he lives downstairs of my house. we have been havig sexual intercourse for about 5 years an we still do but not as often. after we are done we act like nothing happened and we play wrestiln basketball like any other teenager would. i just dont know what to do i like hm alot and i think he likes me but we still want to be guys not gay. i guess we are. he does alot of things that make me think that he likes me some how. he chooses me over his othr friends he is constantly callig just to see what i am ding but we still talk like normal we wrestle and just normal things guys do . i dont know what to do is it ba what i am doing am i weird idk this has not affected our friendship at all we still talk we d everythingg still like if we never ever had have sex before. and nobody has found out either. there is one thing we have never kissed before.im curious am i just a sloppy second am i imagining something thatdoes not exisist. there is more to this story alot more tha any one think plz help??
2007-03-26 17:34:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
okay well first things first u need to accept that u are gay/bi and that ur not like other guys. which is good bcuz being different is amazing. next since u two have had a previous fling i guess he knows u pretty well and from the way u put it it seems like he has an interest in you. so wat u need to do is tell him how u feel. i kno this sounds simply but its true..considering u are guys u cant read minds which means he probably doesnt kno for sure if u like him and who knos maybe he likes u just as much and is afraid to tell you..u kno wat who cares wat other ppl think of you and if he doesnt want to date then u kno it wasnt ment to be..besides there are so many ppl out there and u sound like a good kid....good luck and much love
2007-03-26 17:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by bri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U've had sex but haven't kissed before??, i guess u do know what ur next move is to be.
He does seem to like u alot, but this could have just been an experiment that has continued over the years because as u said its slowing down. To know for sure were y'all stand, u need to go for that kiss.
Ask him to kiss u when u have sex again, &see how u feel after that, then tell him how u feel......Good luck hey.
2007-03-26 17:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know anything about being gay. But I didn't think when you like people of your own sex that you couldn't do normal things. I mean you're still human. And if you guys are so good of friends, then y can't you ask him how he feels about you. I mean you guys do have sex,.......so how can you be imagining that. And another thing, when you say best friend of 7 years, you mean you guys have been best friends 4 seven years right?? Not he 's 7 years old.
2007-03-26 17:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by S4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are never going to know if you don't ask. Hormones are something that are hard to deal with when you are so young, and adding sexuality t the mix does not help. Talk to your friend and see if he feels the same way. If he doesn't then stop having sex with him, you are setting yourself up for a huge let down. If he doesn't like you now he is not going to change. Good Luck
2007-03-26 17:42:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.i think its aganst the law to have sex if ur under 17..but u know i think that reasion ship isgood im a tomboy but still not a boy but i can give some good envice sometimes..i know u love having se with this kid but i think u should let i go untill hes atleast 10...not offending u or anything.good luck..
2007-03-26 17:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by tomboy96713 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would probally have to know the rest of the story but, i would say you all are in love, and there isnt anyone else, i would say he does not want anyone to think he is gay, and your mind is imagining that he doesnt love you as much as he should or that he is cheating on you he probally just wants friends with benifits but he sounds like your his only benifits
2007-03-26 17:41:29 · answer #6 · answered by jwkware 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first of all if anything else happens then it would make you look gay and i don't know if you'd like that but sence your bi that means you like girls too right? well instead of going for a guy try a girl it'll probably work out better and you can go out in public and stuff holding hands and kiss her with out being afraid of anything it'll work out better trust me =o)
2007-03-26 17:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by .*♥sHeR♥*. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u say u have never kissed eachother? and u've been having sex since u were 11? unbelievable. ...i think u guys will end up together.
2007-03-26 17:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by krys_o_cali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he know how you feel, if not tell him. and the kissing thing, maybe he is just waiting on you to tell him. and if yall have kept it quite this long i think if yall had a relationship that is yall business and not anybody elses. why does anybody else have to know.
2007-03-26 17:43:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must tell to him what do u fell really,
'cause the important he know
that u love him .
ok.. don't afraid!!
bye
answer me pls
2007-03-26 22:00:23 · answer #10 · answered by manish r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋