Ummm. Question! How do I talk to him?

Question

I'm so confused. First off there is a neighbor guy that I really like. About 6 years ago we always would say hello, how are you whatever! Since then nothing! I am madly in love with this man. He was engaged. I don't believe he ever got married. But anyways. Like I said I am madly in love with him. I see him all the time. I am shy. I admit it. I am scared to even talk to him. My heart beats a thousand miles an hour. I walk past his house with my head down. Cause I can't bare to look into his beautiful eyes. Even though I see him all the time out and about I still am afraid to talk to him. I know I sound stupid. But what do I do?? I mean I would give anything to be with! He!l I would give anything to go hey I would like to talk to you and tell him. I know it's a 50/50 chance. But at least I tried and at least he knows how I feel. But I am scared. Any advice would be appericated.
Note: When ever he sees me in town he waves and smiles. It's just grr. I don't agurvating I guess. Help???

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Answer 1

The very best and easy way for a woman to meet a man is for her to ask for his help about something. Have a question to ask him the next time you see him. Ideally the question would involve asking him to help you get open a stuck drawer, or you could buy one of those bookcases that has to be put together. Put it part way together then tell him that you are stuck putting it together and could he help you. When he does then you could offer to make him dinner to thank him.

I want to tell you though that it seems like you have really built this up in your mind. Even if you got a date with him there is no assurance that things would work out.

Answer 2

I understand you have a fierce attraction to this guy - if he's a neighbor, can't you find out something about him from any of the other neighbors. When he waves and smiles, stop him and ask him if he knows anybody who sells mulch for the garden (almost everyone has a lawn or patch of garden). There are lots of questions like that you could ask him but the point is just ot engage him in a little bit of conversation.
I believe you when you say you are madly in love with him but he'd probably be shocked to know that - since you hardly know him! It's something to keep in mind - you need to really know somebody to really love them.

Answer 3

1--- are you really in love with him if you havent really spoken to him? Or are you infatuated with his looks?

2-- a good idea would be to knock on his door and ask him for sugar. its very casual. if he lends you sugar, bring him some home made cookies that you made with that sugar. theres no better way to a mans heart than food.

3-- if he always waves and smiles, hes telling you that he's approachable. try going up to him and asking him how he's doing

Answer 4

sweety If U R to shy to say hi, how will you ever let him know how you care. In fact since you won't say hi he probably thinks you don't like him,.. It is totally up to you to do what your heart desires. So jump in or jump out of the fire Good Luck

Answer 5

you should find out if he got married. if not, you better jump, and fast if you feel you are in love with him. go up to him and start by asking how he likes the weather.
if he is now a married man, leave him alone!!!

Answer 6

..i think the appropriate term for you would be coward.. i'm sorry but that's how i weigh things.. why not try to just be yourself.. how could you prove him that you're for him if you can't even get to talk to him for a while.. you have to acquaint yourself with him.. there's no harm in trying.. if he says hello, then that would be a nice timing for you to talk to him.. have your heads up if you don't want to be just leave behind.. show him your perfect for him.. go girl..!

Answer 7

take a chance and look up and smile at him when you see him.
do you really want to wonder what could have been?

Answer 8

Move on!!