2007-03-27 13:23:56 · 12 answers · asked by aqua 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I was made fun of all through middle school and some in high school as well. No matter who you are, there is always going to be at least one person who wants to pick on you. The main thing to remember is that the only reason people make fun of you is because they are jealous of you and insecure about themselves - it's true! Sounds lame, I know, and I'm sure that you've heard it a thousand times, but it's 100% true.
All I can tell you is that it will get better for you - trust me. Try not to focus on the people that try to bring you down - hang out with friends, focus more on schoolwork, get into a good book, join some after-school activities.. whatever! All of these things will distract you from the troublemakers and keep you focused on yourself. Your self-esteem will go up and pretty soon you won't care about those losers.
Good luck, hun. =) If you have any more questions or you just want to talk, e-mail me!
2007-03-27 13:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by Delvala 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop doing the thing they're making fun of you for...people usually make fun of things about others that make THEM uncomfortable...maybe it's something about the way you look, talk, act and it's making people uncomfortable or annoyed...so just stop doing it. Don't try to have a snappy comeback, they'll just make fun of you for your comeback.
2007-03-27 20:32:17 · answer #2 · answered by neighbor01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly the best way is to just ignore them. Another idea is, and it's totally up to you, is laugh along with them. When they see that you're able to have fun and make fun of your self along with the crowd, maybe you'll shock them and turn around and stop making fun of you.
2007-03-27 20:30:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say r u too bored with ur own life that u have to worry about someone elses, im just curious cuz if u r bored then go f uck off and make fun of urself for being such a b itch to me
2007-03-27 20:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by someebeooddyyy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be confident they only make fun of you because it bothers you which isnt right but try just hanging out with friends but just be cool,calm and collected and dont let it get to you. like bring a book with you if it calms you down. just dont go extreme with the things you can do to yourself
2007-03-27 21:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by CupCake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! i had the same problem, dont show it bothers you, it only makes it more fun for the bully, i started just ignoring it even though it hurt and, i would laugh at myself. now, my enemys are my best friends, they may be snobby still but, they are nice and, i changed them some to where they are much nicer.
2007-03-27 20:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act like you don't care! And always say "Look who's talking!" For example, Ewww! That shirt is SOOOOO ugly!" Just say, "Look who's talking!" I hope this helps you can e-mail if you need more advice!
2007-03-27 20:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by thatonekid:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what exactly are they making fun of you about?
2007-03-27 20:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really dont know but i get made fun of too becaue im fat.
sorry i cant help!!!!!
2007-03-27 20:29:10 · answer #9 · answered by forest l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them...they're not perfect either.
2007-03-27 20:59:38 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋