Family & Relationships - 26 March 2007

what do u do when u dont know what to do!!!!!!

2007-03-26 10:41:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 10:41:14 · 12 answers · asked by phantomrobin585 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in high school. I think im atleast average looking, i mean in not overweight, and im not really short. Why do guys check me out but never talk to me??

2007-03-26 10:41:09 · 5 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Family

hey ladies I need your help because I really love him so much and he is the great type for me but bad news is... He is my best friend... I m trying to tell him that there is more than best friend... He seems not get it.. I too shy to tell him because I want get new in relationship with him so check it out his pictures http://img106.imageshack.us/my.php?image=gilllllijw6.jpg
and tell me what do u think of him?? should I gotta date him?

2007-03-26 10:41:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 10:40:55 · 4 answers · asked by Monica M 1 in Friends

2007-03-26 10:40:36 · 1 answers · asked by Joe K 6 in Singles & Dating

Is it okay if my friends hate my other friends? Now I have no idea who to hang out with. Someone, PLEASE HELP ME!

2007-03-26 10:39:26 · 6 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Friends

I mean it's dis gurl who is going around reportin people for no reason and to give you a hint her avatar name is amberbirt12 so watch out cuz she reported me like a stalker and i got kicked off and had to do a new one all over again!!!!!!! so please report her before she report u!!!!!! and i know she gon report me after she read dis

2007-03-26 10:39:25 · 6 answers · asked by Ghetto Fab 1 in Friends

I dont know if what I'm feeling is temporary or not. I think i may be depressed also. I have two brothers and a sister. Both of my brothers are married to their childhood sweethearts. My sister is a lesbian and have a nice girlfriend. It just feels like everybody have somebody except for me. I wonder how can I feel better about this. I'm not desperate, I just wonder if I'll ever find someone to love andhe love me.

2007-03-26 10:39:17 · 30 answers · asked by Jessica C 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband has been looking at internet porn even went as far as being a member.I don't know what to do.He denies everything but,they didn't pull his info out of the sky.Please helpI love him so much put I feel so lost.

2007-03-26 10:38:44 · 3 answers · asked by nicole l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My x-girlfriend i guess, her and i dont have sex but we still love eachother and don't call eachother really boyfriend and girlfriend but her and i hang out all the time. We go drinkin', we get coffee, and basically hang out in my car and talk and talk and talk about whatever, but i no she has feelin's for me still or she wouldnt be hanging out with me every chance she gets. The reason i dont think we count as going out is because there's no physical touchy feelly stuff happenin' except for a hug when we say goodbye. I've heard it all before that i need to work out to get more cut sense i am pretty skinny, but what things are there to do to get her back into the sex game with me? i no that's not what its all about but i do think its important if we are together everyday. dont you?

2007-03-26 10:38:42 · 8 answers · asked by Benjamin P 1 in Singles & Dating

she went back to here old boyfriend last weekend . her and i were living together for 9 months.(were in are late 30s)she has 2 kids 1 12 years old that lived with us and the other 17 that never did.the guy she went back to has kiched her out in the past at different times in there relationship.i dont have no kids and i have never been married .i dont drink,do drugs or smoke cigaretts. i attend church regularly.i want to practice thy will be done in this situation.i need some acceptance and i need to see my part.my anger seemed to get the best of me and i expressed a lot of abusive home outbursts and in the car too tord my girlfriend.in the last 9 months we both have had things happen her daughters step brother died,my mom died and my grandma died , her daughter ran away and she had a tumor removed and had some stuff taken out 6 weeks ago and she cant have no more kids. i love her and miss them. even though she has chose him over me. is it healthy to want to still be with her?

2007-03-26 10:38:41 · 5 answers · asked by vanstone_2000 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she went back to here old boyfriend last weekend . her and i were living together for 9 months.(were in are late 30s)she has 2 kids 1 12 years old that lived with us and the other 17 that never did.the guy she went back to has kiched her out in the past at different times in there relationship.i dont have no kids and i have never been married .i dont drink,do drugs or smoke cigaretts. i attend church regularly.i want to practice thy will be done in this situation.i need some acceptance and i need to see my part.my anger seemed to get the best of me and i expressed a lot of abusive home outbursts and in the car too tord my girlfriend.in the last 9 months we both have had things happen her daughters step brother died,my mom died and my grandma died , her daughter ran away and she had a tumor removed and had some stuff taken out 6 weeks ago and she cant have no more kids. i love her and miss them. even though she has chose him over me. is it healthy to want to still be with her?

2007-03-26 10:38:12 · 9 answers · asked by vanstone_2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in a relationship for almost a year now with my boyfriend. I just don’t know is he is gay, bi, or just plain corny. Maybe you guys can help me. These are the signs that I am suspicious of:
he tweezes his eyebrows(but just the middle); he WANTS to do a scrapbook and other corny things like that; he tears up at sad movies; he can be real emotional at times, ive seen him cry at least five times; his mannerisms are not to masculine;his posture can be girly at times; when he gets off the phone with his friends, they all say love you; has amazing taste in clothes for men and women; loves shopping; likes mixed drinks as opposed to beer; constantly trying to please me; likes techno music, loves dancing and clubbing; goes tanning, pretty well groomed; his friend sleeps over in his room from time to time, for a place to crash for the night
But yet he is into sports, LOVES sex (and not anal), hes into cars,and that sort of thing
I don’t know he is, and i dont want to get hurt.

2007-03-26 10:38:09 · 6 answers · asked by mystified 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, My name is Cristina and im 13 years old. I have dark blonde hair, green eyes, height: 5'5 1/2 and weight about 150. Do you think that I'm attractive? Because I'm really nice and sweet and all you could ask for but guys don't seem to ask me out. Why???????


Please advice and when you finish writing your answer put your age and name please. If you want you ca also put you email.

2007-03-26 10:38:07 · 16 answers · asked by Blonde Cutie 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean...there's this girl that at first is very flirty and give sme nice compliments...but then; out of the blue is the exact opposite and on top of that is calling other guys in my face and then days later tells me that She Loves Me...I know I must forget about her...but why would some women do this??

2007-03-26 10:37:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last month I was stalked by a woman claiming to be involved with a guy I was dating. The situation really got out of hand and the local police are now involved. The police contacted the guy in order to gather information about the stalker, and he told the police to tell me to contact him. At first I did not want to but I eventually did. I left him a voice mail a few days ago and he has not called me back yet. Should I call him again? We had been friends for a long time before this happened. I just want closure to this situation, but I don't want to keep bothering him.

2007-03-26 10:37:27 · 5 answers · asked by anosey1 4 in Singles & Dating

All my life I've been verbally abused, treated as a second class family member, openly criticized and intentionally mocked and humiliated. I'm now 34 and I'm at a point where I want to cut al ties with them. Since I do know that a father figure is important, what are the implications of cutting all ties with a parent?

What difficulties can arise later in life from such a decision?

Anyone in a similar situation?

2007-03-26 10:37:09 · 9 answers · asked by the secret is in the pudding 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

For all of you who help with my question thank you.
Everytime we have a problem is with his sisters, and I tried to take care of it on my own but it only gets worse. I don't want be mean and he tells me to go him before I approach his sisters but when I do he tells me he doesn't need this in his life right now. I have no problem with his mom living with me, is the sister, I'm the only one who works in the house and she doesn't get the point that bills needs to get paid, and yet I don't want anymore problem with my husband but I feel that he's putting his family needs over mine, And I feel that she's using her father's death as an excuse not to work or go to school but yet she goes and parttys. What can I do in a nice way to explain to him how I feel, because It's not fair that I'm the only one providing for our family, and yet I feel like an outsider in my own home...

2007-03-26 10:36:48 · 12 answers · asked by Monica A 2 in Family

My Best friend and i fight alot!! And we gently tease eachother u know just 4 fun! But sometimes she can get a little overboard on the teasing and some of the things she says starts to hurt. I really wanna tell her but im afraid she will think im weird and she would tell every1. And mad at me. Also i know i should trust her but sometimes im afriad shes gossiping about me in a bad way! I need help!!!!!!!

2007-03-26 10:36:37 · 12 answers · asked by soccerangel 1 in Friends

Ok here is the short version..... I am married with 4 kids 1 is mine the other 3 are ours. I feel that he treats my daughter awful. Last weekend he called her a f*** b****,,,, I left him for a week and he "promised he would change" - I let him move with me to my new apartment. And nothing has changed - I feel that I am allowing him to screw my daughter up by excluding her - He is going to be going to jail for 6 mos for failure to pay child support - I thought I would let him stay around until then because his children adore him, but I feel like I am hurting my daughter in a major way. Any advice??? Should I wait until they come for him or kick him out now. He has been attempting to be better but not as well as I had hoped.

2007-03-26 10:36:31 · 27 answers · asked by brog 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been living together almost two years now. I am 24 and ready to settle down. Lately my boyfriend has been wanting to party and get drunk every weekend. That just ain't my thang. Although I thought we were an the same page, I come to find out he is not ready to settle down at all, and is far from it. I do not know what else to do, I thought this would be the man I would marry and have kids with. Should I wait it out until his partying days are over or move on?

2007-03-26 10:36:02 · 3 answers · asked by Ashley R 1 in Singles & Dating

guys, why do u care what ur friends think so much?? if they all told u that it was cooler to be single and have a bunch of one night stands, and so u listened to them and broke up with ur gf and tried it, but didnt like it, and missed ur gf. why the hell would u still listen to them?? even if she was gonna give u second chance...why would u ruin that if u claim that u want it to work more than anything and that u love her?? what would make u stop listening to ur friends?

2007-03-26 10:35:56 · 2 answers · asked by foreveryoung 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you want from a girl when you're texting her for ages and ages at least once a day, talking about all kinds of stuff, but never actually ask her out? what's going on with him?

2007-03-26 10:35:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What to do!

2007-03-26 10:35:29 · 6 answers · asked by AppleCrisp 1 in Singles & Dating

I think she does have a black man fetish. Why does she not admit it to me? Do you all think she does have a dark fetish?

2007-03-26 10:35:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife of 5 years has exhausted me with her self centered and petty childishnes. If she doesn't have her way, she throws fits akin to a 5 year old. She has in the past: harrassed me at work with never ending barrages of phone calls, physically hit me with her fists and various objects, verbally abused me (and my friends and family, but never when they are around), taken personal items like car keys or thrown out my family photographs, the list is endless. She lost her mom at a young age, and I think this is the result; a jealous, insecure, and angry adult. We will probably divorce, but you may think I'm nuts, I love her. Yet I have tried to help her, but as the saying goes, you lead a horse to water but,..

Anyhow, I thought everything I have done in this marriage fell into line as trying to be a "good husband". But really none of my efforts have yielded results and the situation seems like it will only improve if one of us leaves (me, she won't) or dies! Feedback appreciated...

2007-03-26 10:34:49 · 18 answers · asked by doubledown924 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriend always trys to make me bad i dont know why and she always has an attuide with me

2007-03-26 10:34:49 · 1 answers · asked by Allison S 1 in Singles & Dating

a really nice wooden floor in my study. It looks too difficult for me to do.

2007-03-26 10:34:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have and it wasn't easy. i'm still barely over it but i always think about him
but i am strong
i can get through it

2007-03-26 10:33:38 · 15 answers · asked by choo-choo 1 in Singles & Dating