I am in a long distance relationship with a girl that I met two weeks ago and have only seen once. She pushed me into a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship and I went along with that. Now she is really pushing us being close and almost loving each other even though we barely know one another and it has only been two weeks. She also knew I was not a Christian going into it, but now she is upset that I am not and wants me to talk to her pastor and is always talking to me about her faith. She says she is not trying to convert me but she is pushing her faith awfully strong, like with the pastor. So basically I want to know should I break up with her? It just feels like it is moving way too fast.
2007-03-27 13:26:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she is scaring you . If you are not ready to be a christian then let her go . Let her be , to find someone like herself . She will understand .
2007-03-27 13:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont necessarily need to break up with her but you need some changes. You need to take control of the relationship and dont let her boss you around. That doesnt have to mean control her every move but be confident and have a certain amount of control in your relationship. Reward her with your attention for things you like that she does and dont give her your attention if she does something you dont like. Remember women like a strong and confident guy. If she doesnt like the dominant you then break up with her. (That is weird pushing you into Christianity).
2007-03-27 20:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by twid392™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell her that you two are moving to fast and maybe she can get to know you.For the christian thing just tell her that your not into that stuff and she can either deal with that or can forget it about each other because she is just going to keep pushing!
Number 1 Rule:
Don't Break up over the Phone!!!!!
2007-03-27 20:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by ?¿Whatcha Doin'?¿ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her push you around like that its your life not hers. Maybe you should try talking to er and tell her that the relationship is moving way to fast.
2007-03-27 20:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by luvbabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are two ways to go about it..
1) if you think you might like her in the future...tell her she is moving too fast, and that you still want to spend sometime...and that converting to a religion you don't believe in is something to think about.
2) break up if you think there is no future and that she might tun out to be a psycho
2007-03-27 20:35:01 · answer #5 · answered by melodydreamz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first, tell her that it is moving to fast and that you need to slow down. If that doesnt work and you really dont like her then maybe you should break up with her.
2007-03-27 20:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Face 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes. I was in a similar situation (minus the pressure to convert) and basically, though I hate to say it, you will probably not see her again (depending on your definition of LONG)
break it off. you'll feel a lot better.
2007-03-27 20:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you break up with her, explain your point of view and what you've said here...she needs to know..and if she keeps acting the same way then maybe it isn't meant to be
2007-03-27 20:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by IndiHippi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont brreak up wit her because she is going to fast just tel her to slow down. ya dont convert into christianity unless u actually belive our religion because i dont need another non-beliver in mt religion
2007-03-27 20:32:35 · answer #9 · answered by RawrZOR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is a confused young lady and really knows nothing about love.
2007-03-27 20:30:46 · answer #10 · answered by Alone again 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋