Facts: Married 7 years. No kids. Live in apartment. She CHEATED, but isn't sorry. We're getting divorced. We're still friends. She’s in college, 6 more months till she’s an accountant. Schoolwork so heavy she rarely gets sleep, never mind time for a part-time job. Accountant boyfriend won’t help pay her bills (so she says). I gave her a new car and $30,000 but she’s worried about what will happen if she cannot find a job and two years goes by and she uses up all her savings. (she worries too much). While I’m here she feels safe. I don’t want to pay her food and rent while I’m not even living in the apartment as I would feel that I’m being used as a stupid fool. If she wants my money for food and rent then she’s going to have to put up with looking at my ugly mug every day. If I go; my money goes also.
Is this fair on her? Remember, she won’t be able to have her main squeeze over if I’m still here, and if I go, so does the money. Is this the best way to help my EX wife out?
2007-03-27
13:13:39
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