Was I used?

Question

I have been talking to a guy from my college on the computer and phone for a couple of weeks. He is very sweet and seemed very excited to meet me. We met yesterday for the first time and he was very touchy feely (rubbing my back, holding my hand, kissing me). We left to go for a drive and on the way, he just kept asking me about what i like sexually (I thought this was weird because he's muslim and not supposed to be acting like that) I'm Christian, but am attracted to both his looks and personality, but I figured since he's muslim he wouldn't be a player. We parked somewhere and he asked to kiss me, which was fine because I wanted to kiss him, too. He then lifted my shirt and kissed my breasts and then unzipped his pants and wanted oral sex. I know this is stupid, but I did it. I like him and want him to like me. After he had an orgasm we left and he drove me back to my car and dropped me off. I haven't heard from him (and I always do)- Was I used?

Answer 1

Where you ****** up on is that you only knew him for a couple of weeks and now that made you seem easy so if he wants something he is going straight to you for it. Yeah hate to say it but yes you were used thats all he wanted. If you don't want that to happen again then just talk to the boy longer enough to know him, I would say a couple of months so you know he's not using you cause he'll be expecting it so if he leaves before then because your taking to long then that's all he wanted.

Answer 2

Well its too early to say yes or no. Give it a few days and see if he will call you. But it was stupid of you to do that in the first day of your meeting. You should wait for more few meetings in order to assest him, first.

The question of religion can hardly be raised here as neither of the two religions condon what you did.
Good luck!/

Answer 3

I am sorry to tell u this but yes and if he contacts u again it will be only for sex of some kind.