Family & Relationships - 27 March 2007

I'm a freshmen and I go to a VERY small highschool, with about less than 800 kids, I love it there is no violence, or anything! But I have a promblem. I feel so left out in my family there. I have about 10 cousins, and I'm so different from them because I'm nice and quiet. My Brother is a sophmore and is the star football player on the varasity team, and my other 5 cousins play football too. They are very outgoing, and ot shy and have alot of friends. I'm quiet, I'm a really good swimmer on my swim team, and I just don't fit in with them is that good or bad?? Since my cousins are older than me everytime I move up to a hgher level he teacher is always like, are you sure you're apart of your family, your so quiet and nice. I feel terrible and I get really upset and I feel like I don't belong. Also girls use me sometimes to get to my brother because they like him, should I just be myself or be like my family? I feel out of place! Please help!

2007-03-27 13:27:56 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ElizabethAnne♥ 7 in Family

a guy on our construction crew is getting divorced. it doesnt really matter who's fault it was, but since he didnt do something extreme or violent, why does he still get taken to the cleaners and get his whole life ruined. why do women just kille guys in court during a divorce. makes single guys like me never want to get married

2007-03-27 13:27:46 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

it feels like i'm going on a roller coster and it didn't feel like that today and i hung out with him a lot

2007-03-27 13:27:44 · 2 answers · asked by mrlabc123 2 in Friends

I was thinking about asking him if he likes anyone or who he likes and then maybe I can figure out from his answer if he could be into me or not. But then I thought, well what if he asks me who I like?! I don't want to just say "you"... it seems way too risky but what kind of answer can I give to who I like that might leave him guessing?

2007-03-27 13:27:26 · 15 answers · asked by Alice 2 in Singles & Dating

what if my wife might have been common law married when i got with her but she left her man and moved in with me but she had two kids with the guy and she was with him for on and off 5 years and anyways she moved in with me and we had kids and have been together 2 years straight and are now legally married would she had to have gotten a divorce before we got married?

2007-03-27 13:26:54 · 9 answers · asked by jeremy n 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents are very strict, sometimes, and I'm 14. Examples:
-In bed by 8
-No TV after 4PM
-Can't be on the phone for more than 15 minutes
-Must clean house everyday
-No dating
-No doing anything unrelated ot school
-No waking up before 6AM

And other times the do NOT care, examples:
-Can do anything I want, literally.

It's is really annoying, bith of my parents are bipolar, and I never know what mood they are in. They are both athiests and yell at me for my beleifs{veganism, straighedge, eg.) They think they are bad and rarely let me listen to music around them and they think I am a Satanist.

I'm a Taoist and I've never drank or done drugs, and I'm a virgin. I've never snuck out of my house, or anything of that sort. I'm a good kid, and they are convinvced I am bad, and don't trust me at all,. despite the fact I have never gave them a reason to. It is really beginning to get to me, what should I do?

2007-03-27 13:26:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This chap left is wife and kids over a year ago. He had a number of affairs during the marriage, and has set up home with another woman. Although denies he has been living with her. All the time his wife was sitting at home not going anywhere or doing anything, was happy. Didnt worry about seeing or doing anything with the kids. Had no interest in the kids at all from the moment they were born. Then as soon as she meets someone who shows interest in her & gives time to the kids, he starts being horrible, threatening to kill her & her new male companion, manipulating the kids, saying things to make the 7yr old daughter have nightmares. Stipulating when & where the new companion can visit. Making conditions over everything. Getting the kids to stay with him & his new partner. Yet her new partner isnt allowed to stay, or be involved in anything. Why should it be...Dont do as I do, do as I say! ?

2007-03-27 13:26:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am in a long distance relationship with a girl that I met two weeks ago and have only seen once. She pushed me into a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship and I went along with that. Now she is really pushing us being close and almost loving each other even though we barely know one another and it has only been two weeks. She also knew I was not a Christian going into it, but now she is upset that I am not and wants me to talk to her pastor and is always talking to me about her faith. She says she is not trying to convert me but she is pushing her faith awfully strong, like with the pastor. So basically I want to know should I break up with her? It just feels like it is moving way too fast.

2007-03-27 13:26:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 13:25:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She likes dance
She lovers her boxer dog
She is a girly girl
Not very sportsy
probably no jewlery cuz her bf is already getting her that
any ideas will help!!

2007-03-27 13:25:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-27 13:24:56 · 6 answers · asked by PTkitty 1 in Weddings

I dont know why no guys like me because i'm nice, pretty, and single.... but the guys they all just want to hangout with me and talk!!! i want to be more than just a girl that all guys wanna do is just talk!! how do i do that??

2007-03-27 13:24:43 · 14 answers · asked by Mary B 1 in Singles & Dating

If yes, what did you think about it?

2007-03-27 13:24:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

where can i find a mail order wive?

2007-03-27 13:24:25 · 4 answers · asked by freaky jew 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-27 13:24:01 · 8 answers · asked by knesiah 1 in Friends

where can i find a mail order wive?

2007-03-27 13:24:00 · 7 answers · asked by freaky jew 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-27 13:23:56 · 12 answers · asked by aqua 1 in Friends

ive never talked to him, and i want to get him to notice me. i cant just go up and talk to him thats not my style. please help. and dont say just go up and talk to him ive heard that one too many times

2007-03-27 13:23:34 · 5 answers · asked by aloha0200 1 in Singles & Dating

Friend met guy on cupid, after 3 months ready to commit? Help!?
My friend met a guy on cupid. He has 3 kids and is just a bit older than her. He thinks only 1 kid is his (says his exwife cheated). He told my friend he might fight for custody of the one kid, as long as it doesn't mess things up between them. He recently told her he hates using condoms. He also complained when he couldn't make her climax. When she said she wanted to wait to have sex, he asked he if she needed flowers, rose petals, music- he could run out and get them. She already calls him honey and they have already talked about getting married one day and that he would move in with her. He said his ex wiped him out financially. I am afraid he is using her. What should I do? I told her to have him get tested and make him wear condoms. She is normally SO much slower in a relationship and SO much smarter.

2007-03-27 13:23:08 · 1 answers · asked by natsuko1 3 in Singles & Dating

how do you tell your bf to stop doing weed. i love him and everything and i cry everyday cuz of that and i dont want to brake up with him wat do i do

2007-03-27 13:22:49 · 25 answers · asked by Varsity girl!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

By the time i'm 30,( 3 yrs from now) I want to be married, whether its to my current fella of 10yrs or not i will be married, I want to be living in a house what i will own & in a career that i thoroughly enjoy. What do you want??

2007-03-27 13:22:49 · 15 answers · asked by crackertyjack 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Met a girl 6 months ago and became very close with her. Started to like her a lot and took her out for V-day. Tried to kiss her and got rejected. Then she started getting flakey and too "busy" to see me. Then I insulted her and we stopped talking. Then I opologized and we started talking again, but still not meeting up in person. Then I told her I liked her and she said she didn't want a boyfriend. So I asked if we can hang out as friends and she says shes too "busy". So I stop talking to her and now she is sending me messages again. Why????

If she doesn't want to be my friend or date me then why is she talking to me? Whats the deal? NEED opinions...

2007-03-27 13:22:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my bf last Tuesday. He broke up with me in the past, kicked me out, hurt me too much so I did it maybe just for revenge.

He's supposed to visit me this wednesday(we are long distance) but yesterday i found out he cancelled his flight. I never thought he'd do that b/c although i told him not to come he said he would. So i got really upset. B/c i thought we broke up on tuesday and we'll make up on this wednesday.

Now he's not returning my calls and emails. I dont know what to do. I just can't stop crying right now. I just got really really upset the whole day yesterday. So i texted him"i'm very very sad now, can you talk to me?" Still nothing.

I mean, i apologized for like a million times now. I've done everything. Now i think i'm gonna bail b/c i think he's a jerk. I'm not gonna do anything any more. what do you think?

2007-03-27 13:21:34 · 11 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

ok there is this guy who i really really like a lot... the problem is that i can't tell if he likes me or not. See sometimes he will be like oh we should go to the movies or out and do whatever and im like sure but then like he never makes a specific time. Also sometimes he is very friendly and putting his arm around me and stuff and other times he doesnt really talk to me so i dont know what to think. I dont think he knows i like him... but I dont know for sure... I am 20 and he is 24. How can I tell if he likes me?? What shoud I do about this MAJOR crush!!! I like him a lot more than i have liked other guys before and this scares me!!! Please help me know how to get him to like me!!!!!!!!!!!! thx!

2007-03-27 13:21:02 · 7 answers · asked by lala 1 in Singles & Dating

He always acts like he cares about what is going on in my life. He'll invite me over and make dinner and we will hang out all night but then I dont hear from him again for a couple of weeks or sometimes longer. I know he doesnt have a girlfriend or anything like that. So please I need advice.

2007-03-27 13:20:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is there any american girl who is visiting Mexico, I need to practice my english and it'd be great if I meet some cool people here in Mexico for vacations or I don't know... well feel free to contact me =)

2007-03-27 13:20:04 · 3 answers · asked by PX 5 in Friends

There is this girl at my school that i like and she thinks im cute but i dont have any classes with her and i want a good way to start a conversation and what kinda stuff to ask so i can get to know her and eventually ask her out
thanks.

2007-03-27 13:19:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i told him that i had given him 2 chances and not to talk to me or ever ask me out again bec. last time we broke up we hated each other 4 a whole week and then we started flirting again and we had some one and then wen we both got single he asked me out and i said yes and that was YESTERDAY but he said it was bec his parents said he needs to concentrate on school work and not girls should i ever give him another chance plz tell me wat u would do?

2007-03-27 13:18:45 · 10 answers · asked by ♥ krista ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy at my school that asked me to go to the dance with him. I barley talk to him but he seems cool and I want to get to know him. The only problem is my close friend hates him, but my other close friends tell me to go for it. I think I should accept his offer to the dance and see what happens for myself but my close friend's opinion is really important to me. WHAT DO I DO?!

2007-03-27 13:18:44 · 5 answers · asked by Wowza Emily 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so here's the deal:

About 2 years ago, I met this girl. I fell in love very quickly[I was still a virgin, lmao.]. So.. the other day me and the same girl started talking, but we wasn't talking about things that I wanted to talk about when I was more immature, so we started talking about sex, love life, and possibly marriage.

Ok, so I'm 16 now, she's 20. We're both in love with each other and we[I already proposed to her] was thinking about getting married. She didn't say yes[it broke my heart!] when I asked, she said she didn't want to get in trouble.

I asked my dad if I could buy my own house and get married, and he said yes. I'm getting a job sometime soon, so I'll be able to afford my own house.

I need some answers. And if it means anything, I live in West Virginia. Not sure if it does mean anything... Lmao. I really love this girl and I really want to spend the rest of my life with her...

2007-03-27 13:18:21 · 27 answers · asked by Anthony. 1 in Marriage & Divorce