Heres teh situation, i have a frined who goes to teh same school as me...is in every class I am in...we walk hoem together....and we live a few houses away form eachoher. ever since last year, she has been a pain in the butt. What do I do? I hate her guts! Shes always bossing me around, stealing my firneds, back stabbing me and more! I cant take it anymore! Guess what shes my cousin!!Help...I wish she could just get out of my life!
2007-03-26 17:34:14 · 6 answers · asked by Christina M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well since she is your cousin it should be a lot easier to tell her just how you feel. Just let her know what has been on your mind and how you feel. Since she is family she is always gonna be around, but just tell her when you two are at school not to associated with you. you go get your own group of friends and she can go get her own group of friends. If you do not speak up and say something to your cousin, then nothing will be better.
2007-03-26 17:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she does something that bothers you tell her right then that it's not o.k. with you, rather than hold it in with resentment. Nobody deserves to be back-stabbed by a supposed "friend." If she thinks you two are friends she should act like one.
Demand the respect you deserve or tell her to get lost.
2007-03-27 00:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same kind of situation...Except she lived like 2 miles away..but i got in a fight with her and 2 other firends..who were my friends at the time cuzz their friend tonya called me a slut and i was like if im lut so is she.. cuzz shes had sex b4 and welll im glad that we broke r friendship off even tho i lost 3 friends.. cuzz in return.. i started liking myself more... and i found other people to hang with and nownoone knwos my secrets! :)
2007-03-27 00:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by jenny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how you feel, she is your cousin so it should be a lot easier there is no reason why you should be wasting your time on someone you dont want to be around just tell her straight up but make sure you do it nicely becuase she is your family and you dont want to hurt her.
2007-03-27 01:29:17 · answer #4 · answered by nik456 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt you are going to lose a cousin but you might want to try having another friend for a while...when she asks why she doesn't see you explain it....
2007-03-27 00:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by Regina L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the biotch to friggen step off!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-27 00:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by my_chem_42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋