Is a relationship getting too personal between a man and a woman when they start wanting to know when each others birthdays are? My husband's birthday was the other day, and this woman he works with told him, I know you don't really celebrate your birthday but I just want you to know that I didn't forget what day it was...He seems to be spending alot of time conversating with this woman when theres men there with him in the workplace.. Should I keep my eyes and ears open as it pertains to this particular relationship?
2007-03-28 05:14:16 · 11 answers · asked by stella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you are overreacting. I dont think its a big deal to converse with a coworker of the opposite sex. I really wouldnt worry about it at all... Now if they went out to dinner and a movie.... then maybe you can worry, but otherwise if you trust him then I wouldnt press the issue.
2007-03-28 05:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, honey, keep your eyes and ears open and make "friends" with the woman. It's better to be close to your enemies. Smile and don't accuse. Your husband is flattered that she's giving him attention. If I were you, I'd up the attention-level on your part, up my "sexy self" and he'll forget all about his little fantasy. If you want to keep your man, nip this in the bud with a smile on your face! Godloveya.
2007-03-28 12:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women can be deceptive and the fact she made a point of letting him know she didn't forget his birthday tells me she wants him to recognize the extra attention she's giving him in the hopes of getting some back.
2007-03-28 12:35:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A BIRTHDAY is supposed to be a secret?
A lot of people keep track of friends and coworkers birthdays, anniversaries, etc. There is a woman here at work who somehow knows EVERYONE'S birthday. And I mean EVERYONE - 200 people.
Give me a break. A birthday is not ultra-personal information.
2007-03-28 12:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi, I think you should keep you eyes and ears open. It is better to be safe then sorry. That way you will know. But if some thing come out of it. You will see it in his eye and in his love making. How he treats you. Your the one that has been there for him. So if anything change you will know.
2007-03-28 12:34:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like an emotional affair. I fell into that trap several years ago without realizing it. Thank goodness it did not progress further, and I love my wife dearly. He may not realize what is going on. This other woman may want him in a more intimate way. I'd certainly be concerned if I were you. I'm glad my wife called me on it years ago.
2007-03-28 12:21:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know all of my colleagues birthdays, male and female, and I don't have any issues with anyone female knowing my b/f's birthday, I think that is a really minor thing to be honest, are you sure there is nothing else going on that makes you suspicious?
2007-03-28 12:51:56 · answer #7 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
UMMMMM nope. Guys talk to chicks. Time to get over it peeps. I'm sure that at work you talk to guys.
2007-03-28 12:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by Zen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That sounds very harmless to me. Do not give it another thought.
2007-03-28 12:35:52 · answer #9 · answered by LDR02 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stella....life is short...for me...I only worry when there is something to worry about....this would not even get on my radar...nothing to worry about
2007-03-28 12:38:03 · answer #10 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋