my ex and me had a baby 2 monthes ago we have been gettin along great like was gonna get back together great but last weekend and eversince then the has been fussin at me for one thing or another she wont hardly talk to me now she started her birth control again for the first time since she has had our son could that make her moody for a lil while or what could it be? should i keep callin her even though she wont hardly talk to me i dont want her to think i'm mad or pissed or dont like her or anything like that ladies please help any ideas?
2007-03-28 04:51:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well one of two things...Either it is post partum depression, or 2:, She has a kid who looks like you and doesn't want to repeat that mistake again!!!
2007-04-04 23:49:15 · answer #1 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she is just freaked about the new baby. post partum depressiion. give her some time to get used to her new life and stuff. she needs to get used to being a mother and i guess at first she was happy with her baby but now shw is seeing how mcuh it will change her life. just talk with her a bit and tell her u will be there for her and ur baby. dont call too much so she sees that u care but that u wont annoy her. congrats.
2007-04-04 19:19:21 · answer #2 · answered by shychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok her hormones are out of wack, she is up very 2 to 4 hours feeding a baby and changing dirty diapers and getting puked on.
do I need to say more?
instead of calling you should be there helping letting her get a break or take a nap bet she would appreciate that.
2007-04-04 19:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by angie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u still love her?why not return all the broken pieces u 2 have and patch things up again. u don't want ur son to grom without a family of his own do u?
2007-04-05 01:23:26 · answer #4 · answered by honey_106 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's probably just postpartum depression (depression after just giving birth). give her time to figure things out for herself first. but i suggest you find time for your baby. i don't know how you are going to do it though... try calling her but don't call too much that it would be annoying. i can't imagine how sad it would be for a father to to see his child all the time. good luck and congratulations on your new baby.
2007-03-28 07:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by dsnake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its depression overtired from being a mother to a newborn and also her hormones and part of post partnum depression and part of it is also birth control also plus she probably over stressed and feels overwhelmed
2007-04-04 15:24:08 · answer #6 · answered by wiccanangel2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋