2007-03-28 05:11:39 · 13 answers · asked by KayAlley 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Husband is depressed, poor work history, and father never has liked him at all. Poor work history as father causes problems and thinks its funny to give son in law a challenge. His father in law did it to him...
2007-03-28 05:22:01 · update #1
Then after I said NO! They told me to keep it a secret from him that they even sprung the deal at me in the first place. Did i do the right thing in telling my husband?
2007-03-28 11:30:49 · update #2
I'd talk with him and see what the issues are and then make a rational decision. You didn't give enough info to make that decision for you.
2007-03-28 05:17:50 · answer #1 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what your husband has or hasn't done. Does he beat you? Does he have a job? Does he help you out at home or in any financial way? Are you the only one working? If this is the case, you should divorce. Or give an ultimatum. If you are supporting your husband, you are not in a marriage. A marriage is two people supporting each other. Why don't married people see that? Nowdays, marriage is all romance and oooo....we're getting married, he got me big ring, we're going to have a baby.....but what about SUPPORTING EACH OTHER????? That is what marriage is all about. It sounds to me like your father is right. But if you want more answers, you should add a little more info.
2007-03-28 12:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by buebla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this case yes i would stop all contact with father and work on my marriage and stay by my husbands side through it all. Good luck to you and here comes lots of hugs your way today. Tell your dad that you love your husband and that you will stick by him no matter what and if your dad disowns you for it that is his choice to make.
2007-03-28 12:33:02 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not enough info. If there is nothing wrong with you husband, then I say dump your father. If your husband is a drug head, a drunk, a wife abuser, a child abuser, a criminal, chronically unemployed or just a plain all-around ******, then I would agree with your father.
2007-03-28 12:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're married, your father has nothing to do with your marriage. Will you regret divorcing your husband? Or will you regret getting the old man's money? Your father will get over it. Godloveya
2007-03-28 12:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it all depends on what ur husband did to you and what ur father knows that we dont.. all I know is ur father only wants the best for you... and he may give u this ultimatum to scare u.. im sure he would still love you.... its ur choice if u stay with ur husband... just give ur dad the reason that u love ur husband and that you need to make ur own mistakes to learn in life.... thank him for caring for you and tell ur dad u love him.. but just allow u to do this ur way this one time...
2007-03-28 12:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by gina B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No stand by your husband but don't let daddy pay your bills it's a 2 way street.
2007-03-28 12:36:55 · answer #7 · answered by bluemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would be the better person and say "Dad, if decide to turn your back on me, that is your choice" but I would not stoop so low as to disown him. If he chose to behave as badly as that then that is his choice.
2007-03-28 12:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, without a second thought. My husband comes first, not my parents.
2007-03-28 12:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh Yeah?
2007-03-28 12:14:12 · answer #10 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋