we're dating 5months - got serious - and he decides to break up cause he had someone else on him minD- I said cool - and 2 weeks later I decided to date someone else i was interested in - he calls me, and starts calling me names, and when i said I loved him, says he does not... I ended that, and started talkin 2 him again, and he gets all shallow and sayin stuff again.... So i leave!!
he shifted countries for his job - calls me a few days later - He's met someone who he's been in love with for 4yrs and He is sorry abt the way i feel for him......
2 months later - gets back with me - 15 days later - gets to to tell him my deepest secret and then decides that I cant be with him cause of this - So i leave...
He flies back to country - 3 months later
begs for us to meet up - I dodged him the 15 days he was in town, and said NO!! not happening - However I wished him on his birthday.... He did not bother on mine!!
2007-03-26 11:10:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
contacted my ex after 3 months - after this
i decided to just say hi online -
1st he was very nice to me, and then after sometime, he started to act crazy - he started name calling - he said i was crazy - and then said he is in love with a new women - Not the one he was in love with Last year - I gave it back to him, I gave him a piece of my mind - cause he put me through all this....
however I just don't know why he behaved this way, or what i did to deserve this??
he was so rude,
My question is - I am feeling lost, and like i may never want another one of these things again - cause its devastating - however, I do need to move on - he's been playing with my feelings for 6 months - What do i do? whats your advice and opinions? help please - advice please..
2007-03-26 11:11:56 · update #1
Been there done that.
Walk away. To get over him, hang out with friends keep busy, walk away from anything that will bring back the feelings, have his number blocked so he cant call you, block his e-mail and any other form of communication he might have.
He sounds a bit flaky. Any guy that changes his mind that quickly about how he feels about one person let alone every girl is just trouble.
Secondly, why put up with someone that makes you feel that low? What right does he have to come down on you? By letting him continue with the name calling and mind games your telling him on a subconscious level that you can and will let him walk all over you. Big no no. Never sell yourself short no matter what.
He sounds like a leech sucking everything out you. It's time to get out of the murky lake and place him in the past pile.
2007-03-26 11:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by grandstander_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is way too much trouble for a short-term relationship (only 5/6 months!).
Cut the high drama, this is not love. Never speak with this person again and do not get in another relationship that has drama. Love and relationships are for comfort and acceptance; if not, keep moving. If you keep ending up in these types of relationships, then look to yourself for the problem. Good luck.
2007-03-26 11:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by truthrules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me you should move on and find someone who will respect your feelings and you. He doesn't or he wouldn't have treated you this way. It's an abusive relationship because it is playing with your emotions. He will keep on doing this to you if you allow it. You are the only one who can decide what to do. I think you know in your heart what you have to do to be happy. You don't need to ask alot of strangers on the Internet for the answer.
Good Luck.
2007-03-26 11:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by devilgal031948 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unhappy to assert it yet you're to blame of taking him back too many cases. After the 1st drop, you will desire to have left him on my own. The 2d would have been forgivable yet all you grew to alter into grew to become right into a doormat. i could have reported you probably did not deserve it in case you probably did not take him back. that's the place you tousled and all he's doing is taking benefit as any opportunist could do. worry-free faucet. you would be able to now shop him at a distance yet you have not decrease him off so which you will proceed to get burnt till you're making him disappear.
2016-11-23 17:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by drabek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, don't love a loser. Once you walk out a relationship, I don't care if it's Marriage. Once you're gone, stay gone. All you ever will do is argue, believe that. Find another lover, understand it may be a rebound, and you will be fine. Don't FALL SO HARD!
2007-03-26 11:16:38 · answer #5 · answered by Super D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he thinks he can always come back to you when he is not sure where he stands with his own feelings and just because you love him he knows you will be there.You should forget about him and put yourself first.Its not easy to move on but i guess everyone has to start some where and maybe you will find someone better then this loser.
2007-03-26 11:27:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes an @$$#013. dont talk to him. block him online. if he starts to follow u then call the cops. this guy is mantal and u should avoid him. its hard to tell who these types of people are so i cant give u advice on how to keep these things from happening
2007-03-26 11:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by D-mac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are keeping the issue confused, i see the problem is you staying in touch and giving him the time of day, even though he treats you like dirt, its not that difficult, dont talk to him, wish him any good things, and MOVE ON, you are wasting too much time on this.
2007-03-26 11:22:59 · answer #8 · answered by natc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was being mean to you! using you,and treating you like crap,there are good guys out there and you will find one but you need to stay away from that jerk,and move on
2007-03-26 11:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound crazy to me, get out of that relationship he obviously doesn't have any feelings for you.
2007-03-26 11:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by ad121ana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋