help please?

Question

i have now been told by him he wants to finish our relationship after he told me he loved me.what do i do

Answer 1

Forget him! he obviously lied about loving you. Find someone else. This guy is a jerk.

Answer 2

I have no idea of your age or how experienced you are at dating. However, unfortunately that old adage rings true...some men use love to get sex and conversely women may use sex to get love. This is never an honest or safe way to deal with anyone's emotions but it happens too frequently, I do not know if sex was an issue or even part of the equation in your relationship but do keep in mind that you should never be pressured or manipulated into doing anything that you don't sincerely and 'in your gut' know that it's right for you to do.

Now for your question ... Love means so many things to so many different people. To you and most rational and reasonable people, to have been offered those words by someone you care about is a big step in a relationship. If after saying those words recently to you, he now wants to end the relationship -- obviously it meant something else to him.

No one can control what another person thinks, feels, says or believes... nor can you change their mind, even when your heart feels like it's breaking. If he wants to end it, then it is ended. All you ever really control is how you respond to what affects you. Step back and look at the relationship before this occurred and my bet would be that there were indicators that the connection was not going to be a long lasting happily ever after. You can do much better, good luck.

Answer 3

Drop him, lose him now. he lied u don't leave someone u love.He is obviously toying with your emotions. He should have been man enough 2 tell u y an than explain.