Ok so my ex fiance of 6 months ended it a month ago because she admitted that sometimes she didn't feel happy to me. I'm a fairly shy guy and I'll admit that sometimes I feel like I don't know how to act around her and it leads to some akward situations. She told me though that she doesn't want a second chance. I can't understand why. Does she still love me?? Why doesn't she want to give this a second chance?
2007-03-26 11:07:57 · 6 answers · asked by Confused as hell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No one can answer WHY, but I think you should move on. There will always be hope but you need to start going out and seeing other people. It's like what the quote says "Sometimes if you love someone you have to let them go, if they come back they're yours forever, if they don't they never were."
2007-03-26 11:12:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you try and move on. Not wanting to give you a second chance is a big indication that she really doesn't want the relationship anymore.
It must be so difficult for you to accept this because you know how much you really care for her and not being loved back anymore. But I believe it is so much better for you to know how she feels about the relationship early on rather than finding out later, right?
I know you have a good heart and I wish you all the best. I will be praying for you.
2007-03-26 18:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ariel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't want a second chance, then you need to let her go. Obviously she has realized that the two of you aren't right for each other. If she isn't happy, that means that her needs aren't being met in the relationship. She needs to find out what her needs are and be clear about them. Sounds like you could use some personal growth work. You could use some education in relationship skills, communication, intimacy, etc. This will help in your next relationship.
2007-03-26 18:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by Terri Klapperich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it is to accept it, she doesn't want to be with you. She got cold feet and realized she didn't want to spend the rest of her life with you. It'll be hard to move on but when you are ready to get in another relationship don't be so quick to propose. Sounds to me that you knew there were issues in your relationship already and they should have been worked on before popping the question.
I'm sure she has feelings for you but they seem to have slowly gone away over time. She doesn't want to give it a second chance because she's made up her mind and doesn't want to be with you. It's possible she has met someone else. Usually it's easier for women to end a relationship when they have another guy lined up.
2007-03-26 18:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by teacher101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one, for starter if she your fiancee and your still shy..well ...ask yoruself if you truely love her...two, she probably does bur don't want to still be your fiancee nor marry you cause of awkward and unhappiness sitution which can turn into a bad relationship if that continue..third, i dont' know about the no second chances..maybe there some problems that you don't know about or she was really unhappy...but in some cases she could had fallen out of love toward you...you can try talking to her even if that might be pretty hard.
2007-03-26 18:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by Zindyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like me dude...
I hate to say it but ..she wanted a man with a little more confidence and the skill to be with a women...
Prove yourself that you can change that shyness into something ... .
Only through disaster we can be resurrected
2007-03-26 18:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by Lone Knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋