My Best friend and i fight alot!! And we gently tease eachother u know just 4 fun! But sometimes she can get a little overboard on the teasing and some of the things she says starts to hurt. I really wanna tell her but im afraid she will think im weird and she would tell every1. And mad at me. Also i know i should trust her but sometimes im afriad shes gossiping about me in a bad way! I need help!!!!!!!
2007-03-26 10:36:37 · 12 answers · asked by soccerangel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You know what I had a friend just like that for 15 years, and I'm gonna tell you now just to let her go it's not worth the stress and she ain't a real friend your better off just to let her go thats what I did and I felt so much better. Why would u want a friend that you feel like you can't trust or talk to?? She's just gonna use you and make you feel like crap all the time.. Good Luck!
2007-03-26 10:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by Sherry A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
If she is a true friend then she will understand if you tell her when she hurts your feelings. Sometimes people act like your Friend , but they are not really there for you. I guess you'll know either way... If you talk to her about how you feel and she belittles you or tells others then it's time to find a new friend. Ask yourself why you are fighting so much. If someone is your real friend would they make you upset that often?? You can start by saying, "When you said_____________ it really made me feel______________. Good luck! =)
2007-03-26 10:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by FlowerMB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myslef am not very confrontational.. just basically be like hey we need to talk or somehting suttle like that after she goes to far sometime and just say whats on your mind.. honesty does go a long way. Basically just ask her if she ever feels that the joking becomes to much. If she really is your friend she won't gossip about you and she'll understand your situation.
I like the quote alot " it is better to be hated for something that you are, rather than to be loved for something you are"
So be yourself, and do what you feel you need to do because at the end of the day you determine what goes on in your life!!!!
Good luck with your situation!
2007-03-26 10:45:04 · answer #3 · answered by Cali girl 06! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she is ur best friend she shouldnt be laughing at u when you tell her or gossiping. my best friend that i have known for since i was four had lied to me and told a secret of mine on accident. i felt so embarrased and she didnt now so i told her. i told her i was angry with her and embarrased and she felt bad and apologized. so if she really is ur best friend she will care what u thin.
as for the fighting alot and teasing. well me and my sis are very close and that used to happen to us, we would tease until it broe into a fight. so we dont tease each other anymore. i mean there is every once in a while we do but u have to put a tim e limit on it. :)
2007-03-26 10:42:28 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Casey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my friends do that all the time. It's normal, and sometimes things do go too far. When my friends hits me where it hurts, I don't let it show I just (jokingly, of corse) say something like, "Hey! Don't ever say that again. You went too far!" and she'll laugh about it - and it lightens the mood a little - if that doesn't work, be straight about it. Tell her it hurts your feelings, and if she's a real friend, she'll totally understand.
2007-03-26 10:40:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly to be see doesn't sound like a good friend. I can understand you to just playing around and teasing eachother but she should know not to take it to far. And if she talk about you behind your back then she's not your friend. Friends don't do that.
2007-03-26 10:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by Carmen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend and I do the same just tell her and if she is a good friend she won't tell anyone and she'll tease a little less harsh.
2007-03-26 10:44:46 · answer #7 · answered by Taylor H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a way to tell if she is talking behind your back.
Make something up that is totally not true make sure it is a friend of yours. THen tell the friend what your plan is to see if this girl is talking sh@t about you. Your friend will tell you if your friend came to her and told her the dirt
2007-03-26 10:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by ashlandtree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in a matching undertaking w/ my freind (whos additionally my 0.5-bros cousin). we digital mail a lot and ive been 2 some events of hers yet i think of its ultimate that u myob until eventually she brings it up. specifically situations its least confusing to speak to people u dont know approximately besides b/c u dont choose to destroy ur relationship w/ ur bffs. in basic terms upload tricks here and there that ur there 4 her if she desires help.
2016-10-19 23:56:53 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could say plz can we stop fighting and tell her the stuff you want to tell her
2007-03-26 10:40:08 · answer #10 · answered by cork218 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋