Family & Relationships - 26 March 2007

we're dating 5months - got serious - and he decides to break up cause he had someone else on him minD- I said cool - and 2 weeks later I decided to date someone else i was interested in - he calls me, and starts calling me names, and when i said I loved him, says he does not... I ended that, and started talkin 2 him again, and he gets all shallow and sayin stuff again.... So i leave!!
he shifted countries for his job - calls me a few days later - He's met someone who he's been in love with for 4yrs and He is sorry abt the way i feel for him......
2 months later - gets back with me - 15 days later - gets to to tell him my deepest secret and then decides that I cant be with him cause of this - So i leave...
He flies back to country - 3 months later
begs for us to meet up - I dodged him the 15 days he was in town, and said NO!! not happening - However I wished him on his birthday.... He did not bother on mine!!

2007-03-26 11:10:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-26 11:10:54 · 8 answers · asked by AppleCrisp 1 in Family

I'm in 7th grade I don't get along w/ my dad I think he may get abusive My parents don't seem to understand me My best friend may be moving I have good grades, but they don't really care they only care about the one bad thing They won't let me quit band, even though I can't play a note to save my life I'm starting to get fat I used to be really good at sports and now I'm no doing so good My dad is never really home My dad and his work it seems really "SHADY" (IF You know what I mean)
I'm still not really sure what he does all I really know is that "He drives, trucks and gets paid under the table" My mom, is really hurting through all of this and she tries to make things better but we don't really pay attention My brother is the only one, who I can talk to He'll hug me, and I'm really feeling like I have no one in my life except for him I pretend that everything is ok but it's not at school church and anywhere else ppl think I'm perfect but I'm not really I'm not like goth or anything

2007-03-26 11:10:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have this best friend and we have been friends for 4 years now and up till about 2 months ago i have got along great with her family her parents liked me my parents liked her our parents hang out together but then recently her dad decides that he doesnt like me and that he doesnt trust me and he also said im to old for her to hang out with her i dont know what to do i need my best friend but her dad doesnt like me? the thing that bothers me is her dad still acts like he likes me and still hangs out with my parents but he just isnt letting us hang out ?? im so lost i need my best friend hellp

2007-03-26 11:10:32 · 9 answers · asked by lulu 1 in Friends

No jokes please. My husband admitted to me today that for the last 3 & a half years of our marriage he has been sleeping with women he meets anywhere. He has slept with around 20 women many times each. My heart is in bits and I don't know what to do. He's booked to see a counsellor on Tuesday re sex addiction. No jokes I beg you this is my life. Has this happened to anyone else?

2007-03-26 11:10:20 · 15 answers · asked by Jackie S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What's the sweetest thing you can think of that you'd do for a girl?

2007-03-26 11:09:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 11:09:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do most girls watch "excplicit images and videos" ,and would you be angry if you found out your boyfriend did?

2007-03-26 11:09:37 · 7 answers · asked by kornbready 1 in Friends

ok so we were at this party and my bffls bf walked up to me(and she wasnt there) and we was like i wanna show u something. so im like ok and i follow him(he is a total hoty by the way) and then he takes me in to a bedroom and he takes my hand and he says"i have liked u more then Erica for a really long time and i want to be with u" so he starts kissing me and i kiss him back. then we start making out on the bed and then i tell him to stop and i leave. i dont know what to do and what to say to my bffl and her bf. what should i do?

2007-03-26 11:09:29 · 8 answers · asked by Emalee 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay everyday my gma buys me a snack after school like when i get in her car to go home she has some kind of food sitting there. How do i tell her to stop giving me food after school. Because im not hungry for one and for two its not always good. But i dont want to hurt her feelings.

2007-03-26 11:08:57 · 10 answers · asked by Ty'sGirl 2 in Family

I dont have a boyfriend and its just killing me to not have a boyfriend!

2007-03-26 11:08:09 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 11:08:00 · 30 answers · asked by nicole l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay look he flirts with me more than he flirts with any other girl but the problem is that like sometimes he jokes with her and toches her knee or her back but only 4 a second and iwant to know if he likes her or its a game with her and with me is the real thing but like when he is around me he is always trying to make me laugh or play crazy games with or make sex jokes but with her it is for 2 seconds and that is it but when people ask him if he likes me he would smile and say no but i want to know what shoul i do pleas help me

2007-03-26 11:07:57 · 10 answers · asked by keyshia 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so my ex fiance of 6 months ended it a month ago because she admitted that sometimes she didn't feel happy to me. I'm a fairly shy guy and I'll admit that sometimes I feel like I don't know how to act around her and it leads to some akward situations. She told me though that she doesn't want a second chance. I can't understand why. Does she still love me?? Why doesn't she want to give this a second chance?

2007-03-26 11:07:57 · 6 answers · asked by Confused as hell 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 11:07:42 · 19 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Marriage & Divorce

The person who seems offended won't answer your calls or reply to e.mail. Doh!

2007-03-26 11:07:15 · 5 answers · asked by Buzzard 7 in Singles & Dating

im 14 and just cuz i yelled at my dad and cussed at him he is going to spank me. how is it that a 14 yr old is sitting in her room waiting to get a spanking. all i did was stay out after school instead of coming home and he yelled at me so i yelled back. im so ready to just run away. my friend said to call the cops. will they actually come?

2007-03-26 11:06:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am a girl who is known as an "innocent girl" - i'm very reserved and nice and cute....


well, thats only my reputation - and in my town, that is what you need to be. but really i did some stuff with a guy. i really loved the guy, but we both changed and somewhere along the line i stopped loving him. i told him, and he took it well... at first... but now he's threatening to tell the whole school - the whole town about what we did together if he hears that i like another guy or if i kiss another guy or anything!


i cant have my reputation turned from being innocent to a ****. people will stop being friends with me and will look down on me. my family wont understand and it will be a whole mess.


also, i cant have him rule my life! he shouldnt be in charge of my life like this!


what do i do? if he tells people then my life is really ruined. i wont be able to show my face at school or anywhere. what do i do? please help me.

2007-03-26 11:06:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need to find an old friend of mine over the internet and i cant remember his email and he was a contact on my old email (which i also managed to forget the password) so will you PLEASE help me??

2007-03-26 11:06:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-26 11:05:08 · 6 answers · asked by Claire 1 in Singles & Dating

I used to be "friends" with this girl, but she betrayed my trust and stabbed me in the back, I no longer talk to this girl, but we do work in the same office, and she continuously flaunts her betrayal in my face, half the day I can only think about getting revenge on her, I am not usually a vengeful person, and just want to forget about the whole situation before I do something stupid or cruel

2007-03-26 11:05:05 · 11 answers · asked by braindeadbrilliance 2 in Friends

I'm asking (here and in the single section) because my current date makes me realize I don't feel comfortable when my boyfriend (or husband) has a lot more money than I do. The reason why I feel bad about it is that I don't want him to pay all the time, but I can't afford eating at the same places as he, at least not now. We don't live the same kind of lives in that way. How would you/do you deal with problems like those?

2007-03-26 11:04:00 · 19 answers · asked by Kerosa S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-26 11:03:55 · 7 answers · asked by Ciara L 1 in Friends

look...my bfs exgf did something very bad...she tried to do something sexual to him and when she did...he said that he loved me and she slapped him and walked out...now idk what to do...i told the exgf off...and then we talked about it afterwards...she still loves him...he doesnt love her...but i feel like im stuck in the middle...ive done so much to help james ((my bf))...((let me know if you need the details to answer plz))...and i kinda actually like his exgf...but not enough to let james go...((which he doesnt wanna go anyway))...i feel bad...and as if im not good enough for james...((we are two different ppl...))...he says oppisites attract...HELP!!!!

2007-03-26 11:03:25 · 7 answers · asked by .James'.Girl. 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 11:03:09 · 9 answers · asked by bethany 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and have a one and a half year old daughter. We planned a trip to Las Vegas in a month and I found out today that I am pregnant with our second child. I have not told him about it yet. We have only discussed marriage twice since we have been together, and I was thinking about telling him about the pregnancy over our trip and see if he wanted to get married while we were there. Does anyone think that this is the right way to go about this.---Keep in mind I am not looking for soemone to tell me "yall should have gotten married before kids" Just asking if this is the way to go from here. Thanks for any advice.

2007-03-26 11:02:36 · 23 answers · asked by kellie_new_mom25 2 in Weddings

I'm relatively short at 60 inches. Guys pick me up all the time. I'm not talking about pick up as in "Hey babe, let's date!" No, I mean more like pick me up off the ground and throw me over their shoulder (or balconies. haha, not really, but almost). Or just pick me up and spin around really fast.

I don't know if this is just a compulsive thing that guys do when they see someone short- "Hey, look at that girl, she's so short, let's pick her up!" or if it's a unique to me. If the latter, I shall always be in such a cloud of mystery.

2007-03-26 11:02:17 · 13 answers · asked by mia a 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and him and his girlfriend are on a break. Should i make a move?how? do i let him do it?

2007-03-26 11:02:05 · 12 answers · asked by Loverrr 1 in Singles & Dating

Every time I see me ex my stomack drops and my throat closes up. Is this love or am I crazy?

2007-03-26 11:01:43 · 12 answers · asked by anneylver 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy....we have so much in common!!! i dont know if he likes me bu twe havnt spoken in a while i was pretty sure he liked me cause i catch him looking at me alot and smile at me but i saw him talking with this girl he used to like and he looked like he was flirting wat do i do???

2007-03-26 11:01:32 · 11 answers · asked by Alien Demo 2 in Singles & Dating