Well I have this guyfriend who has been my BFF for 3 years. During that time we fell in love and became boyfriend/girlfriend and then we split and we got in a fight. Now we are friends again and I kinda like him but I havent hang out with him in a while and I think he likes another girl... HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-27 12:31:58 · 15 answers · asked by charmedmagick28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(We are in Highschool)
2007-03-27 12:44:34 · update #1
You say you "kinda like him" now - well, that doesn't sound very earth-shattering to me. So, he's back in your circle of friends again and you've rekindled a friendship, but he's into another chick. That's fine, don't dwell on the situation or make a big deal about being around him again. It's not worth wasting all your high school years trying to figure out one person -- you already gave him three years and now the two of you are different people than you were before. Move on and see who else is fun to be with and available. There are lots of great guys out there, so don't limit yourself to this one just because he's familiar!
Good luck!
PS - Why does BFF stand for Boyfriend? What's the extra F for?
2007-03-28 15:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by geoxena 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,since you two are friends again,this shouldnt be too difficult.Before you spill your heart out to him,ask him casually while speaking with him if he has his eye on any females,or if he likes anyone.Usually that is who knows first,their friends.So,you asking will not seem too out of the ordinary.If he says no,then you need to trust him in that.If he says who she is,maybe it would be best to back off.You tried the relationship thing before,obviously so it is important that you not make the same mistake again.If he doesnt,then bring up that feelings for him have arose with you,and you would like to try again.However,dont put pressure on him.Dont come out and say it before you get details.If you come out too fast,even tho you two are friends it may scare him away from the whole relationship idea.Good luck hun,and have a good night!
2007-03-27 19:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by ~♡~Moon Goddess~♡~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm pretty sure if you follow this advice you will get your story made into a movie. You need to send him a note from the IRS telling him he owes 20 million in back taxes. And yuo need to set up a fake IRS office and when he comes in your like the only way you can't pay your taxes is if you fake your death, and I can help you do that. And while your helping him fake his death you fall in love. Ill send you the full script on monday.
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2007-03-27 19:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by JuliusRomans 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well, it seems like maybe you two need to look out for more possibilities...it doesn't sound like you are totally feeling it, neither is he. let him like another girl, he'll still have you as a friend, and a lot of times thats more fun than a relationship because all the pressure is off and you can talk about anything.
2007-03-27 19:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by Surfergirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was once in love with my BFF and never got around to tell him. You two were together, so he knows that you once cared about him. It can't hurt for you to sit him down and say 'I have these feeling and think we should get back together' or whatever. Something of that nature.
Honesty is best. Seriously. Either way it goes, he needs to know and you have to get it off of your chest. You know?
GOOD LUCK!! :)
2007-03-27 19:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by CC 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you and him are meant to be just friends and you need to expect that if he doesn't feel the same way about you. Talk to him and see how he feels and if he feels like you and him are nothing more then friends then you need to move on.
2007-03-27 19:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you like him tell him! the worst that can happen is he says that he wants to be friends or he like someone else. You never want to look back on your life and think...what if! At least that how i feel about life.
2007-03-27 19:37:27 · answer #7 · answered by buddafly_2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You say he is a long time friend you should be able to come out and ask him. Be honest and let him know what you are thinking.
2007-03-27 19:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by Alone again 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
REMEMBER, IT TAKES 2 PEOPLE TO MAKE SOMETHING HAPPEN. CUT HIM LOOSE AND BE HAPPY WITH YOU TAKING CARE OF YOU. MAYBE HE WILL RETURN, BUT THEN MAKE HIM EARN EVERYTHING, ESPECIALLY IF OTHER WOMEN ARE INVOLVED. IF HE LIKES ANOTHER GIRL, WHOS TO SAY HE DOESN'T HAVE MORE RIGHT NOW. LOVE YOU MORE NOW THAN EVER. OK?
2007-03-27 19:38:56 · answer #9 · answered by Jyssi Leeann 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
looks like you are going have to give it a little time. now that hes talking to you. GO FOR IT
2007-03-27 19:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋