My x-girlfriend i guess, her and i dont have sex but we still love eachother and don't call eachother really boyfriend and girlfriend but her and i hang out all the time. We go drinkin', we get coffee, and basically hang out in my car and talk and talk and talk about whatever, but i no she has feelin's for me still or she wouldnt be hanging out with me every chance she gets. The reason i dont think we count as going out is because there's no physical touchy feelly stuff happenin' except for a hug when we say goodbye. I've heard it all before that i need to work out to get more cut sense i am pretty skinny, but what things are there to do to get her back into the sex game with me? i no that's not what its all about but i do think its important if we are together everyday. dont you?
2007-03-26 10:38:42 · 8 answers · asked by Benjamin P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is this a Will and Grace thing?
2007-03-26 10:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by Pedro Sanchez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no buddy it doesn't work like that.. yes, she's your ex and yes exs half the time end up having sex but, it looks like she just sees you as a friend. not because you and her hang out everyday doesn't mean your going to get some. yes, she cares for you because you and her was in a relationship together.. it looks like your the emotionally attached one cause your wanting more from the relationship. if she wanted to have sex with you i'm sure she would of given you signs that she wanted to plus you would know because you were with her at one time so you would know when she wanted sex. she's not your girlfriend anymore so don't be expecting sex from her.
2007-03-26 10:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by Blake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU SHOULD SEE JUST HOW MUCH THIS GIRL LIKES YOU....BRING ANOTHER GIRL THATS A FRIEND AROUND....IF YOU SEE CHANGE IN THE WAY THIS GIRL ACT TOWARDS YOU THEN YOU KNOW SHE IS INTO YOU. B/C SHE COULD JUST BE LOOKING AT THIS AS A PLATONIC RELATIONSHIP THAT THE TWO OF YOU HAVE. SO SHOW HER THAT YOU CAN BE INTERSTED IN ANOTHER GIRL. BUT DON'T OVER DO IT......THEN IF YOU SEE CHANGE THEN YOU CAN TRY THE SEX THING OUT.....
2007-03-26 10:48:12 · answer #3 · answered by saints_fan_2584 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that is really what you want because you do not want to mess up a good friendship over sex!!! Maybe she is not feeling you the same way you are feeling her!!!
2007-03-26 10:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Ash Kat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of working out, how about attending an English class.
And figure it out, she doesn't want to be together again. She wants you as a friend. Move on.
2007-03-26 10:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by bupperna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time. She's not ready and it has nothing to do with your being thin. Maybe you need to talk to her about it. But don't start something you're not prepared to be responsible for. Godloveya.
2007-03-26 10:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm u gotta start being more touchy feely...like just kinda playin around at first... i guess like taking something of hers and letting her try to get it back...that involves much touching...or squeezing her leg...which tickles....tickling is a good way to be touchy feely...or if ur desperate, go somewhere crowded haha and that way u'll have to be close. i dunno about getting her to have sex, but i mean if yall get to touching more, and then making out....and she's into it, it usually goes from there
2007-03-26 10:44:36 · answer #7 · answered by foreveryoung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh, why'd you break up?
2007-03-26 10:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by TopLessOne 1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋