Family & Relationships - 28 March 2007

we've been having problems mainly concerning comunication, between myself and my wife. which has resulted in lack of bedroom antics of any kind. i don't think the problems lies with me. but obviously i play some part in it. are there any women who can relate to this and want to contact me for more detailed discussions.

2007-03-28 04:53:02 · 14 answers · asked by tam 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok...before i tell ya'll this, just kno its really hard to talk about, but i think aomeone out there has an anwser for me. ok....i go to church with a guy, and we've dated 3 times...when we met, we kicked it off from the start...(this was 3 years ago). later to find out he liked me. so we dated(10th grade yr). then broke up after only 2 months.well later that year we became friends again till this summer (goin into my 11th garde yr) he texted me and tells me he still wants to be with me...and i did too. so we had the best summer of my life. i love him, like so much that i think about him everyday. i love him. and its more than puppy love, everyone hates him cuz he treats me like crap now that we broke up, and he is best friends with my ex best friend who i HATE!!!! but my good friend from church told me that he thought he mite still have feelins for me. wat to do? i have a bf but we would NEVER have as much as me n DM did. becuz no matter how bad he treats me my feelins wont change.

2007-03-28 04:52:05 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay... my Navy Man is out to sea right now. he will be back on base early moning on the 6th of next month... witch is a little while but perfect to plan something special. he's flyin me in from C.A to V.A that night! i will be out there for 5 days. i want to show him that i can but i don't want to blow him away literally... he told me that we are driving out to New Jersey the next day and he asked me if i will meet his parents... i'm nervous but all for it! what do i do? how do i show him that i care but not scare him away? i've missed him and it's barly been 3 days since he left... HELP ME OUT PLEASE!!!

2007-03-28 04:51:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Met a guy and had an instant extreme dislike.
Everything about him just annoyed the *&)*) out of me -- think about an underskin itch that can't be scratch or won't go away.
I also went out of my way to let him know that I despised him with passion. -- I couldn't help it because I always felt an intense anger around him.

But then our eyes met for the first time....lo and behold...I felt like I was finally at home ...so safe and secured, and had a feeling of a lock and a key (strange I know)...


The thing is I don't know this guy -- he's just some stranger who turned my life upside down.

And NO...we're not dating, but I noticed that he noticed me too considering I was very rude to him.


Can you explain why I felt an instant anger/dislike before the eye contact accident?

2007-03-28 04:51:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The persons personality is kind and loving yet when something doesnt go their way, the person is determined to make it their way? They dont take no as an answer and caused guilty feelings.This person tells you not to go to do certain things(parties, etc), return home at a certain time, not to smoke anymore, and not to talk to a certain person anymore. This person is extremely kind but when tested can be cold. What is this?

2007-03-28 04:51:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She has Black hair about 4'7 looks 9or10 and is really hot

2007-03-28 04:51:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex and me had a baby 2 monthes ago we have been gettin along great like was gonna get back together great but last weekend and eversince then the has been fussin at me for one thing or another she wont hardly talk to me now she started her birth control again for the first time since she has had our son could that make her moody for a lil while or what could it be? should i keep callin her even though she wont hardly talk to me i dont want her to think i'm mad or pissed or dont like her or anything like that ladies please help any ideas?

2007-03-28 04:51:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so like ii really like this guy and ii got with him and everything but since ii got with him I'm like too shy to talk to him and he always looks at me like if he wants to talk to me but he never does...should ii try to talk to him again or should ii just forget about him? ahh help!

2007-03-28 04:50:45 · 10 answers · asked by Ms.Carter 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 3.5 years broke up with me 2 months ago because he knew deep down I wanted time to be single since I never really had been. I had said it to him a couple times before, and said i wish i met him later in life. I was also often miserable and rude to him becasue deep down I resented the fact that I had a boyfriend. He is 5 years older and approaching 30 and ready to settle down and have kids. So he told me to take this time to date other guys and really find myself because that is the only way i will be happy with him is if i am happy w/ myself first. Two months have now passed and I realize that I want to be with him, but he still isn't ready to see me and last month told me he thinks more time is needed. Do you think two months is enough time or is it reasonable and mature of him to be waiting longer?

2007-03-28 04:50:43 · 18 answers · asked by beth r. 3 in Singles & Dating

See I'm promiscuous and it's only when i'm not in a relationship.With a friend with benefits. but when your in a relationship that you think might go some where how do you answer the question knowing what a guy might think, and how he might act.please i need advise. thanks

2007-03-28 04:50:23 · 13 answers · asked by pvy_crazy 2 in Singles & Dating

you you ather be in control of your relationtship or the lady your with??? Both in the bedroom and out...

2007-03-28 04:50:18 · 2 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband spends more time on the computer than with me. Also, whenever an issue arises and we need to talk or solve it together; he brushes it off and goes to his computer. I don't know how to talk to him anymore and the sad part is we have been married less than a year. This is an everyday thing. How can i better communicate with him?

2007-03-28 04:49:59 · 19 answers · asked by Neglected 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The winning answer i will do,anything can be suggested!

2007-03-28 04:49:15 · 34 answers · asked by cheekie 1 in Singles & Dating

If I meet somebody I quite like at a party for example or in a shop- should i let them know? how can i tell if they are interested in me? I am quite an introverted and soft-spoken person but I am tired of always missing my chances... so any general advice???

2007-03-28 04:49:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have heard it called sport f__k___ng. Do many of you have dark secrets?

2007-03-28 04:49:06 · 14 answers · asked by donte' 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been talking to a guy from my college on the computer and phone for a couple of weeks. He is very sweet and seemed very excited to meet me. We met yesterday for the first time and he was very touchy feely (rubbing my back, holding my hand, kissing me). We left to go for a drive and on the way, he just kept asking me about what i like sexually (I thought this was weird because he's muslim and not supposed to be acting like that) I'm Christian, but am attracted to both his looks and personality, but I figured since he's muslim he wouldn't be a player. We parked somewhere and he asked to kiss me, which was fine because I wanted to kiss him, too. He then lifted my shirt and kissed my breasts and then unzipped his pants and wanted oral sex. I know this is stupid, but I did it. I like him and want him to like me. After he had an orgasm we left and he drove me back to my car and dropped me off. I haven't heard from him (and I always do)- Was I used?

2007-03-28 04:48:55 · 3 answers · asked by jamella_amriceah 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel like ive wasted all these years and through out high school till now ive never had a real relationship or talked to many girls and feel that its to late..now that im old nobodies going to want me..

2007-03-28 04:48:38 · 4 answers · asked by Tookie Williams 4 in Singles & Dating

we broke up weeks ago and ever since he has been the one contacting me - i respond to his messages - he has a bad attitude and when he blows his top he wants to turn around and act nice - he has me very lost because the only thing he seems to ask is how am doing and how my new job is going and when i respond he says nothing after that - a few days would go by at a time without him reaching me and i guess after he sees i am not making the effort he does - i dont understand - what does he want from me?

2007-03-28 04:48:06 · 15 answers · asked by thetruth 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to know more information about her, there must be loads of places on the internet to find out?

2007-03-28 04:47:11 · 24 answers · asked by James O 2 in Singles & Dating

He in entering his residency in July. I was just curious to know if there are any other women out there in similar situations. Any online message boards? I know it's going to be tough and I want to go into this with my eyes open and with realistic expectations.

2007-03-28 04:45:57 · 14 answers · asked by dehalima 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-28 04:45:57 · 5 answers · asked by seekk 1 in Friends

My girlfriend was invited to a kids birthday party sunday at 5pm. Originally she told me it was on a Saturday and that I was expected to attend also. Now I find its on Sunday......There are 1000 other things I would rather do, need to do with my Sunday then this, granted I like spending time with her but this is a 1 yr old birthday party we are talking about...

Am I obligated or can I politely decline?

2007-03-28 04:45:53 · 9 answers · asked by orderless1 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 04:45:31 · 2 answers · asked by sarah g 1 in Singles & Dating

why do we exist?( not jus coz our paerents liked doin it)lol

2007-03-28 04:45:09 · 12 answers · asked by luv2luvu 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is at a point to where his friends and his ball playing (which is where his friends come in also) are his main concern in his life. He treats me okay when we are by ourselves but, when his friends are around he either doesn't know who I am or is sometimes rude to me in front of them. (All of his friends have wives and girlfriends that hang out with them too, wherever one of his friends are their wife or girlfriend is there too and I'm friends with their wives and girlfriends.). He acts happier if I don't hang out with them. When we get home the story changes, he wants all of my attention then. This is very difficult for me. We used to play ball (coed), workout, and hang out together all of the time, even with his friends. Now, that I'm on the "back burner", sometimes I feel like I'm going crazy and I don't know how to handle it or what to do. I've lost my absolute best friend. Any suggestions? I believe in divorce only for adultery so that is not an option.

2007-03-28 04:45:01 · 13 answers · asked by Dsoftball 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, my guy is Iraq right now. I felt that something wrong was going on right. (I don't mean the war). Then, I began getting fowared messages from "someone" that broke into my guy's email account. There were emails that he was emailing other girls saying stuff like, "I can't wait to see you, let's have a night redezvous, you're still the same hot girl that I came to love even though it was short lived" and those words weren't just for one girl!
So then I asked him about those emails, he got upset cause later we found out that it was my best friend who had broken into his account but, those emails he did write to those other girls. He swears to me that they are just friends and that was it. But then Why in the hell was he never that romantic with me or even write those words to me. So what do you think, should I believe him or should I just let him go ?

2007-03-28 04:43:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 19 and was sitting in class and the substitude kept looking at me and everytime I turned to look at her she would look away and when the bell rang and I got up to exit the room she woulnd take her eyes off me. I just smiled at her and left.

2007-03-28 04:43:23 · 24 answers · asked by Fancy Johnson 1 in Singles & Dating

...and a bottle of champagne with anyone you wanted, who would it be?

2007-03-28 04:42:36 · 38 answers · asked by long_luscious_lashes 3 in Singles & Dating

i really need it... thanks...





What is lovE?
Do you believe in it?
If it comes with pain,
Would you forfeit?

I know I wouldn’t
‘Caused I believed again
That love is rare bur true
That there is no pain, no gain

When I was little,
I thought my life was perfect, everything
But after a brush with reality?
Really, it’s eye-opening

I then became a cynic
Looked for a reason every good deed
My negativity ate me up
Which was once just a seed

But I started believing again
I don’t know why or how
Maybe it was just something you said
That kept me high

Love is built on trust and respect
Hardships strengthen it bit by bit
And I’d accept love with pain
As long as you’re there to keep me sane

I know love is rare
I know that love is true
But would it work,
For me and you

2007-03-28 04:42:31 · 8 answers · asked by dong ai rui 2 in Friends

My oldest son who is 23 will be getting married this year. I was handed down my dad and moms wedding ring set (not worth a whole lot but it means everything to me since my dad past away) Would it be inapropriate to write a contract up between me and his fiance something to the effect that if something should ever happen to them that she returns the rings to me?

I only have two things to remind me of my dad one is those rings and the other is a teddy bear that he had sent me when I was ten. (my parents were divorced and I hadn't seen him since)

2007-03-28 04:42:15 · 27 answers · asked by sweet_n_sassy2204 2 in Weddings