Women, correct this theory about you, please...?

Question

I'm trying to understand a little how women think, so... can you please take a look and corret these theories, please? I'd appreciate it. Just in case, I don't mean to lump all women together in a stereotype. Just some general thoughts:

1. Women genitalia is body inwards: Does this mean women worlds are from inwards>outwards too? That is, women care first about themselves and then about other things.

2. Women recognize/acknowledge two things: that they are physically weaker than men and that the world is maybe too violent for them. This makes them strive for security as a requirement to develop the rest of their femininity.

3. Women test men trying to control them and hoping they won't allow to be controlled.

4. Women will value a man who is manly before others but also tender with them.

Thanks. =)

"Girls usually say a lot of different things when asked, each of us different from the others. When you watch them in real life, though, they usually contradict notoriously.

What I think a girl wants is a "tender jerk". Of course I'm going to explain: Someone romantic, chivalrious, sweet, affectionate, comforting... but at the same time, someone who shows himself masculine, strong, powerful, aggressive (of course, including herself)."

What do you think about this thought, please?

Answer 1

1. no, we most of us care aout others first.
2. there are a lot of weak men out there too, that whole we need security thing is a stereotype,well atleast i think so. maybe just becausemy mum always makes me carry all of her stuff, keeps u fit *lol*
3. yep i think i can agree with that one. dont let urself be controlled guys its a sign of weakness *evil laugh* lol
4. definetly agree with that one. its soooooo true.

hope i could help

Answer 2

1. If I'm not OK, then, how am I gonna take care of everybody else? So, yes, I take care of myself first.

2. The world is violent for everybody. Thinking that I'm weak WON'T make stronger. Even though a man might be physically stronger than me, I know I can use my intelligence and abilities to overcome this and make us equals.

3. Personally, I agree, but I think it works both ways. That is, men also try to control women, however, some hope women will allow to be controlled.

4. I totally agree with this.

Answer 3

Obviously I can't speak for all women, but I always think about other people before I do myself. Maybe too much for my own good. As far as #2 goes, I know many men that are physically weaker than myself. I think the security part goes back to childhood more so than gender. On testing men; children play games like that. Once you reach a certain age (it could be different for everybody), you stop all of that nonsense and concentrate on the important things in life. I agree with #4.

Answer 4

1. When push comes to shove, EVERY person cares most about themselves--it's called survival. In general, though, no. Woman are the nurturing ones who are responsible for creating loving families. Women teach their children those things that make life nice-empathy for others, kindness, love, etc...many women care for their men and their families even despite their own needs, so I think you are worng on this point.

2. Most women are generally physically weaker than most men. This is a general statement, and of course, there are very weak men and very strong women. The world is too violent, but I don't believe this is a function of my gender. What is more important, a harmonious life with laughter, family, friend, love, or killing people? I know my choice.

3. Both women and men test one another to see what their partner will or will not accept.

4. Yes. A woman will value a man who is confident and sure of himself, but who is tender and gentle with her. A man who is not sweet to his wife/mate will eventually realize her life is MUCH better all by herself than with a man who makes life sad or hard.

Answer 5

Speaking for myslf, Itend to care for myself first because we all should take care of #1 in our lives, I do not fear the world as violent, I do not feel weaker than a man, I enjoy a challenge...I believe # 4 to be true, I also like the fact that you are trying to understand these things better!!!Good luck

Answer 6

i am not at all like number 1! the only reason i stay alive is to help stuff!

men are not stronger than women. >:-( i can look after myself thanx

i don't get number 3 - it makes no sense

i like men who are sensitive and at least a little bit gorgeous!

by the way - how come there are boys answering and saying this is true? What do they know?

Answer 7

I agree with 3 and 4!! I'm confused by 1 and 2. lol

Answer 8

This woman says that your theories are FOS=full of sh*t...I did not recognize myself in either of your 4 points.

#1 I think one of the problems MOST women have is we dont think of ourselves first and you can forget about thinking about self once you have kids....its ALWAYS our children first.

#2 I have met PLENTY of men whose asss I can kick. My sister use to fight nothing but men and beat up an ex boyfriend AND her husband.

#3 I dont test men..I dont play head games with humans--I play board games and finally

#4 I appreciate a man that doesnt try to front that he doesnt have feelings and I hate the losers that act like they are made of steel...get real were all humans, we all bleed, and we all damn sure cry.

Ask your mother about these theories and get back to me....

Answer 9

1.true

2.true

3.not really

4.true

Answer 10

yeah, it's pretty much all true. Stereotypical but very true...