Family & Relationships - 27 March 2007

My ex says he is not ready for a child and doesn't want to be part of our unborn child's life. He wanted me to terminate the pregnancy and I won't, so now he wants me to adopt. Is his only motive is because he doesn't want to pay child support? He wants to terminate his parental rights- suggestions?

2007-03-27 12:39:56 · 8 answers · asked by . 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-27 12:39:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend tells me how he is so tired of his kids coming home and leaving big messes and he says they are like the trash....the longer they stay the more they start to stink.
He says they move home and act like they are 12 yrs old again and trash everything and expect him to take care of them. He gets really on edge when they are there. He actually locked us into the house for about 3 hours for some privacy together. His son is 29 and just had a new baby and his daughter is 26 and is married. They just live beyond their means and rely on him to bail them out of financial trouble and they move home and mooch basically. They bring their girlfriends, husband and kids and move on in. His daughter told him she wanted to stay for 3 months and ended up 1 yr. How can I help?

2007-03-27 12:38:57 · 19 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family

in a girl
like what combo
brown hair green eyes
blonde hair brown eyes
just some examples♥...

2007-03-27 12:38:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A professional photographer that is a "friend" of my fiance agreed to photograph our wedding. He does great work and we got a good deal on the price. Well, 3 weeks before the wedding, he had the chance to take a good job overseas so we got screwed. We realize he can't be too good of a friend to do this to us. Anyway, I'm not going to trip about it(enough stress already) and we decided that since so many relatives and friends have nice digital cameras, we have asked them to take as many photos as possible. Then, once we are back from our honeymoon, we will go have portraits taken. My question is, what are some of the shots we need to ask our friends to take of us? If anyone has a list, I would greatly appreciate it, thanks.

2007-03-27 12:38:09 · 8 answers · asked by abbacat 5 in Weddings

I was married to a cop for 16 years. He apparently cheated on me much of those years and it ultimately ended our marriage. In my research, I've found that this is the ONLY profession to be studied for infidelity, which is reported at 80% of all police officers. I was a good wife, mother, there was no abuse, everything seemed fine - and I'm not a stupid or naive person. What's the deal with cops???

2007-03-27 12:37:51 · 12 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have to respond by email because she wont pick up her phone or see me... I am so helpless... what should i say? I want somethiong whitty or humorous atleast because that's my sense of humnor.

2007-03-27 12:37:49 · 6 answers · asked by x3454wd3yesdf 1 in Singles & Dating

........................ have been a mentally,
spiritually, and physically depleting ride. I'm through with love.(It has not been worth the hassle!) So I'm going to experiment with a relationship/intamcy free lifestyle.
Question: Any tips on living this new way of life without dieing of being lonely.

2007-03-27 12:37:47 · 3 answers · asked by Bob 2 in Singles & Dating

Did you decide to distance yourself from your kids because of a relationship or yourself? How did it affect your relationship with your children

My father was not hands on and i still have issues with that felt like he could have done more

2007-03-27 12:37:37 · 7 answers · asked by Diva 3 in Marriage & Divorce

me & my ex broke up over a year ago after going out for about a year and i'm completely fine. it didn't really end until half a year after that and we haven't really had any direct contact for about 7 months now. but i still think about him everyday. i don't know why and it kind of bothers me. i don't want to be with him and i know i deserve better. i don't even love him anymore and i don't miss him cuz i know he's a different person now. i have great friends and everythings been going well for me. so why do i sometimes imagine conversations with him? will there ever be a time where i don't think of him for days?

2007-03-27 12:37:21 · 9 answers · asked by going crazy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so i have a bf that is kind of an off and on kind of thing but we are best friends and are very very close but we just fight a lot. but anyways. there is this guy at my school that likes me and he keeps asking me out and i keep saying no because right now im dating someone else. but im really close to this guy at school and whenever i'm having problems with my bf, i go and talk to him about it, so he thinks that i'm never happy with my bf. but i really want this guy to stop asking me out and just move one because i dont like him like that but i dont want to be mean because we are really good friends. what do i do???

2007-03-27 12:36:26 · 1 answers · asked by kayla 1 in Singles & Dating

how do u tell a guy you want him to stop hurting you.when he gets mad he likes to grab me to hard and push me around and i dont know how to tell him he needs to be more gentle without pissing him off. I try not to make him mad to aviod it but he always finds something to be angry about i love him and never wanna break up wiht him but i dont know how to stop making him mad. any ideas would be great thanxs guys

2007-03-27 12:36:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my insecurity. Something about her really intimidates me. I'm usually confident and outspoken. What am I going to do?

2007-03-27 12:35:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

rich girls cuz like i am and its ovious i dont go around saying "hey im rich" i just have the house ,the partys the clothes, the popularity ,the hair pretty much the whole package and i am humble about it i dont tell alot of ppl. but i just dont want guys juging me and thinking im a snob...CUZ IM NOT. im like really super sweet.

2007-03-27 12:35:37 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

(i know this question has nothing to do with this category butit wasnt getting answers, but i need fast help)
okay so i have shin splints but im afraid that they might be something more serious, like a stress fracutre.

i started spring track like a month ago, and a couple days into it, i would have pain in my shins (but not severe pain)

BUT NOW.... the pain is so severe that i can hardly walk.
the pain is severe at the beginning of a run, but then moderate in the middle and then even more severe at the end.....

HELPPPPPPP idk what to do
ive been going to my school trainer and getting my shins taped everyday but they have only gotten worse. ive also been icing and heating them but nothing seems to help
he says i should stop track all together BUT i dont want to...
**PLEASE HELP (that would be much appreciated)**

2007-03-27 12:35:13 · 7 answers · asked by umm hey 1 in Singles & Dating

When a guy tells you that a booty call is exactly what it is, but gets pissed off when I'm with another guy, then wants me to be away from everything, then does he want me for himself? Or does he just doesn't want anyone to have me? I need to know, PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!

2007-03-27 12:34:38 · 1 answers · asked by lil mama 1 in Singles & Dating

how do i tell if im the only one who thinks this way if the others might think im nerdy too?

2007-03-27 12:34:18 · 22 answers · asked by nikky 1 in Singles & Dating

She never lets me hold the remote.

2007-03-27 12:34:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The guy I have like the BIGGEST crush on sits behind me in one of my classes!The problem is he's really shy and I'm really shy around some guys, so I don't know what to do. I know I should try to talk to him, but I have no idea what to say. Help!?

2007-03-27 12:34:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Dad is an alcoholic and two nights ago I finally, after 23 years, told him how it hurts me to see him drunk and how angry it has made me.
Now he isn`t talking to me and our relationship has fallen apart. We`ve always been close.I don`t know what to do. I`m still angry with him because he drinks and won`t stop for the sake of our family, but I don`t want him mad at me for a legitimate feeling I have. What should I do?

2007-03-27 12:33:53 · 12 answers · asked by ALittleLight 2 in Family

I'm so mad I could burst...
My mom has always compared me to my depressed aunt and my kind of lazy brother...she always says I remind her of them..."oh you remind me of how nasty my sister was to our mother" blahblahblah...My mother blames EVERYTHING on me. It's always me with the attitude problem, ME who's miserable, me who has issues...when my older brother and my father know my mother has a tendency to have an attitude and act weirdly...
I feel like I'm crazy cuz I don't feel that I'm miserable - I'm 17 and I have a lot going on in my life and yes I'm moody like most teens - and this makes me just want to cry. It's like she constantly wants to make me feel like I'm a terrible person when she doesn't even try to understand me. She probably thinks shes this sweet person - but she's definitely not...she can be SO MEAN!
idk what to do! Am I the one w/ the problem? Is this even normal behavior btwn. mothers & daughters? Anyone else gone thru this? What should I do!?

2007-03-27 12:33:44 · 2 answers · asked by newyorkrose9 3 in Family

and I dont know what to do anymore. I cant cope with this. It just happened about 5 minutes ago, and my dad openly told my mom he would divorce her. and my mom said ok fine. and I want to die right now. I really dont know what to do.

2007-03-27 12:33:41 · 9 answers · asked by ihatelifesproblems 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean i love him all the way, and I want to get married and so does he, but i dont want to lose my family

2007-03-27 12:33:09 · 13 answers · asked by Stephanie 1 in Weddings

2007-03-27 12:33:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I tell this guy I really like that I like him. I don't want to just walk up to him and tell him? Got anything creative???

2007-03-27 12:32:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I have this guyfriend who has been my BFF for 3 years. During that time we fell in love and became boyfriend/girlfriend and then we split and we got in a fight. Now we are friends again and I kinda like him but I havent hang out with him in a while and I think he likes another girl... HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-27 12:31:58 · 15 answers · asked by charmedmagick28 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay so there is a guy at my school and he is a cowboy and he is or should i say was, a really nice guy. He had found out that i liked him and i had wrote him notes in the past jus to throw a couple of hints! And he looks at me in the hallway all the time its weird! But anyway so my Bestfriend askd him if he liked me and he told her probably not... (question: Does that mean he is not for sure that he likes me or what?) But now he gives me weird looks in the hallway sometimes there good looks and sometimes their bad looks so i jus throw them right back at him! QUESTION: Am I being to harsh or mean or even maybe blowing this out of proportion..? Do I still try and get him or leave him alone? And he still kinda watchs me sometimes... WHAT DO I DO!???!!

2007-03-27 12:31:52 · 17 answers · asked by luh luh la reee! 2 in Singles & Dating

When I was gone over the weekend my boyfriend chatted with a women who invited him for drinks. He agreed, then decided not to go, He emailed her and said can't go that I was coming home, let's go another time.(mind you I was not coming home for yet another day) He did not tell me about this situation. While going on to our computer to check my email. Her response to his decline email, was up on the screen. I found this and got very angry and felt he was hiding something or cheating on me. He says he is not that if he was he would have gone for drinks with her. I need an outsiders opinoin on whether or not he is being truthful or just lying!?!
TOTALLY CONFUSED!

2007-03-27 12:31:49 · 12 answers · asked by Kelly A 1 in Singles & Dating

What if the marriage was built on falsehoods to start out with...can something be made from nothing? What are your opinions....

2007-03-27 12:31:42 · 7 answers · asked by soelmama 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I personally don't know any couples who are swingers (or any singles either)

But if you do, how stable is their relationship.

Even if you dont know a couple, what do you think about it. Bad idea?? They can't really be in love if they want other people?? or its just something they like to do, no biggie?

2007-03-27 12:31:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating