she went back to here old boyfriend last weekend . her and i were living together for 9 months.(were in are late 30s)she has 2 kids 1 12 years old that lived with us and the other 17 that never did.the guy she went back to has kiched her out in the past at different times in there relationship.i dont have no kids and i have never been married .i dont drink,do drugs or smoke cigaretts. i attend church regularly.i want to practice thy will be done in this situation.i need some acceptance and i need to see my part.my anger seemed to get the best of me and i expressed a lot of abusive home outbursts and in the car too tord my girlfriend.in the last 9 months we both have had things happen her daughters step brother died,my mom died and my grandma died , her daughter ran away and she had a tumor removed and had some stuff taken out 6 weeks ago and she cant have no more kids. i love her and miss them. even though she has chose him over me. is it healthy to want to still be with her?
2007-03-26 10:38:41 · 5 answers · asked by vanstone_2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe, just maybe, she felt she wasn't good enough for you. She had been treated just OK before in relationships. But not good, the way you treated her.
Maybe she has a wild streak that she is afraid to show you because she is afraid you will condemn her, so she feels she can't be herself due to not wanting to disappoint you.?
2007-03-26 10:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by sandibum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just wait a while and when the guy gets tired of her again she will come back to you. And if she does you will except her again and again. So hey you shoudln't worry because she'll be back soon.
2007-03-26 17:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many ways to say not healthy. She obviously has issues with commitment and other things that make her go back and forth. Her loss and you need to move on so that your not suseptable to it anymore.
2007-03-26 17:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by espressoaddict22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live learn and forget
2007-03-26 17:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by rip sniper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is soo funny... called escort to get ya new girlfriend and forget abt her...
2007-03-26 17:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋