I met this guy a month ago. Then I realised that he has the hots for me. However, due to his charming, outgoing personality, many girls will throw themselves at him. I kinda feel insecure now. Becos there are text messages left in his hp or mailboxes by some woman. He said he is a sensible guy. What shld I do? We are not in a relationship yet but he are dating.
2007-03-25 20:37:20 · 8 answers · asked by lime 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont like fighting other girls for a man. I am just not born bitchy.
2007-03-25 20:49:08 · update #1
we are dating now.
2007-03-25 20:50:08 · update #2
if i were you, i would give it a shot, without emotionally attaching myself with him because he might not be what he says... and maybe if that girl is leaving him messages it's because there's something going on... then check his reactions when he's with you... if he gets all mysterious when he doesnt answer a call in front of you, and little things like that... then deep in ur heart you will know whats up...
2007-03-25 20:45:06 · answer #1 · answered by Rubi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop these women from sending him messages. But as long as he's not responding to them, you shouldn't worry.
But you mention that he's already dating someone else? If he's pursuing you while he's attached, then he'll likely pursue other women when you're dating him. If you really want to date this guy, make sure he's single before you start anything with him.
2007-03-26 03:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you have slept with him yet, but if you haven't, I strongly feel that once you do, he'll just add another notch to his belt because if he has serious feelings for you, he wouldn't have text messages etc. on his phone. I wouldn't trust him. If you have slept with him, GET OUT NOW.
2007-03-26 04:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by kazza_kazza_kazza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He says he is sensible. Trust him. Give him a chance with you. Fight hard for him from other girls.
2007-03-26 03:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on if u can trust him or not...i have like that, but i know i can trust him, i know im the only one he wants. and even i get insecure sometimes, its natural. but i know deep down that he's faithful. id say stay...give it a try if u like this guy. otherwise u will spend ur life wondering what if....
2007-03-26 03:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've only caught the fish, you can't feel jealousy until you real in your catch.
2007-03-26 03:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust him............if girls leave msgs its not his problem dear.............if he replies back then it is ur problem ok......
2007-03-26 03:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by Vns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will stay 'cause its not conformed yet
2007-03-26 03:44:44 · answer #8 · answered by Ms.pretty : ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋