look...my bfs exgf did something very bad...she tried to do something sexual to him and when she did...he said that he loved me and she slapped him and walked out...now idk what to do...i told the exgf off...and then we talked about it afterwards...she still loves him...he doesnt love her...but i feel like im stuck in the middle...ive done so much to help james ((my bf))...((let me know if you need the details to answer plz))...and i kinda actually like his exgf...but not enough to let james go...((which he doesnt wanna go anyway))...i feel bad...and as if im not good enough for james...((we are two different ppl...))...he says oppisites attract...HELP!!!!
2007-03-26 11:03:25 · 7 answers · asked by .James'.Girl. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK...Your feelings of inadequacy I can understand, but you have to stop it. It is obvious that he likes you and that he wants to be with you, not her. So, forget about that and focus on her. Personally, if some girl messed with my man, a friend or not, I would teach her a lesson. You have to stand up for yourself, cos she's not just insulting your man, but also you. This is personal and I suggest some street justice! Just catch up with her alone one day and have "a chat" with her...you know just you girls...tell her that if she ever messes with your relationship again, she'll have to watch over her shoulder for the rest of her life. I know it sounds cruel but if you want to keep your man you have to fight for him otherwise, forget about it. Asking him to deal with this is a bad idea cos she'll just get a chance to spend time with him and will keep doing it. I guess the other thing would be just to ignore her and eventually she'll stop...hope this helped!
2007-03-26 11:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by Kat ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woow let me help ya.. first deep breaths.. ok its alright.. first you need to realize that he told her no because he loves you.. realy that means a lot.. this guy is a keeper.. dont ever let him go.. most guys would have said "ok, but dont tell" so i admire the guy for that.. anyways
what is it that you are truely confused about? the exgf, your bf, your position in all this.. you are his gf and what happens between him and her is that.. between them.. and its great he tells you everything.. that shows commitment and that he does care for you.. thats all you need to know... if you were not good enouph for james dont you think he would have done something with his ex? there must be something about you he likes.. cause he wants you.. you not in the middle your more on the side.. as long as he doesnt cheat on you, let him work his problems out.. and she is not your friend.. even if you like her.. you need to watch her.. cause she obviously doesnt care about your feelings in this matter.. well if i didnt answer your true question sorry but you can contact me if you need more help.. i hope this works for you.. good luck and let me know how it works out.
2007-03-26 11:13:36 · answer #2 · answered by Dr.Icebreaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick to james.. it's none of your business beyween his ex and your bf. just relax and let things go the way they are. She'll hopefully move on and the best part james love u. So be happy. It['s not like he had feeling for his ex. Don't be guilty. It's okay.
2007-03-26 11:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by Having Fun, Yet? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, she's jealous. Tell her 'finders keepers losers weepers.' Jk, not really. Talk to your bf about it and then see if he can talk some sense into this chick. If that doesn't work, talk to her yourself. Her actions were uncalled for.
2007-03-26 11:08:12 · answer #4 · answered by zanyacorn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell you the truth , he's doing nothing wrong , and he really loves you, and she hates that, cause she want's him for herself, tell you the truth, you should just worry what she will do nexted.
2007-03-26 11:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now is where you do something sexual to his ex GF
2007-03-26 11:07:50 · answer #6 · answered by C a r i s s a 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep your bf and help his ex find another guy---FAST!
2007-03-26 11:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by HD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋