Okay my best guy friend asked me out, but I like this other guy. And I just found out the guy I like likes me. He even kissed me. But my best guy friend is nice but I don't know who to choose. I always thought my guy friend as a friend. And I just got the guy I liked. What do I do?
2007-03-27 13:16:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also i like to add the guy i like is also one of my best friends and hes really nice and i really do love him but i think i'm 2 young 2 say that but if our relationship lasts long than i hope i will b able 2 say it
2007-03-27 13:21:07 · update #1
adding this also I liked this guy for 1 year so far
2007-03-27 13:23:11 · update #2
the guy i liked asked me out already and i said yes....but like 5hours later my best guy friend asks me out and i said i'll think about it but thanks for your help if there are any more ideas please post them
2007-03-27 13:30:29 · update #3
tell your best guy friend to hold off a minute and get to know the guy you like see if you really want him then make your decision.
Although I'd go with my friend everytime. (unless she was fat)
2007-03-27 13:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by Jim_atthedrive-in 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your best guy friend that this other guy kissed you and asked you out but you want to go out with your best guy friend if he's a better kisser. It's probably the kiss that has your hormones flowing, so try it with the guy you have liked for a long time.
2007-03-27 20:20:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,first off,dont lead your friend on.Come out and say,i really care for you a great deal as a friend,and i really cherish your friendship,but i dont think it would work out if we became a couple.Once you say this,give him a bit of space as he is going to be hurt.I know the last thing you want to do is to hurt him,but if you value his friendship you wont lead him.Let him know and give him time to heal.It is never easy when someone tells you they dont feel the same especially when someone puts themselves out there like that.Also,dont go to him about the relationship issues especially with this new guy.It is going to be ridiculously uncomfortable for him right now.If you like your friend then,give him a chance.This is your choice,no one can tell you what to do,feel or say.You ultimately have to decide.It shouldnt be a matter of "choosing".It should be who you care for more in the sense of a relationship.Good luck hun,and have a good night!
2007-03-27 20:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by ~♡~Moon Goddess~♡~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your going to choose one over the other. So you like this other person more, i would go with the other person, not your close friend. You can still do stuff with your friend, and maybe not the guy who you love and kissed you. If hes a friend he would understand why you dont want to date him and just be friends. Your also going to have to look at your relationship with your friend, did you ever love this friend back. Maybe not, so dont bother going out with this guy if its just for his needs. Or if your not ready for love and undecided, dont date any of them. But whatever draws you to a guy, go for that, who ever you love go for him.
2007-03-27 20:24:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have like this guy for a really long time then you should totally go for it. And if you just like your best friend as a friend then you should just tell him that, and if he is ur friend then he will understand!
2007-03-27 20:31:30 · answer #5 · answered by Lexy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say u should go with the guy you like, and tell your best friend that u do like him but like a friend...not like a boyfriend and that u dont want to ruin ur friendship over that.
It seems like u really like the kid so give him a chance. Good luck!! :)
2007-03-27 20:24:35 · answer #6 · answered by cutiegurl17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend went through this before. she ended up going with the one she liked. but found out in the end that it wasnt right and she went out with her guy friend instead. i think u should explore a little u know? dont make a commitment just yet. u need to know if ur comfortable with the guy but in the end, its ur choice. good luck =)
2007-03-27 20:20:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend you only want to bve friends and go out with the other guy. If he is your friend im sure he knows about your crush if not, that sucks because it would probaly be easiest to tell him you like this other dude.
2007-03-27 20:20:03 · answer #8 · answered by chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u said u like the guy more and he likes you back. if you like the guy you ask him out. you can tell your guy friend that hes a Great friend but nothing more. tell me what happens ok?
2007-03-27 20:20:15 · answer #9 · answered by allexcheer247 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-27 20:25:28
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ok this is wat u do:
tell ur best friend that u like him as a friend.try to make him understand that u just want to be friends with him and that u have someone else u like.Now about the boy ur all LOVEY DOVEY about.... make sure he luvs u. wait 4 him to ask u out 4 a date.then,if u like him alot and he tells u he likes u, confess to him.make sure he's just not using u.
Thats my advice to u
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