I broke up with my bf last Tuesday. He broke up with me in the past, kicked me out, hurt me too much so I did it maybe just for revenge.
He's supposed to visit me this wednesday(we are long distance) but yesterday i found out he cancelled his flight. I never thought he'd do that b/c although i told him not to come he said he would. So i got really upset. B/c i thought we broke up on tuesday and we'll make up on this wednesday.
Now he's not returning my calls and emails. I dont know what to do. I just can't stop crying right now. I just got really really upset the whole day yesterday. So i texted him"i'm very very sad now, can you talk to me?" Still nothing.
I mean, i apologized for like a million times now. I've done everything. Now i think i'm gonna bail b/c i think he's a jerk. I'm not gonna do anything any more. what do you think?
2007-03-27 13:21:34 · 11 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, jerk with a capital "J" !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-27 13:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by Bibi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you are childish to be breaking up with him just for revenge because it backfired and now you are the one who is hurting. I don't think he should write you and it is probably good he didn't come down. Long distance relationships never work out anyway. You should just leave him alone because girls rule the world not men. Don't waist your time fighting for something that is not there. You get to looking old that way. Here is some advice someone told me You know what? Never be in the business of going backwards becasue the problem that was there the reason why you left is still there.
2007-03-27 20:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by candyvision06 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been together? Are you guys compatible? Does he treat you the way you deserve to be treated? DOes he take you for granted? Is the distance causing strain on your relationship? Do you love him? Seems like he has had enough. Maybe you should take this time apart and meet other people, hang out with your friends but above all focus on YOU. I'm sure he will call you soon. since he is not answering there isnt much more you can do. Life is too short
2007-03-27 20:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by dazzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is being a jerk but that's only one side of the story. You can only do so much until you say enough is enough, and you move on. If I were you i would give him a certain day, and time during the week, if he hasn't contacted you by that time drop him and move on. Because they love it when you play hard to get, so do that and see what happens.
2007-03-27 20:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by sexisista111 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u broke up with him and now he probably is with someone else who he really likes and wont break up with him
he wants to move on and is trying to say 4 u 2 also
if u look at ur problem then i think that u will change ur mind about him being a jerk
2007-03-27 20:26:51 · answer #5 · answered by monkeyluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry...this sounds like a game...and IT ENDS BADLY FOR BOTH...
game over...no quarter!
when you play the game..about "don't come here" and he calls your bluff and cancels the ticket...what did you expect?
you broke up for revenge? and you expected..what??
you aren't gonna bail....HE did the bailing...when YOU called it off..as a revenge decision...so..that is on you..
you need to put the phone down and gently walk away...your damage is done..
2007-03-27 20:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK , so you did this for revenge, you probably hurt him as well as yourself. Have you considered how he is feeling right now?
2007-03-27 20:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by ncgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him come to you if he doesnt there is better i have never touched a girl in a mean way and im sure there are plenty of other guys who havent
2007-03-27 20:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by cool guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a complete jerk.!!!! dont waste your precious time on him.!
2007-03-27 20:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by girly20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on you deserve better than that.
2007-03-27 20:25:59 · answer #10 · answered by Awakened 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋