I am in an odd relationship. I cannot deal with it. But I love my husband and he loves me. We cannot be apart for more than 3 hours. Basically, the situation is if he stays with me, he loses his kids. We have been arguing for weeks and weeks, but neither one of us can leave. Can this be fixed? How can true, honest, soulmates ever really leave eachother. Is it possible to give your heart to someone and they hold it forever, unwilling, unable to give it back.
2007-03-27 13:17:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Kids are 7 and 9. They live in another country with their mother, she could refuse to send them for summer visit. He hasn't seen kids in 6 years because of this. They are coming in June this year though
2007-03-27 13:32:16 · update #1
It's all about priorities. His and yours. You need to figure out a way to stay in a relationship with him while he has one with his kids. If this is a dead end situation, sooner or later something will happen anyway, so make sure you are prepared for any turn of the road, as in, plan for the worst, hope for the best. Good Luck.
2007-03-27 13:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a believer in "true love conquers all." If you and your husband were truly meant to be then your love will find a way through it all. It sounds like neither of you guys want to leave each other...your husband wants to see his kids and have you at the same time, and there's nothing wrong with that. It sounds like his baby's mamma is being inconvienient and controlling. Why is it that she doesn't want him to see his children if he is with you? It sounds like the problem is between her and your husband, not you. You have done nothing wrong. You don't feel guilty over what is happening. It's not your fault that this woman is being so difficult. Why can't your husband be with you and get to see his kids? What's the harm in that? You seem like a very nice girl who would never do anything to put his kids in harms way. You should leave the fighting and arguing to your husband and his baby's mamma. If he really loves you and your love is meant to be then he won't leave you. THere must be some way a compromise can be made to satisfy all of you. Just keep trying, don't give up hope.
2007-03-29 05:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by happy hippy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow im in the same sisuation a little bit but a little different. honestly, i dont think it can be fixed maybe it can be i dont know i wish you the best.
2007-03-27 13:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by Awakened 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF I MAY ASK HOW OLD ARE THE CHILDREN ? AND IF YOU ARE ALREADY MARRIED HOW CAN HE LOSE HIS KIDS?
2007-03-27 13:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋