Family & Relationships - 26 March 2007

two years ago, a close friend of mine, 'Jane', and I started to like each other but didn't form a relationship because 'Jane' had just broken up with her boyfriend of 2 years. A year later 'Jane' began to like me again but this time I was the one that didn't want the relationship. After pushing her away, my brother that is 4 years older than me began to hang out with her. They started to like each other and my brother asked me if it would be ok to go out with her. Considering he had gotten out of a 3 year relationship just months prior I thought it would be good for him to find another person. So I said it was fine because I thought she no longer liked me even though I still sort of liked her. After 6 months of my brother completely using her, sleeping with atleast 5 other girls including his ex, and using the excuse that they werent official, they broke up. About a month after I fell back in love with her and started a relationship and never been happier.. am I in the wrong?

2007-03-26 17:56:22 · 16 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

been going with the same guy for 3 years.. and our relationship is falling apart and i moved out due to the fact that i wasn't being appreciated and then he call's me and tell's me what kind of mind games.. what exactly does this mean?

2007-03-26 17:56:03 · 13 answers · asked by tina c 2 in Singles & Dating

I'd like a nice Latin guy to ask me out, but none do! I don't want to be aggressive and I'm not flirty. But I'm attracted to them and would like to have a serious relationship. Do Latin guys date black women?

2007-03-26 17:54:46 · 11 answers · asked by curlygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

He is 34! Im 25. Every since hes moved in a month and a half ago, things went downhill...wed been together since Dec. Before that he was super romantic and attentive, spilling his feelings for me...we agreed to not put a label on it though. Anyway...i saw condoms one time in a see-through bag and got really upset. He didnt use them but it still freaked me out. I ended up drinking and saying some rude things. I apologized and he said he was gonna be patient. We made up...i ended up saying i needed space...anyway...after one night we went out with one of my best guy friends he got really mad bc he accused me of dancing with him, i didnt. I cried for two hours...he ignored me two days...he said he was disappointed and it wasnt what he thought. I saw on myspace he asked a girl on a date. He apologized and said they never met up. This weekend we went to a wedding and he kept grabbing my hand during the ceremony, carrying my wine glass, and kissing me. It was like old times.

2007-03-26 17:53:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this guy for almost half a year now. He's separated. Well we had sex from the first month we went out. After 3 months of going out, he suddenly became cold. He still say that he loves me and makes time for me. My question... is it natural that the exitement wears off and it's settling? We're both adult...Or should i worry? HELP....

2007-03-26 17:53:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have not live together for 18 years. He had a child with our friend,a nurse, Her husband does not know.
Our son, wants to know him. he asked when he is 21..

2007-03-26 17:53:07 · 4 answers · asked by Eve 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I've thought of suicide for a while now..(but I don't think I'm suicidal but if I found something that was quick and painless I would do it!!)

I lied to my mom. I was trying to hang out with a friend who I haven't see for a while after volunteering at this thing. It didn't happen though I figured I wouldn't go!

Then one of the grownups called my parents telling what I was trying to do. Now I'm grounded for life. Just as I though it couldn't get worse my dad made a work schedule. Making me wake up at seven and everyother day at six so I can work out with his squadron (hes military). I get straight A's but it's no longer worth it...so screw that. Even if I'm not suicidal what if I had tried to do it you think it would get them off my back. They even took away my myspace! And my dad been checking everything I've been doing like who I've been calling.

What should I do. I have a step dad who is kind of a looser and I'm thinking of moving there... what should I do???? :[

2007-03-26 17:52:47 · 5 answers · asked by jeremy_rrush_ 2 in Family

I love to read the personals. I read hundreds per month I'd imagine. When I see the word and acronym "Sexy BBW" together I just laugh, every time. I just saw them together on the Craigslist and it actually brought physical laughter out of me, for the millionth time. It never gets old. LMAO

what about you?

2007-03-26 17:51:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been back with my x bf for about two months and Im just not feeling the way I used too...we broke up because of commitment issues that have now been resolved and I don't think I am "in love" him ?.....

After everything he put me through I just don't know anymore....He has no idea I feel this way and I do love him but I guess Im not "In love" ?

Should I stick it out and see how I feel or ask to go back to "just dating" and go from there?? I dont want to hurt him

2007-03-26 17:50:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 17:50:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a guy says that im very hot and attractive the way i am and i dunt need to change anything about me after i ask him if im fat and says who ever gets me is very lucky do u think he likes me or being nice

2007-03-26 17:49:01 · 11 answers · asked by *Glitta n' Gloss* 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 17:48:43 · 5 answers · asked by cocopopoman 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He has a bit of a temper. We've been together for 6 months and he has not once yelled at me, but he'll get furious about not doing well on an exam or if he's been treated unfairly and be horribly moody all day. Most of the time he does have every right to be angry but he blows things out of proportion and I worry about him when he gets so upset. What can I do to help him calm down and make him feel better?

2007-03-26 17:48:29 · 18 answers · asked by dancerchic882003 2 in Singles & Dating

thers this boy who is shy doesnt alk to me ery often but when he does we talk the whole class period how do i know if he likes me?

2007-03-26 17:46:48 · 9 answers · asked by killer.bebe 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 42 year old male who is very nervous when I see a woman I find attractive. I can barely make eye contact and usually cannot smile at her without blushing. I haven't dated in a really long time and have a lot of self-esteem and confidence issues in general. I feel that I am really held back in the whole dating world. Any advice for me to break out of this pattern?

2007-03-26 17:46:22 · 5 answers · asked by David JLW 2 in Singles & Dating

I want something legal that says that I am a owner too before I get married. His whole family lives in that house and we plan to get another house which I am going to take out under my name, and I told him that we should be equal. He put my name under his house and let his family rent it, and I put his name under the house I am getting under my credit. I only think its fair. Don't you? Or is everything after we are married community property? Or am I being too paranoid about it? Another reason I ask is because his sister has already started telling me things as far as what rights do I have there etc. etc. and i don't want that to happen after we are married??????? Too complicated huh????

2007-03-26 17:46:21 · 11 answers · asked by Ciara 1 in Weddings

He has a heart of gold and would give you the shirt off his back. That is how people describe him. He's been hurt in past relationships and wants to develope a friendship before a relationship. We've been "growing" a friendship over the past 3 months, He makes all the advances - I respond to show him I am interested, too. Things were going very well between us. Then all of a sudden he completely backed off and has been doing things that are uncharacteristic of him. The last time I spoke with him he said that he's just been "really busy" - that's all it was. I've been giving him space because I think he is afraid of the feelings he's been having and will be back when he resolves these issues. I haven't been calling him because I don't want to appear needy or be a pest. Would you wait for him to come around, confront him about his behavior or ask him out? Walking away isn't an option.

2007-03-26 17:46:20 · 5 answers · asked by Ms. Gump 3 in Singles & Dating

when a hot guy dates an average looking girl, he won't appreciate her as much as if he's with someone hotter
but hot guys always go for the easy ones
smart guys love a challenge and always go for the smart and hot girls
guys act controlling when a hot girl is their girlfriend
change and add to this
the one with most input that's interesting wins

2007-03-26 17:45:54 · 1 answers · asked by yennay 3 in Singles & Dating

this guy i work with was basically calling me stupid and i told him to shut up because i am sure he does stupid things too and he told me he has done stupid girls and i laughed and he got mad and told me that was not funny..he is engaged and he's 25 and i am 19

he does tend to have a bi-polar attitude with me-he flirts with me and then is a jerk..

2007-03-26 17:44:33 · 11 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Singles & Dating

Nearby Indiana is okay too. I just need to know if you can elope with someone underage.

2007-03-26 17:44:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-26 17:43:43 · 18 answers · asked by khatzzz 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-26 17:42:13 · 11 answers · asked by Everett 2 in Singles & Dating

quick version: a woman filed child support papers for two children against her husband. yes, he had moved out and they will be divorcing. they had not filed legal separation yet or divorce and they came to no agreement on child custody. the court awarded the wife child support... this happened in california...how and why is this legal?

2007-03-26 17:42:01 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-26 17:41:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lately I've been extremely stressed, to the point where I've become so irritable that I lash out at people including my friends, its not one thing alone that is the problem, its a collection of fairly big problems, is there any good supplement that will help me lighten up my extreme mood swings? I already exercise, eat healthy and all that stuff, but its just not enough, I'm desperate and loosing my friends and my sex drive is almost non-existant

2007-03-26 17:41:34 · 10 answers · asked by funiris4u 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in a strange situation I am a goodlooking lady married and of late i have found ladies getting attracted to me but i am not into them they try to touch me and keep looking at me and praise me for my work and recognition that i have received recently from my superiors,. One coworker even professed her love to me saying that she loves me and she owns me . I refused telling her that such relationships are stupid and people dont approve i dont talk much to her only professional talk if required . She still keeps srtaring and once or twice she even tried to touch me too ,I can see the lust in her eyes. I confided this in one of my friend who is her friend also. she told me to stay away from her as she doesnot carry a good repport and is very arrogant. but on my allofness and distancing she still tries to look into my eyes and smiles whenever she gets a chance she told me she loves listening to me and that i speak so eloquently ,shre once cried and in front of me opened up her heart .

2007-03-26 17:40:11 · 5 answers · asked by simpleveera 1 in Friends

I've been missing a girl for 11 months. I liked her, then fell in love with her, but she never liked me back. She got mad at me for a mistake I made which takes too much explanation and two months later she told me she didn't want to talk to me anymore. I HAD NOT been talking to her since she said she didn't want to talk to me anymore. So I gave her what she wanted. We used to say hi occasionally after that when we went back to school. I thought things would be cool between us so recently for the 1st time I tried to talk to her. When I asked her how she was, she kept her back turned towards me, unlike when I saw her sneak so many glances at me this past year. She texted on her phone. She never even looked at me, never said a word. I told her I only wanted us to be friends again but she wasn't hearing me. She talked to everyone who came in the hall but me. I just said "ok, I get the point, you don't have to say anything else. I guess I'll just see you around." I left the hall.

2007-03-26 17:40:01 · 5 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

How many relationships do you know has lasted after either the girlfriend or boyfriend has slept with another person?

2007-03-26 17:39:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i hate my older sis, she hates me. she's twenty five and divorced. the problem comes now that she's driving a wedge between me and my dad. he constantly thinks that there is still good in her, even though she's done nothing but screw up in everyhting for the past foru years. i'm a senior in highschool and was wondering if i was right to baskiclly ask my dad to make a choice between my sis and me

2007-03-26 17:39:03 · 7 answers · asked by vincent, the lord of chaos 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2007-03-26 17:38:34 · 2 answers · asked by patricia_w88 1 in Singles & Dating