Family & Relationships - 25 March 2007

We have seperated and he is refusing to pay me money he borrowed from me and my half of bond money. I've been to a solicitor and he's sent my maggot of a husband a letter stating payment within 7 days. It's now been 9 days and we've not heard a word. My husband is a police officer and verbally abused me for 12 months until I got the money to GET OUT. I'm now on my own and I want my money. For the last 6 months of my marriage, I lived in the spare room of the house we were renting. I was paying half the rent and half of every bill that came into the place. Also half food bills. If he laid eyes on me he would verbally abuse me. He accused me of having toy boys and sugar daddys because I wasn't giving him sex. He is a VERY HEAVY DRINKER. 133 cans of beer in 12 days. He drives DRUNK and is not worried about getting caught because he's stated, ALL I HAVE TO DO IS FLASH MY BADGE and they'll let me drive off. This man has no concience. He's a drunken abuser and doesn't care.

2007-03-25 20:41:33 · 4 answers · asked by kazza_kazza_kazza 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-03-25 20:40:25 · 14 answers · asked by mrirwin916 1 in Singles & Dating

shes hot and all but shes still my boss so i just kinda freaked out and clocked out and left and now shes kinda mad at me. what should i do?"

2007-03-25 20:39:25 · 5 answers · asked by apu 2 in Singles & Dating

Part 1
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Part 2
Would people please stop telling me what an awful person I am? I hate myself enough as it is. I’m neither selfish nor a bad person and if you knew me you’d realize that. Everyone makes mistakes, everyone. I didn’t come here to be judged, I came here for objective advice. I made a mistake, a huge one I know that and I would give anything to change what I did. I didn’t leave him with nothing. I made sure he received the best medical care possible and even though he’s a very wealthy man I left without a cent because I didn’t want his money. It really couldn’t have been all that bad if he survived on his own; at least I hope it wasn’t. He’s young (31) and fit. We’re still married and I hope to God he doesn’t choose to throw away 7 years of marriage because of one mistake.

2007-03-25 20:39:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am sicilian and my now ex husband was italian and tried to kill me im serious when i left him for a black man my friend who is cuban and my other friend who is half sicilian and half black always wondered that and i have heard people say it but don't believe it is true for all italian/sicilian men cause my step mom is black my cousin's wife is black in my family their stricter on the women than the men when it comes to that my friend is talking to an italian man right now and doesnt trust him at all cause of that rumor im like chill out that is not all of them no one can say what millions of italian/sicilian men think and feel just what they know there are alot of closed minded a*ses out there my family member who are like that included age is no excuse for racism thank god i have mostly cool family

2007-03-25 20:39:18 · 5 answers · asked by maranzano doll 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in missouri and im talking about chinese ,japanese and koreans.

2007-03-25 20:38:12 · 7 answers · asked by kagome 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so here it is. My partner and I pretty much compliment each other as best as u could imagine, we are mad about each other. The only part that is hard for me to compromise in is the sex.
I have quite a high sex drive for a female, and for a male I would say his is average. It's hard for me not to take offence to this as I see being intimate often as a part of expressing your love for the other person.
He hates that he cant satisfy my drive but if he doesn't really feel like it I don't really want him faking it for me.
Instead of just giving up on this and accepting that my sex life isn't as high as i would like it, i would like to take another approach.
How can I find ways to turn him on more, as I see it, if the stimulation is there the rest follows. I want it to be passionate, I want slamming against the wall, ripping your clothes off, biting their shoulder sort of stuff.
He claims to have never experienced this so I fear it's more a thing of not knowing what to do.....help me

2007-03-25 20:38:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this guy a month ago. Then I realised that he has the hots for me. However, due to his charming, outgoing personality, many girls will throw themselves at him. I kinda feel insecure now. Becos there are text messages left in his hp or mailboxes by some woman. He said he is a sensible guy. What shld I do? We are not in a relationship yet but he are dating.

2007-03-25 20:37:20 · 8 answers · asked by lime 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 20:35:44 · 15 answers · asked by daniel e 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean i have one or two friends, but at college i'm basically my own man. I just feel other guys and girls are way too immature for my liking. I also find most guys at my college too gay to befriend.

2007-03-25 20:35:28 · 10 answers · asked by axl 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean does it mean the guy likes her enough to give her his jacket and leave himself to freeze?
is it just manners or does that mean the guy is somewhat interested in her?
cause i dont think a guy who dislikes a girl would offer her his jacket if she were cold
ya know?

2007-03-25 20:35:21 · 13 answers · asked by lady_luv 2 in Singles & Dating

serious question, i dont want to come across as a jealous guy, so i want to move accordingly.

2007-03-25 20:34:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well here it is my cousins and I were online and we each typed in our boyfriends' screen names and found some interesting things like personals from different sites and things like myspace, red light social center. With my boyfriend I found him all over the place even in red light social center and on it a girl is claiming he's a good 'uck and he's claiming she's his future wife when with me he keeps telling me he doesn't believe in marriage. I found him at other personals as well dating back to 2005. We've been together for 5 yrs this June. I already emailed him a list of the sites and I've noticed other things as well in his myspace he's single, on his AOL page he's single, everywhere he's single except at this red light place he's in a relationship now I have to wonder is he in a relationship with this girl or with me. Now I'm just trying to figure out how to react to all this. I thought I loved him, I feel like I do but I'm not even sure anymore of my feelings for him. Or his.

2007-03-25 20:34:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm so confused. First off there is a neighbor guy that I really like. About 6 years ago we always would say hello, how are you whatever! Since then nothing! I am madly in love with this man. He was engaged. I don't believe he ever got married. But anyways. Like I said I am madly in love with him. I see him all the time. I am shy. I admit it. I am scared to even talk to him. My heart beats a thousand miles an hour. I walk past his house with my head down. Cause I can't bare to look into his beautiful eyes. Even though I see him all the time out and about I still am afraid to talk to him. I know I sound stupid. But what do I do?? I mean I would give anything to be with! He!l I would give anything to go hey I would like to talk to you and tell him. I know it's a 50/50 chance. But at least I tried and at least he knows how I feel. But I am scared. Any advice would be appericated.
Note: When ever he sees me in town he waves and smiles. It's just grr. I don't agurvating I guess. Help???

2007-03-25 20:32:31 · 8 answers · asked by Don't Speak! 1 in Singles & Dating

Everytime i see her and she sees me, we look into each others eyes. I feel theres a connection but i dont know what to do. She is not in any one of my classes. Please help

2007-03-25 20:31:10 · 10 answers · asked by axl 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends went to the strip club. One of the girls is married, she was feeling on the male strippers private part. My friend said this isnt cheating. What do you think? Did she cheat?

2007-03-25 20:30:20 · 20 answers · asked by Got Curves? 6 in Singles & Dating

im 20 and i like this girl, i mean everytime i look at her, and our eyes meet it feels like heaven for me, knowing that she response to me, either that is good or bad, i still dont know. but the real problem is that im really shy and she is not in my class. during 8 weeks of my study, i have only seen her 5 times. I have some bad experience with girls in the past, i think that is my fear, but when i look at her, i feel im in love. well i want to get to know her and just break the ice, at this 1 time that i could remember, i was actually at the end of corridor about to get on the lift, and she was at the other end, and our eyes met 4 like 1 minute, before she dissappeared (she is no ghost), could that be a sign of interest ?? feedback is appreciated, professionals/girls opinion will be more appreciated

2007-03-25 20:29:57 · 4 answers · asked by ILUZTR8 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you ever stop to think how hurt your wife would be? I wish I had a nickel for every taken man that comes in the bar and flirts-even though he knows I myself am taken and very happy. You can always since a little guilt on their part-then they bring up their partners. I just hate how many men there are out there who disrespect their mates....

2007-03-25 20:29:12 · 10 answers · asked by nunya 3 in Marriage & Divorce

where do you all hang out at to meet a nice gal?

2007-03-25 20:28:49 · 12 answers · asked by Dreamyeyes 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl said I was hot, but later said she lied. She flirted with me, but now that she knows I like her she acts distant. I asked her out and she said she liked another guy. Does she still want to be friends?

2007-03-25 20:27:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its been 2 yrs we r married but my inlaws keep troubling us for smal smal things...we never had any happy moments in 2 yrs but to help my inlaws.....they always land in some problems and me end up helping them financially....its getting a big problem in our married life, as my wife expects that she or me have to help them as they r her parents...i don know wat to do?

2007-03-25 20:27:14 · 2 answers · asked by mangy20 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it normal for your auto dealrship repairman to call you and make sure your car is okay? I met the service guy when I took my car in, we had a good convo and he blushed during our conversation.

Really nice guy. I picked up the car after he got off work and he called to check on me and mentioned "I guess you picked up the car after I left for the day and was just checkng on you."

Is this normal? Was he flirting or trying to pick up on me?

2007-03-25 20:26:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl in highschool (we both are freshman) I like her. We have 1 class together and that biology. I see her in the hallways like alot because our classes are near each other.
My friend (we are close) is like her best friend and I asked him to tell her i like her. He did so now she knows and she is giving me looks and I think she is waiting for me to make the first move (break the ice). I need help to talk to her because Im shy and its hard for me to get the confidence to go up to her and to talk to her. I can make a conversation about the stupidest stuff but when im around her i cant help but to stay quiet. Around other girls im a huge flirt. I know i must talk to her but i just need tips and topics to talk to her with (im a pretty decent looking guy if that helps).

Could i try to write a note to her?

2007-03-25 20:26:40 · 8 answers · asked by Bryan 2 in Singles & Dating

I promised my son a birthday party for his 8th. I planned it a month in advance and sent out invitations to his class and the relatives. So far, of the relatives, all of the adults plan to attend PLUS a few are bringing their adult friends/coworkers/etc.

The party was to be at a well-known kids fun-park. We have to pay for each adult AND child. With the relatives we're sure it is the "free food" that is drawing them in. I'm kind of shocked that some went so far as to invite other people who weren't even invited.

I have NO rsvp's from his class, NO relatives are bringing their kids just bringing their buddies/selves. He'll have his siblings but it just isn't the same. I'm afraid he'll be heartbroken. It isn't HIM. It is my fault because I really just don't know anyone...and when mom doesn't know people...this is what happens. With all the additional adults we're looking at a couple hundred MORE dollars than what we planned, too. Maybe just cxl and book a trip somewhere instead?

2007-03-25 20:25:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-25 20:25:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so my boyfriend and i are having our anniversary...and so far every time we go by the flower shop and jewlery store hes like..."hmmm flower shop...hmmm jewlery store..." and wehn i ask why hes doing that he goes, "Just hinting i guess..."

and then today he was asking me if im gonna stay with him forever and he was like, really? are you sure?...

then today one he told was talking to one of his friends and he goes, well my fiance and I.....

Then my mom called and he picked up the phone and went, "Hi mother-in-law"....it sounds to me that hes gonna finaly ask me to marry him, but i dont konw if he is just sayin these things and not meaning anything by it...but this all just started happening yesterday! Hes never been THIS talkative about it...i mean...we have a kid together and so i dont see why it woudnt happen but before he was always like, "im not ready yet..."

2007-03-25 20:24:14 · 18 answers · asked by LostInTheCrowd 2 in Singles & Dating

There are hundreds of women coming in and out of the pharmacy you work in each day. If this particular female customer is a couple of years younger than you and say for example your 24/25... would you still want to get to know them and go out with them? Even though this customer is a couple of years younger than you, they still look like they are around your age or just like 1 or 2 years younger. Would you? Why? and Why not? Would you still have particular interest in Women/girls under the age of 20 but over 18 with Physical and Mental Maturity?

IF not...

state your preferences if you were a male pharmacist..

2007-03-25 20:23:52 · 7 answers · asked by starry_night_swirl 2 in Singles & Dating

Conversations are down to two words.

2007-03-25 20:22:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

for the first time i many years my 48 yr old husband, and i woke up to see that husband do a littles wee in his sleep....he and i were both very worried....he was embareesed.....he feels very sad now...wat should i do 2 help him??

i personally believe diapers are the only anwer

2007-03-25 20:21:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-25 20:21:16 · 7 answers · asked by one hot momma 2 in Singles & Dating