Okay, my guy is Iraq right now. I felt that something wrong was going on right. (I don't mean the war). Then, I began getting fowared messages from "someone" that broke into my guy's email account. There were emails that he was emailing other girls saying stuff like, "I can't wait to see you, let's have a night redezvous, you're still the same hot girl that I came to love even though it was short lived" and those words weren't just for one girl!
So then I asked him about those emails, he got upset cause later we found out that it was my best friend who had broken into his account but, those emails he did write to those other girls. He swears to me that they are just friends and that was it. But then Why in the hell was he never that romantic with me or even write those words to me. So what do you think, should I believe him or should I just let him go ?
2007-03-28 04:43:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
look at the dates of those emails...read them over...if it feels wrong to you then it is. from what you say it sounds as though he's playing you and the other girls and your best friend is trying to save you more heartache.
2007-03-28 05:01:47 · answer #1 · answered by baconbit 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, it sounds to me like a lot of mixed information and bad realtionships. I mean, utlimately, you have to get to the bottom of it. And you basically answered your own question here. If you are feeling doubtful, you need to look into the matter as deeply as you can, and you yourself will tell you what is right. If you are in a relationship where suspicion and doubting is a daily occurance, that relationship does not need to exist. You can't make anyone else happy unless you are happy. And if you are constantly feeling this way, the relationship will never work anyway. And these thoughts will always be in the back of your mind if you stay with him, no matter how hard you try to make it work. Don't sell yourself short and smarten up. You sound pretty young, and the situation is crazy. Just get out and let him do whatever he wants to do, and you get on with your life. Don't waste valuable time on doubts and suspicions. Oh my God, and please don't let these people tell you "he's at war, he's a soldier', etc. He wasn't drafted, that would be different. He chose that career path for whatever reason. And soldier or not, he's still a human being and has a brain and hopefully a little self control.
2007-03-28 12:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by buebla 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd say it should be a hot topic of discussion between the two of you once he gets back. You an make a decision about all of this once that has taken place.
In the meantime you should locate your best friend and set her on fire for being so underhanded. Despite what you may think she has done you no favor whatsoever by pulling this little stunt.
2007-03-28 12:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's at war!! They are lonely, dirty, scared and every other emotion you can imagine. Cut him some slack! There can't be that many women he can actually gain access to. What is the harm in having some fantacy fun when he can't be with you.
Support your husband, your soldier, your best friend and don't make something small into somethig big. You will regret it in the end.
2007-03-28 11:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would say give him a break it can't be that bad his in war and he's prob really lonely and needs one to talk to even though your with him he is in a another country and no body's really there to communicate with him
2007-03-28 13:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by Brooke_C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go.
If he is asking other women to have "redezvous" with him, that means that he doesn't respect you at all.
Drop him now!
2007-03-28 12:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Believe him i don't think he would lie to you.
2007-03-28 12:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by bluemist 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋