I have been back with my x bf for about two months and Im just not feeling the way I used too...we broke up because of commitment issues that have now been resolved and I don't think I am "in love" him ?.....
After everything he put me through I just don't know anymore....He has no idea I feel this way and I do love him but I guess Im not "In love" ?
Should I stick it out and see how I feel or ask to go back to "just dating" and go from there?? I dont want to hurt him
2007-03-26 17:50:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if your feeling has change for him then you need to be honest
with him and tell him how you feel. it not fair to keep playing
with his feeling . it will only get harder as time go on.
2007-03-26 17:56:21 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say that you don't want to hurt him, but at some point apparently he had no problem hurting you, and that's why your feelings for him have changed. Be true to yourself. Never put a man's feelings before yours if your heart isn't in it. Don't string him along, be honest with him, and don't fall into a relationship based on what was and fear of hurting him.
2007-04-03 17:16:10 · answer #2 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still love him, but you are salso still hurt and even more importantly, you are afraid of being hurt again. You need to work diligently to determine (ask him) if he's serious this time.
I think that if you were not in love with him you would not be there. Just my opinion. I wish you the best.
2007-03-27 00:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you better call it off. Don't waste the 2nd time if you think you can't be together. You need to have the right feeling for a relationship but if it is not working, better forget it. Go find another.
2007-03-27 00:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant really have a relationship without love. There won't be any burning desires. I would end it , if you look at it, it is not fair to him you are giving him false hopes and it is not fair to yourself because you are not in love and are not truly happy.
2007-04-03 22:40:59 · answer #5 · answered by Shelby N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have some soul searching to do . most men have a problem with commitment . but if you really love him and you really forgive him. give your relationship a chance.
2007-04-03 23:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
⥠if you have any of these doubts then you dont love him anywayzâ¥
2007-04-03 18:28:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've lost that loving feeling...move on, its gone.
2007-03-27 00:55:41 · answer #8 · answered by my_thoughts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOOO good question
2007-04-03 22:03:01 · answer #9 · answered by ~'J3sus Sid3 W@rri○r '~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please tell me your full story openly. they i can advise
2007-03-27 00:57:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋