Family & Relationships - 26 March 2007

i have been with my husband 20 years, 2 kids. last april his high school girlfriends husband died. 3 days after funeral ahe started calling my husband still in love with him and had a 300,000 insurance policy on her husband. she bought my husband a jeep, a motorcycle, an apartment close to her and pays all his bills. i cant compete with money, i have none. i dont want him back anymore but i want to punish them both. help me.

2007-03-26 17:38:32 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

his whereabouts what does that mean, I have been seeing this guy for almost a month and he always tells me where he is, where he is going, where he has been. That is not really normal or expected at this stage. i ahve been relationships where I could not even get my guy to pick up the ph let alone tell me his every move. What is his deal? Do you think he is into me or runnin game. it is kinda weird b/c he will TM and tell me where he is and he will call me later and then call me as soon as he gets home. He doesn't have to do it b/c Im not his grl. So what is up with that?

2007-03-26 17:38:25 · 4 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Singles & Dating

my friend who i work with keeps telling me i am hers and she also heard her say to my friend Jon, "she's mine nobody gets her". Also she keeps smelling me. This is strange cause she has a boyfriend and she is confusing me....

2007-03-26 17:38:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband wants me to do oral *** for him. Is it okay to say no? Am I defying him by saying no? or will it make our relationship more pleasant by saying yes? Is oral sex essential to a man's life?

2007-03-26 17:37:35 · 7 answers · asked by Smith 1 in Marriage & Divorce

At the bar, i m a waitress and i have to wear black spaghetti straps, black mini skirt, black fishnets and black boots. I kinda like this uniform cuz its not as revealing as the one before. well, a few days ago i was handing them out drinks, and i was in a good mood. All of a sudden, this guy who had a bunch of friends pulled down my zipper at the back of my skirt. The whole thing fell down, all i had under were black panties. i quickly pulled it back and zipped in up. that guy apologize.

i was real mad but i guess i was a bit too mean to the guys before, so i just accepted his apology and yeah thats it. What would you do?

2007-03-26 17:37:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anika 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my question is: If an attractive woman is attracted to a guy, should she ask him out directly, or is there a subtle way to let that guy know she is interested in him?
Ive been told I am attractive but Ive always struggled with my self image, but I am interested in somebody who seems very shy and so, understanding the how and why of a guy being intimidated, Im just curious. Is it better for a woman to make the guy feel more comfortable around him or what?

2007-03-26 17:36:05 · 8 answers · asked by neenerneener 2 in Singles & Dating

You and the guy both still love each other... but you had to break up... cuz neither of you were ready for a relationship. Do you stay friends with the guy... or do you just let go? It hurts so much to talk to him every day.... and not be able to tell him I love him..... and know that he's not mine.... what should I do??

2007-03-26 17:35:27 · 21 answers · asked by Sarah Jones101 2 in Singles & Dating

he lives downstairs of my house. we have been havig sexual intercourse for about 5 years an we still do but not as often. after we are done we act like nothing happened and we play wrestiln basketball like any other teenager would. i just dont know what to do i like hm alot and i think he likes me but we still want to be guys not gay. i guess we are. he does alot of things that make me think that he likes me some how. he chooses me over his othr friends he is constantly callig just to see what i am ding but we still talk like normal we wrestle and just normal things guys do . i dont know what to do is it ba what i am doing am i weird idk this has not affected our friendship at all we still talk we d everythingg still like if we never ever had have sex before. and nobody has found out either. there is one thing we have never kissed before.im curious am i just a sloppy second am i imagining something thatdoes not exisist. there is more to this story alot more tha any one think plz help??

2007-03-26 17:34:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok my friend(s) do somehitng to me then act liek they didnt do anythign or act suprised that im mad at them!!! should i not be mad at them?? r they right should they be suprised that im mad at them or r they wrong?? is it ok that im mad at them????

2007-03-26 17:34:53 · 8 answers · asked by ariana m 1 in Friends

Hello,
I am a 22 year old girl,
and I am also single....
The thing is I haven't found "him" .

For me, kissing is somewhat significant,
as in, "it's not just the kiss, but the meaning behind
it"....
Well, my question is...
when I do find this someone...

Will it matter that I have never been kissed?

Do guys [specifically]
find this weird?

thank you in advance.... :)

2007-03-26 17:34:40 · 18 answers · asked by LilyLila 1 in Singles & Dating

Well i have 1 of those best friends where they are nice but mean @ the same time u klnow one of those unstoppable besties where they say that they will do somthing and do it? well yeah so thers this guy i eally really like that i'v been talking about asking out but i'm scared cause i don't know what he thinks about me,well yeah my friend told me that if i don't ask him out by thursday she will ask him out for me! I mean i want to be with him but i'm scard! i know she means for the best but what should i do?

2007-03-26 17:34:36 · 1 answers · asked by killer.bebe 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend works with a couple of my good friends they're both very attractive, but I'm particularly worried about one of them, she claims she has the "perfect" marriage but we see differently, she drinks so much to the point where she tried to screw one of my guy friends who of course is married, she claims not to remember and that it was nothing. I trust my boyfriend but it bothers me everytime I see them talking, I've confronted her as a friend, but I don't think she realized how much she bothers me, now they're about to deploy together for six months, I'm miserably jealous and I don't know what to do, am I being paranoid? Should I just lay the cards on the table and tell her how I feel? How can I tell if he likes her too?

2007-03-26 17:34:29 · 19 answers · asked by funiris4u 1 in Singles & Dating

i do.. =/

2007-03-26 17:34:15 · 6 answers · asked by brrritani 2 in Singles & Dating

Heres teh situation, i have a frined who goes to teh same school as me...is in every class I am in...we walk hoem together....and we live a few houses away form eachoher. ever since last year, she has been a pain in the butt. What do I do? I hate her guts! Shes always bossing me around, stealing my firneds, back stabbing me and more! I cant take it anymore! Guess what shes my cousin!!Help...I wish she could just get out of my life!

2007-03-26 17:34:14 · 6 answers · asked by Christina M 1 in Friends

I know this is a weird question but I'm always attracted to guys who are sleazy and sexually perverse-- kinky types. Guys who are hot or older with interesting exciting jobs...
I know i may get blasted for saying it but im just trying to figure out why I keep going for these types.. I've met some nice-respectful, normal guys and have passed them up for the sleazy types... I know its not doing anything good for me. i just cant figure out why i am attracted so much to those types?

2007-03-26 17:33:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my dauter who is 12 needs to sleep with me once i did not want her to so i locked the door she got mad at me the next day and her 3 year old sister does it too how do i make her stop she nos about sex and all

2007-03-26 17:33:12 · 8 answers · asked by angela f 1 in Family

2007-03-26 17:33:09 · 31 answers · asked by avaughn09 3 in Singles & Dating

i dated this women for almost a year. we decide just to be friends. and we still are. but, my feelings are still there for her. she acts like nothing has happened between us. what should i do. someone please help me, i am going crazy

2007-03-26 17:32:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guy's. how would notice..or know that she likes you??

what are the things that a girl does that makes u think that she likes you?


thnx guys!!

2007-03-26 17:31:54 · 6 answers · asked by db 2 in Singles & Dating

I Been dating my girlfriend for a while she lives in Germany we have the long distance relationship. Shes very nice and i love her, and i always go visit her, Shes sopposed to come and see me in May and see where i live and meet my friends and spend one month with me, and eventually decide to move here with me.
My problem is that i'm very wealthy in the Millions, because of my parents i'm in my mid 20's like her, she knows im confortable but i never talked about what i have, and i never spend tons of money on her, i wanted her to love me for me and not for my money, and she does but when she comes to my apartment and see the cars i have shes going to ask more questions, how do i explain everything and how should i act?
thank you

2007-03-26 17:31:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-03-26 17:31:46 · 1 answers · asked by Kortnie 1 in Singles & Dating

So I have a crush at school and I told one of my friends but she turned out not to be the best choice because everytime we are around HIM she starts acting all goofy for me and its freaking me out becoz he will definately know. Okay so one day he came around and asked me directly who do you like and I was so afraid I said Nobody. I'm really shy around him and I cant maake myself talk to him.What should I do?

2007-03-26 17:31:27 · 7 answers · asked by Beata g 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so i really like this guy and we've been talking for a while now, and i think that its about time we moved to the next step of our relationship, but he seems a little scared to make the first move. Should I make the first move or will i look trashy? Or just give him more time

2007-03-26 17:30:32 · 13 answers · asked by epena86 2 in Singles & Dating

i think he does like me, but i'm not sure. what kind of signs do i look for?
(i know i already posted this question but i didn't get many answers and i wanted to repost it).

2007-03-26 17:30:27 · 4 answers · asked by mrs.potter 3 in Singles & Dating

I am an Indian National working in singapore for the past 13 years as civil engineer. I left india just to settle family loans and get sisters to get married and lessen all my parents burdens. At this moment I have got eneough but I loss my true love from parents & sisters. They Just dumped me and my own family just because I stop sending them money ( As I have fullfill all their neccessity including employ house maid to look after them) for their luxuary life. I have given up all my indian property as well newly built 2-storey house to my parents as they only love money. Now i feel like an orphan even though i have eneough to support my own family. I just try to forget all and always end up with alchocol by keep thinking of those things. What I would like to hear from you all is that , How could the parents just look at the money and do not feel the pain of making money in foreign country and just ignore son who really bring them all wealth?

2007-03-26 17:30:15 · 15 answers · asked by mshdsh 2 in Family

Any nice ideas what i can do for my sister on her wedding day.

I am the bridesmaid and helping her to get dress and i want to do something nice for her

2007-03-26 17:29:38 · 9 answers · asked by SAgirl 5 in Weddings

a guy asked you if you lost a proportionate amount of weight from your breasts when you told him you had lost some weight?

And the guy was your ex boyfriend

2007-03-26 17:28:56 · 11 answers · asked by OS 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this girl that i had classes with in the 8th grade, now in high school and i dont sit next to her but i sit one table away from hers. We talk after class and she always smiles at me in the morning and says hi and i always answer with a how was your weekend, how was your day yesterday, and other stuff, im not afraid to talk to her and i dont think she isnt either. The problem is i think she might have a boyfriend and im kinda afraid to ask her if she does or not. im thinking of waiting a few more days to see if she's interested or not, with your help. if she is im planning to ask her to the riverside plaza. its a really nice place with theatre, shopping center and restaurants. so please help!!,enlighten me with the knowledge i seek.

2007-03-26 17:27:49 · 3 answers · asked by raxer 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay guys what do you look for in a girl meaning: personality, looks, athletic ability, fashion, popularity, sense of humor, etc.?

2007-03-26 17:27:25 · 13 answers · asked by gina 3 in Singles & Dating

say you liked this girl 3 months ago just a little, then you havent talked to her ever since, and you recently broke up with someone dating about a month, if that girl you liked before started talking to you, will your feelings come back?

2007-03-26 17:27:00 · 3 answers · asked by LEANNE. 3 in Singles & Dating