I didn't forget what day it was...He seems to be spending alot of time conversating with this woman when theres men there with him in the workplace.. Should I keep my eyes and ears open as it pertains to this particular relationship?

2007-03-28 05:14:16 · 11 answers · asked by stella 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I get frustrated with myself. I know what I want, what I'm capable of achieving, capable of being, but I let myself waste away. And then I get so far behind where I want to be, feel I ought to be, that the road back seems impossibly far away, so I get more frustrated and stagnent. I have an amazing gf and I want to be everything I can because of her but I get so afraid that I'll completely screw it up. Any advice for getting my swagger back? Tap back into my mojo?

2007-03-28 05:14:10 · 1 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

Now she is telling people that she is my girlfriend. The sex is
really good and I don't want to lose it so how do I get out of
the love comment and still keep the sex.. Plus, this woman I really want now thinks I have a girlfriend and won't talk to me. How can I resolve both things??

2007-03-28 05:14:04 · 8 answers · asked by Charles 1 in Singles & Dating

Eventually...


Smashing plates in my student house,
Breaking things I can live without,
Tearing up work thats taken me hours,
Just for a few moments of pleasure.

Slipping, sliding, falling, crying,
The girl inside of me's grown up,
From wearing polo necks in summer,
To posing naked for a lover.

The days of a care free life are gone,
Im left alone to struggle on,
But it's like my mother said to me,
Things will work out eventually.

2007-03-28 05:13:54 · 5 answers · asked by Lindsay T 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend has changed her mobile number after and argument. is there a way of getting her number without asking her mates so that they don't tell her i am asking

2007-03-28 05:13:16 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have always been fascinated by identical twins. I know some who are 61 years old now. These girl were exceptionally beautiful and each popular in their own rite. One was in my 6th grade class. One is now a dentist the other an artist. they live states apart. They have both put on pounds and both weigh the same. Both still striking.they look about 15 years younger.

What is your experience with Identical twins. I would also love to hear from a twin.

2007-03-28 05:13:14 · 16 answers · asked by ? 6 in Friends

from cars, to husbands, to houses everything is a competition
I hate it ! I am to the point where I dread talking to her.

2007-03-28 05:13:04 · 11 answers · asked by lovednotspoiled 5 in Friends

him and i broke up 9 months ago because he felt that we were too young to commit (me 21 and him 22)....he now has a girlfriend. everytime he calls me he desperately want to know where i work at, and if i buy a new car, and if i finish school, and if i party alot, rather than asking if i have a new boyfriend and how my health doing...he has a good job and is soon graduating.....how is he gonna benefit from knowing these things......DOES HE WANT ME BACK?????.......what is he up to?

2007-03-28 05:12:51 · 8 answers · asked by sexxxxyyyy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 05:12:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There was this girl who has liked me for the past year or so I suppose, and I decided I was interested in her as well, this year I decided to start talking to her, not much just a little bit, trying to be friendly, I know now, that for about the past week she doesn't like me, am I not what she expected? I haven't said anything to offend anyone, and I'm always confused. Any thoughts or comments would be greatly appreciated. Thank You.

2007-03-28 05:12:15 · 10 answers · asked by keichewer 1 in Singles & Dating

to give the neigbors a thrill??

2007-03-28 05:12:04 · 19 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you do when you are in love with someone? What's the normal way to treat your partner? How do you handle conflict? What things do you do/say to a girl when you start to like her?

2007-03-28 05:12:02 · 8 answers · asked by Paradiddle 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 05:11:58 · 14 answers · asked by Fancy Johnson 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 05:11:39 · 13 answers · asked by KayAlley 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I know my MIL hates me but doesn’t say it directly. She will criticize some other lady (whom I don’t even know) but on similar issues which are between me and her. My FIL and SIL will add their harsh comments to that. I know their indication is towards me. They don’t say it directly so that if I tell my husband they will say that they were talking about someone else and I am misunderstanding them. She is very possessive about her son. She makes me feel that their bond is much stronger and that he loves her more than he loves me. Maybe this is true because my husband will never see any fault in his mom’s actions and wants to do whatever she wants irrespective of my wishes. When I tell him about their comments about me, he will not be annoyed by them.
This time when they visited us I overheard my MIL criticizing every little thing about me to my FIL on my back. Now I have no doubt left that she is spreading a bad image of me among the relatives.
On the last day of their stay I confronted them. They did not accept what they said about me and on the contrary blamed me that I was making stories. They said that they might be talking about someone else and I assumed that they were talking about me. They said that they always think of my welfare and I am so unthankful. They even blamed me that I am breaking the house. Now my worry is that they will convince my husband that whatever I heard was about someone else, they love me and I am the one who wrong. My husband has blind faith in them. They can easily create misunderstanding between both of us. I am getting sick thinking about all this.I know my husband loves me a lot. I just want him to stand up for me in front of his parents and trust me because I have never lied to him and I am not wrong. Please advice what should I do. I understand he feels too pressurized from both the sides and he is too emotional to hurt anybody’s feelings. But if I don’t tell him about all this he will not understand my point of view and they will take him to their side. Also suggest how should I handle my relationship with my MIL. My FIL always insists that I should keep talking to them on phone but I am not doing so because I am reminded of the past bitter moments whenever I talk to my MIL. Should I still call them?

2007-03-28 05:10:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

can anyone help me find a florist which do good floral tributes for childrens funerals in the uk?

2007-03-28 05:10:42 · 5 answers · asked by jennie t 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I became engaged and only two months later my sister and her boyfriend became engaged. They have planned a very short engagement, with their wedding date only two months before ours. Now they have selected their wedding party and it includes both of my brothers and their spouses. The entire family, excluding my fiancé and I will be involved in this wedding.

For the seven years that they have been together her boyfriend made it very clear to all of us that he has not interest in being married. Why did it have to be right now, with such a short engagement? Mostly I just feel hurt that they didn’t think to consider my feelings at all and hurt that they have included the rest of the family. Am I just being selfish wanting my big day? Is it normal to be hurt by this?

2007-03-28 05:09:58 · 10 answers · asked by Angie 1 in Weddings

I know people learn from there mistakes but it would be an eye opener if people could give me advice on what not to do and what to do before I hit my 20s!

2007-03-28 05:09:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-28 05:09:46 · 26 answers · asked by hanoon 2 in Friends

I AM SEARCHING FOR MY LOST LOVE THAT I MET IN kOREA IN 1981,SHE CAME TO THE USA IN 1982,WE WERE DIVORCED DUE TO MILITARY DUTIES.I HAVE BEEN SEARCHING FOR OVER 20 YEARS NOW ..SHE FILED FOR DIVORCE IN THE CLARK COUNTY NEVADA COURT HOUSE..IF ANYONE KNOWS THIS PERSON PLEASE CONTACT ME ..HER NAME IS MI SUN KIM BEINEKE AT TIME OF MARRIAGE,NOW PROBABLY GOING UNDER MI SUN KIM ,OR KIM MI SUN ,SHE IS ABOUT 48 YEARS OLD...

2007-03-28 05:09:44 · 5 answers · asked by tlbeineke 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-28 05:08:46 · 29 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 05:08:31 · 24 answers · asked by MOONRAVEN 1 in Singles & Dating

as says I could claim her and the baby living with me, since she can't because she has never worked, and she wants me to give her all the money, she said she may give me some, but she needs it, what bothers me is, I need a break, and the money would help me right now, I am over my head with bills, and physically worn out, so I don't know what I should do, she has people helping her and I am struggling alone, she never visits unless its for somthing?

2007-03-28 05:08:08 · 8 answers · asked by kathleen h 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-28 05:06:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

away from your parents, you were admitted to both,, but your parents have attitude poblems saying that : you can;t go to school today because you were being a bad teenager when your 18, so would you rather move away and live in the dorms at the university in another state, or live with your parents and attend school living with them, and why? please help out if you can

2007-03-28 05:06:16 · 6 answers · asked by Vanesa G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i work in a bank and i have a reputation of being a player. it's my own fault i know but the problem is that i like this girl who also works here. i'm not trying to play her in any way but i'm afraid that she'll take my past into consideration and not want anything to do with me. would you look past that?

2007-03-28 05:05:57 · 24 answers · asked by glue stick 2 in Singles & Dating

any ideas of what to do on a first date (in la or orange county)?

2007-03-28 05:05:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When do I ask for a second date? how do i ask...the girls shy and i do not want her to think i am pressuring her or seeming desperate. text?

2007-03-28 05:05:22 · 5 answers · asked by Lanny 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 05:05:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family