I've been missing a girl for 11 months. I liked her, then fell in love with her, but she never liked me back. She got mad at me for a mistake I made which takes too much explanation and two months later she told me she didn't want to talk to me anymore. I HAD NOT been talking to her since she said she didn't want to talk to me anymore. So I gave her what she wanted. We used to say hi occasionally after that when we went back to school. I thought things would be cool between us so recently for the 1st time I tried to talk to her. When I asked her how she was, she kept her back turned towards me, unlike when I saw her sneak so many glances at me this past year. She texted on her phone. She never even looked at me, never said a word. I told her I only wanted us to be friends again but she wasn't hearing me. She talked to everyone who came in the hall but me. I just said "ok, I get the point, you don't have to say anything else. I guess I'll just see you around." I left the hall.
2007-03-26 17:40:01 · 5 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We had a friendship that lasted 4 months. I have an idea to slyly both recognize her birthday tomorrow (she'll be 17, I'm 17) and ignore her at the same time. The plan is:
(1) I won't say happy birthday to her or look at her
(2) I'll tell her friend(s) that I know it's her birthday, but if she says anything about me not saying happy birthday to her (which she probably won't)
(3) Then her friend(s) (who talk to me) Could tell her that I probably knew it was her birthday but I didn't say anything in order to give her what she wants and stay out of her life.
I care about her alot, enough to WANT to get her something just because (as well as to let her go) but I'm just NOT going to. After her birthday, I'm forgetting all about her because I see that she'll never care for me the way I do for her.
I asked this again because only one person understood what I was saying the 1st time I asked
2007-03-26 17:41:15 · update #1
It's not really meant to work for anything, it's mostly to say happy birthday to her through her friends as to not directly talk to her which I would only result in annoying her.
2007-03-26 17:53:27 · update #2
I'd suggest to forget her . She's a lost cause.You sound like a nice guy but you got some bad traits. like letting go . Any girl that doesn't want to be friends isn't worth having. Look around. There are better quality friends around.
2007-03-26 17:50:43 · answer #1 · answered by reinformer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an alright plan. I understand what you mean. You WANT her to know that you did think about her birthday. . . but you want to know whether she asks her friends (and ur friends) why you didn't wish her a happy birthday. Well, you seem ok with leaving everything after her birthday . . . . distance makes the heart grow fonder. . . and maybe if you weren't there as often she might come to miss you. So, good luck with everything!
2007-03-27 00:48:11 · answer #2 · answered by Cara M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. That will not work at all.
2. Such plans never do.
3. The girl doesn't like you, move on.
4. Sounds like you two didn't have much of a relationship to begin with.
5. My goodness, you're 17 and still acting like a 12year old!? Grow up.
2007-03-27 00:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just do what you like but do hurt the girl ok? Both of you are only 17.
2007-03-27 00:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think getting back is gonna work so i saguest that u get her a nice b-day prezen,probaly a ring and give it to her and say happy b-day then walk away sooner or later she will have to thank you and then say im sorry.and ur friends =)
2007-03-27 00:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by tomboy96713 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋