me & my ex broke up over a year ago after going out for about a year and i'm completely fine. it didn't really end until half a year after that and we haven't really had any direct contact for about 7 months now. but i still think about him everyday. i don't know why and it kind of bothers me. i don't want to be with him and i know i deserve better. i don't even love him anymore and i don't miss him cuz i know he's a different person now. i have great friends and everythings been going well for me. so why do i sometimes imagine conversations with him? will there ever be a time where i don't think of him for days?
2007-03-27 12:37:21 · 9 answers · asked by going crazy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are just going through a phase it will end soon because i have a friend that was like that now she is going out with someone new and forgot all about her ex boyfriend she just needed some closure
2007-03-27 12:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by ronald R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will eventually get over him. There are two main resions why you could possibly still have thoughts about him, he was your first love, or the first person you had relations with. Those two things will never leave your mind, but you'll be able to accept them. If its not one of those two, then maybe there is a part of you that still loves him as a friend, you obviously care for your ex. My advice, don't think of it as a bad thing, think of it as something you are passing, like an illness (Cold, flu)
2007-03-27 12:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by Ne&Tu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have some one i think about sometimes from the time i get up until i go to bed i loved him a lot it was just not the right time for me so we went different ways sometimes i think i still love him but not in love with him so is that wrong in me?
2007-03-27 12:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by KIM B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i've been there.i was with this man for about 3 years and then we broke up.i thought of him everyday and all i can think of is him.but after a while i got over it and moved on.do you believe in feeling your gut instinct you might run into him oneday that's why your thinking of him.or perhaps you still have feelings for him but your denying your self the truth.
2007-03-27 12:44:56 · answer #4 · answered by cris jc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you think about what might have been. Sometimes are memories are wonderful although the relationship faded away. Sometimes it's just hard to let go.
2007-03-27 12:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by Your #1 fan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there will. I can promise you that. I've gone through the same things...people you have loved will always be a part of you, but gradually he won't be a big part of your thoughts anymore...it'll be fine.
2007-03-27 12:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by IndiHippi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okl,it feels good to think of him,but get busy n excited @ ur life now
2007-03-27 12:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not over him
2007-03-27 12:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is an idiot forget about him.
2007-03-27 12:42:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋