My husband wants me to do oral *** for him. Is it okay to say no? Am I defying him by saying no? or will it make our relationship more pleasant by saying yes? Is oral sex essential to a man's life?
2007-03-26 17:37:35 · 7 answers · asked by Smith 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my husband loves it! It makes me overjoyed that he is so pleasured by it.
it is always good to experiment with new things, just as long as you are comfortable with it.
do not wait until you are in the moment to discuss sexual matters, make time to talk about it outside the bedroom.
let each other know what might make you uncomfortable so that you can find other alternatives that maybe just as good or maybe even better.
just don't do it for him, do it because you want to. you should never force yourself into anything you are not up to, it might cause some resentment between the two of you in the future.
best of luck
2007-03-26 17:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by love for art 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not essential, but it can be fun for both of you. If you have never done it before, try it! You may enjoy it or enjoy him being turned on.
2007-03-27 00:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do it if he asks you to do it..
And you should do it the way he wants it done..
No reason not to do so....It will not harm you and
it is not unusual....If he deems in important enough
and you refuse him, he may feel justified in going
elsewhere for oral.....
You can say no but you do so at your peril..
2007-03-27 00:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not essential to a man's life. Many women refuse to do it.
2007-03-27 00:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should at least try, just talk about it before, not right before you have sex at another time. maybe youll like it, its very satisfying for me he enjoys it so much.
2007-03-30 18:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by shoko_valensi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he's considered that it may be a 2 way street???
2007-03-27 01:28:46 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what ever you feel commutable with!
2007-03-27 01:13:58 · answer #7 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋